Okay, here is my problem. I'm 13/f and I still like my ex as much as I did when he first asked me out. But I don't know if he still likes me in that way. Since we broke-up(which was a little over a week ago) he doesn't act the same around me. What really bothers me is that he doesn't open-up as much when I'm able to talk to him. He knows that I still really like him. What I really want to know, is how I can find out if he still likes me like he did before without straightout asking him.(I can't ask any of his friends because I don't know who they are I can only ask his older sister) please help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Mackenzie answered Monday October 24 2005, 11:50 pm: This is a hard question to answer. And what makes it difficult is the fact that you will NEVER know what's in his heart without coming straight out and asking him. I realize that this isn't what you were wanting to hear, but I honestly say it's best if you ask him directly. I've always thought that if there's someone you find yourself interested in, the most productive thing to do is to approach them. Just be bold, be honest, and go for it. It's the *ONLY* way to know FOR SURE how he's feeling about you. You can sit and *ASSUME* his thoughts and feelings allll you want... but the truth is, that's STILL an *ASSUMPTION*! You'll never know exactly what's in his heart unless it's coming straight from his lovely lips! [:
Think about it this way: if you two aren't willing and/or able to have a mature and open conversation, how do you EVER expect to have a serious and committed relationship with him?? If you don't have communication and honesty... you've got nothing... Just a thought, for ya..
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