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boyfriend...ex boyfriend... :/ so confused
kay..well i hve a boyfriend that im COMPLETELY in love with...we've been together for half a year...and i couldnt be happier...except..i cant stop thinking about my ex. my ex broke my heart so many times...and i was so in lov with him...i didnt get over him for two and a half years..and i gues im still not over him...he flirts w/ me alot..and talks about our pass and says he misses me..and i miss him too. i dont kno what to do...i absolutely cannot make myself stop thinking about him...i cant beleeve i miss him so much..i think i still love him..after all, he was my first love..and i kno its normal to never forget your first love..but this is different...i think i still love him..and i HATE it..i feel so horrible..please help..
signed..allison
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thinking about him is normal but if you are happy where you are then stay there. there is a great chance that if you go back out that he will hurt you agian.
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ok well this is my first time giving advice so deal with me...I'm going through the same thing you're going through...I think you should just listen to your heart and let your heart decide who to be with...If your ex broke your heart all these times then there is no sense in going back through that again but just sit down and talk to your ex about that and tell him how you feel and see what he says and then go from there...hope this helps you out some!!
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You cannot be completely in love with your current boyfriend until you let go of your ex. And if you can't do that, then maybe you should consider your options.
Your ex broke your heart. Yes, while you were in love, and think you might still be, why throw away a totally good relationship to something that might end up the same way it did in the past? There will ALWAYS still be a part of you that loves him. Always. You just need to figure out if it's worth giving up what you've got now to find out if it will work. I wouldn't give up a 6 month relationship for an old flame, but like someone else said, weigh the pros and the cons.
Good luck!
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Hi There,
To add on to what has been said one of the things I always sugguest is making a list. Sounds corny I know- but make a list of pros and cons of each guy...at the end of this list try picturing your life without your boyfriend- as if he wasn't ever there...and then do it for your ex. In the end no matter what results the choice is yours. Choose what you feel is right. Maybe you shouldn't be with either man- and spend some time alone to realize what you truly want. Decide for yourself whether it's good or bad it's your choice- and you should be proud in that aspect.
Goodluck
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Well Allison it sounds like you never ever got over your ex, but he did get over you. You might wanna look at what you are getting into. You love two guys, but which do you love more. Your current boyfriend should know how you feel about your ex, its just not fair to him if you know you still love your ex, because then you aren't devoting yourself to him. Also I think you should check why your ex is flirting with you, is he still in love with you or is he just lonely at the moment, don't get me wrong he could totally still be in love with you, but make sure, you don't want to jeapordize what you have now for something that won't last. Good luck and best wishes.
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how do you think your in love with both?
put your bfs name on 1 side of a sheet of paper, then put your ex on the other side. on each of their sides put likes, and dislikes. See who comes out on top!!
1st loves are hard to get over, but it sounds like you really love this guy youre with!
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