♥[?]♥ Okay, here is my problem. I'm 13/f and I still like my ex as much as I did when he first asked me out. But I don't know if he still likes me in that way. Since we broke-up(which was a little over a week ago) he doesn't act the same around me. What really bothers me is that he doesn't open-up as much when I'm able to talk to him. He knows that I still really like him. What I really want to know, is how I can find out if he still likes me like he did before without straightout asking him.(I can't ask any of his friends because I don't know who they are I can only ask his older sister) please help!
This is a hard question to answer. And what makes it difficult is the fact that you will NEVER know what's in his heart without coming straight out and asking him. I realize that this isn't what you were wanting to hear, but I honestly say it's best if you ask him directly. I've always thought that if there's someone you find yourself interested in, the most productive thing to do is to approach them. Just be bold, be honest, and go for it. It's the *ONLY* way to know FOR SURE how he's feeling about you. You can sit and *ASSUME* his thoughts and feelings allll you want... but the truth is, that's STILL an *ASSUMPTION*! You'll never know exactly what's in his heart unless it's coming straight from his lovely lips! [:
Think about it this way: if you two aren't willing and/or able to have a mature and open conversation, how do you EVER expect to have a serious and committed relationship with him?? If you don't have communication and honesty... you've got nothing... Just a thought, for ya..
♥ Mackenzie ♥
Do you know any good quote sites? That show actual quotes from people that *most of us* have heard of? Nobody can give me a definite answer, and you seem to know about this stuff...?
Thnx
Of course I "remember" you!! What a silly thing to ask!! :P How are you??
And as far as websites and popular quotes go, I figure you're bound to find what you want at one of the following:
- http://www.wisdomquotes.com/
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=xx____qu0tezz
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=x_emo_quotes_x
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=quotes_4_yeew
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=flip_x_flop_quotesz
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=SiMpLe_SwEeTqUoTeS
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=love_quotzx3
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=SO_CUTE_CWOTES
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=AwesomeQuotesx
- http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/keywords/popular.html
Hopefully this helps ya!! Happie hunting!! :D
♥ Mackenzie ♥
♥[?]♥ I'm 12/f. At what age does an average girl start getting crushes on guys?
Nowadays you ask someone when their first kiss was, and they'll tell you 7. Personally, I don't count a "first kiss" unless they're at least 12/13+
However, for a simple crush, I believe it's different. I think that it's perfectly possible for someone to develop feelings for another at such an age as 7. We're only human, so to have a caring feeling towards another human being is a natural part of life.
I don't think there's any set age on a crush. I think whenever it happens.... it happens, and there couldn't be anything abnormal about it! (:
♥ Mackenzie ♥
♥[?]♥ You seem pretty good at this, so, can you gimme in detial as much as you can the best way to give a blow job. I've given a couple before, but I'm trying to find news things to do so my boyfriend will enjoy it more. :]
I'd like to help you, but the kind of detailed answer you'd like to receive violates the Advicenator's 'Terms Of Service'.
Sorry I can't be anymore help, but rules are rules.. Feel free to get ahold of me on AIM, if you wish. (:
♥ Mackenzie ♥
♥[?]♥ Kissing is nice :-D, but honestly...what in everyones opinion is the definition of "making out". I know that frenching is...but other htan that? Please be as clean w/ this as possible! haha! thanks!
I'm sure you'll get many different responses here, but I've always known "making out" to be 20+ second open mouth kisses, major tongue-age required. ;)
♥[?]♥ Could anyone give me a site where i can find backgrounds for my myspace?? please and thank you
Advicenators offers backgrounds. Did you know this? Check them out at:
- http://www.advicenators.com/backgrounds.php
If I'm ever in need of a background I search http://www.google.com under "FREE WEBSITE BACKGROUNDS". I did look up a few for you, though I'm not shore you'll value any of them, but here goes:
- http://www.bellsnwhistles.com/bkg8.html
- http://www.diamondrains.com
- http://cyberstyling.pavovision.com/free_backgrounds.html
- http://www.entheosweb.com/fireworks/background1.asp
- http://www.fau.edu/~parkerso/backgrounds.html
- http://www.starlightmks.com
- http://www.backgroundcity.com/
You could also try searching Xanga for them....
Also, if you'd be interested in a PREMADE layout, you might want to give these links a looking through:
-- http://myspace.nuclearcentury.com/
-- http://www.myspacelayouts.org/Blue-Layouts.php
-- http://myspaceforum.proboards35.com/index.cgi?board=layouts
Happie hunting!! :D
♥[?]♥ like to bacome a person who makes layouts for xanga do you have to regester or just get an xanga name???
Just register FOR a Xanga accoutnt. It takes no more than two seconds. Then you're good to begin. (:
Personally, I love Axe! It's probably one of my favorite scents! :D
♥[?]♥ Is there anyway of putting a different background on my advice column.. besides the ones they have.. and whats a good site and how you do it if you can.. much appreciated..
Entering a background is simple. First, you must have the URL of your background. If this image is an image you found online, RIGHT CLICK it, and go down to "PROPERTIES". Once you click on "PROPERTIES", copy ALLLLL of the "ADDRESS URL". Then, go to your "COLUMN SETTINGS" page (a few under your "INBOX") and PASTE that link (which you've just copied) inside the slot that says, "PAGE BACKGROUND IMAGE (URL)"
Now, if this image is some image from your computer, you have to have the imaged HOSTED in order to get the URL for it. You "host" something by going to: http://www.photobucket.com and SIGNING UP for a FREE account.
Then the page will refresh, and you should see a new page with an option to click on "BROWSE". Next, search your computer for the picture(s), and click "SUBMIT". Then the page will refresh yet again. You will see all/any images you happen to have on the new screen. Simply find the picture you want, and copy the PROVIDED URL in the TOP white slot. And of course, paste that where I told you on your "COLUMN SETTINGS" page.
Besides the Advicenators backgrounds, some other website suggestions for you would be:
- http://www.bellsnwhistles.com/bkg8.html
- http://www.diamondrains.com
- http://cyberstyling.pavovision.com/free_backgrounds.html
- http://www.entheosweb.com/fireworks/background1.asp
- http://www.fau.edu/~parkerso/backgrounds.html
- http://www.starlightmks.com
- http://www.backgroundcity.com/
You could also try searching Xanga for them....
Happie hunting!! :D
♥[?]♥ hey, does anyone know some of the font color codes for aim? thnx
You need to download what is called APPLESAUCE for this. You can download this at:
http://fileforum.betanews.com/detail/Applesauce/987092859/1
I'm in a bit of a dilemma as you could call it. Firstly, just to give you rhe facts, I have been speaking to this guy for a very long time. online 3 years to be exact. We've done countless phone calls, pictures, web cams, everything. Our parents have even spoke on the phone.
Anyway.. he lives in the US and I'm in Australia. We've been talking about meeting for ages, and it's finally happening. He's buying the tickets this tuesday. Thing is I'm feeling totally weird about it. He'll be staying here around 3 weeks (my mum okayed it suprisingly enough, but she took some convincing) We've wanted to meet for so long because we really feel deeply for each other, but now it's here I can't help but have second thoughts. He's 20 and I'm 17 btw, and he's a really religious guy so we're not going to get "up to anything" =P He's coming here to genuinely spend time with me. I keep thinking that we're gonna hate each other or something. =/
I'm just curious about what I should do. am I just nervous or is there something seriously wrong here? Should I go through with it or not?
Wow. What a position to be in.
I know I haven't been around to witness any/all magic between you two, but from the way you presented your dilemma, I can tell that you must really care for him. I know you're a little stressed and nervous over this, and I can NOT blame you for feeling that way. This is seemingly something you've dreamed of for a long time now, and I'm positive that you don't want it to be anything less than perfect, right? (:
I can definitely see why you would be worrying. It's very true that people are usually different on the phone compared to the way they act in person. However, if the two of you got along so well for so long in the past, I'd assume that it could only get better, right?? I think that you should consider this meeting a blessing. You have the remarkable chance to come face to face with someone that has had such a drastic impact on your life; someone who has undoubtedly been there for you, time after time; someone who offers nothing less than complete and uncondiational care. Now, you can not tell me that that doesn't mean a lot to you?? I say if you have this incredible opportunity, why would you want to deny it?
It's only natural to fear that you might dislike each other. And I'd be lying to say that the possibilty doesn't exist, because it does. However, I have faith in you to believe that you have picked a real winner here. I know that you're wise enough to be able to sense a jerk when you come upon one. If you have known him for so long... I'm almost positive that I can rest assure that he's not some judgemental asshole. If he cares for you so much ALREADY, he'd have to be absolutely out of his mind to disrespect you NOW, after being through so much, after flying such a distance, and spending so much money.
He's the one buying the tickets, right? Now, don't you think that he's thought about the fact that he may not like you!?!? Of course he has!! But he's still willing to spend his money purchasing tickets, isn't he?? And the USA to Australia can not be cheap! :P Sounds to me like worrying that he may not like you is not even a consideration here. He must not think anything of it - he just doesn't care!! He knows that there's more important things than a person's physical appearrance. And besides, you're ALREADY beautiful to him, trust me. All he wants is to see you; just to see the person that means the world to him.
I suggest going through with it.
I doubt it's a once in a lifetime opportunity, becase I've always been one to believe that if it was MEANT TO BE... it WILL BE, ya know? Taking that into consideration, it's my guess that even if you DIDN'T see him this time around...... that if it was truly meant to be... another chance will turn-up. However, it may not be for a very very long time, and you have to be willing to accept that fact.
Or what if you don't go through with this, and the opportunity to see him again DOESN'T come about?? Sure, life will go on.. but you'll forever wonder about him. You'll wonder where he is. You'll wonder who he's with. You'll wonder what he is doing. You'll wonder if he is happie. And maybe you'll wonder if he's married with kids. You'll also wonder what could have become.. IF.. you two had taken the chance to meet when it was there. I don't know about you, but living my life with such a large regret doesn't sound very pleasant to me. But, maybe that's just me?
The important thing to remember, is that it's YOUR decision, and no one else can feel FOR you. If you're having doubts, I suggest talking it over with him. Just tell him how you're feeling, and see what he can make of this all. Perhaps together, the two of you can come to some sort of conclusion.
But goodluck deciding. Hopefully things work out. Know that you can always come to me if you ever feel the need. [:
♥ Mackenzie ♥
(If you're willing to come back and tell me how things turned out or what your decision was, I'd be more than thrilled for an update! :])
♥[?]♥ How do i get a guy with a girlfriend to like me and ask me out??
Not to come across as rude, but why would you want to?
If you succeed in getting an ALREADY INVOLVED guy to be with YOU, then who's to say that he won't ditch YOU for SOMEONE ELSE, just as he'd be doing to this OTHER GIRL!?!
I mean, come on now. Do you REALLY long to be in HER spot?? ...Just something to think about.
If you ask me, you're only setting yourself up for a doomed relationship and certain heartache. :(
♥[?]♥ is there a code to put pictures on your advice cloumn? and id there one to put music on your advice cloumn? if anyone has the code for them, could you please give them to me? thank you!
Unforutnately, no. HTML is currently disabled, so those codes are no longer being accepted..
♥[?]♥ k does ne1 no how to get those ♥ thingys i had to copy and paste this 1. thanks i'll rate 5s for working awnsers.
Simple:
& hearts ;
Only, delete the TWO EMPTY spaces.
♥[?]♥ I was wanted to know if girl like guys that are kind, nice, and polity. anserw and i give high rating.
Definitely. I'm very attracted to nice males, soft-spoken and well-mannered. :)
Me and this girl are gettin do be good friends she is really sweet and fun to be around with. I want to get to know her even more. How do i do that?
Sincerly,
~Miss. Priss~
This may seem like a lame answer, but just talk to her. You said you want to get to know her... so ask a lot of questions. Then ask questions ABOUT THOSE questions.
Ask her birthday, her favorite holiday. Ask her WHY it's her favorite holiday. Ask what the best birthday present she ever received was. Ask about her siblings - age, name, school and so on. Ask her favorite food. Ask her LEAST favorite foods. Ask her favorite restuarants. Ask what her favorite dish at that restuarant IS. Ask if she's ever seen snow. Ask if she likes to shovel snow. Ask if she likes to sled. Ask where she sees herself in ten years. Ask what names she likes most. Ask her pet peeves, and ask WHY those ARE her pet peeves. Ask what her favorite board games are. Then tell her what YOURS are. Branch off the topics you create, ya know?
Anyhow, those were just some sample questions, but do you see what I'm getting at? Purpose a question to her. And question WHY her answer is what it is. It might all seem like useless information, but if you really have an interest in her.. it should all matter to you. :)
♥ Mackenzie ♥
♥[?]♥ Does anyone have any quotes about life or inspirational or optimism that they wouldn't mind giving? Thanks ahead of time!
Here's a page I thought you might find helpful:
-- http://www.inspirational-quotes.info/ :)
♥[?]♥ does anyone know the link to a website where you put a link in your AIM profile that says something like... "Love and sex quiz" and it will "tell you what your love/sex life will be like" and then it asks you about your crush and you answer other questions then it sends it to the persons e-mail??? sorry if this is unclear :/
I know what you're talking about. I fell for that for the first time four years ago, and I put the person whose quiz it was. Now, I'm open with my feelings, so if I ever like someone.. I'll tell them directly. However, the one and only time I've ever in my life wanted to keep my feelings from a boy secret to him...... I was tricked into revealing it. I seriously cried for hours. Heh - just something to think about. :X Anyhow, your link would be http://www.crush007.com
♥[?]♥ So is it true what they say, that once you are friends with a girl you are trapped in the friend zone forever, and it will never grow into something more? or is it just a myth?
Let's keep it short, and sweet: Best friends make the best lovers. ;D [:
♥[?]♥ i like my friend and i cant stop thinking about hehr but i dont know if she likes me back what should i do?
This may not be what you're wanting to hear, but I suggest asking her directly. I've always thought that if there's someone you find yourself interested in, the most productive thing to do is to approach them. Just be bold, be honest, and go for it. It's the *ONLY* way to know for sure how she may be feeling about you. You can sit and *ASSUME* her thoughts and feelings allll you want... but you'll never know exactly what's in her heart unless it's coming straight from her lovely lips! [:
