♥[?]♥ My boyfriend's brother's funeral was today and after it was all over with he wanted to go to Astroworld (an amusment park). I thought it was totally unappropriate because I thought he should have been with his family. But, I went anyways, for him. His brother had committed suicide and my bf never had any room in his life for suicide. Still though, it was his brother, ya know? Do you guys think that it was weird that he wanted to go there after his brother's funeral?
Not so much. Everyone has their own way of coping with things, and if his way is trying to block it all out, then that's his choice. And maybe he WON'T be able to block it all out forever, he'll eventually have to come to terms with what happened. I believe the griefing process is a very personal and private matter. I really don't see how it would be fair for someone to tell him that the way he deals with his emotional pain is 'wrong' or 'inappropriate' if it's not hurting anyone, ya know? (:
♥[?]♥ hi im running the mile tommorrow in school, and i was wondering how I could get a better time. i'm a 13/m, around 5'2", 99lbs. last year i got like 7min 16sec, but i would really like to get under 7minutes this year. any tips on how to get a better time? (when to sprint, when to job.. etc?)
Thanks in Advance.
All fives.
I found some websites that provide tips and and techniques to help your performance:
- http://www.oztrack.com/tips.htm
- http://www.eliteathletetraining.com/Tips/Agility.aspx
- http://www.rrca.org/publicat/walkrun.html
- http://www.macecanada.com/tips/jogging.htm
- http://www.posetech.com/library/pp-RW-0001.html
♥[?]♥ Can anyone give me websites to get shoes?. I like skater shoes.
thanks in advance
I know these stores offer cute shows:
- http://vans.com/index2.html
- http://www.burlingtoncoatfactory.com/IWCatSectionView.process?Section_Id=1940&lc=ln
- http://journeys.com/
- http://www.torrid.com/store/nodePage.asp?LS=0&RN=208
- http://jcpenney.com/jcp/default.aspx
Goodluck deciding. :)
♥[?]♥ does anybody know what foods make your boobs or but grow i think rasberrys make boobs grow but idk
There's really nothing you can do to make your breasts bigger. They offer vitamins which promise to do this, however they are not recommend to children. How old are you anyways, Hun?? If you are a younger teenager, I don't suggest you bother worrying about this. Chances are you still have many years left to develop, and you're breasts don't stop growing until you're around 19 or so. This honestly isn't a big deal; you probably have PLENTY of time. You'll fill out, and things will be fine, I promise! :D
♥[?]♥ okay i have been wondering my whole life what Mono is. Can someone please explain it to me?
I found a page that I think you will find helpful. I'm sure it'll answer all of your questions.
http://familydoctor.org/077.xml
♥[?]♥ I have gym first period this year...ouch!! I use Smooth and Dri Deoderant now and it doesn't keep me from sweating in class or in gym class. My mom says my expectations are all wrong and that no deoderant can keep you from sweating in gym. Is she right?? I need help!!! I heard of Certain Dri. Can that help me in gym?
This is a big problem for me also, so I know how you feel; I've been there, and it's not good. I reccommend using an antiperspirant deodorant [such as Suave], followed by regular baby powder. The antiperspirant helps to reduce sweating, or at least is said to, but in our case... never does. Now, you hgave to remember that no deodorant is 100% guaranteed. But after I put on my deodorant, I apply baby powder will close the pores of your under arm -- more or less trapping the sweat in, so to speak. Honestly, this almost ALWAYS works for me, but there *ARE* days when it's simply not good enough, and that can be a pain in the butt, so I usually make a point of carrying some sort of jacket. Hearing that, there's this product people are always talking about on this site [but I believe that's from "Monkey See, Monkey Do"], but it's even advertised on television. It's called CertainDri. Now, they say it can be purchased at Wal-greens, RiteAid, CVS, and Walmart, however, EVERY SINGLE TIME I've been to the store looking for it, I've never seen it on the shelves. Naturally, this leads me to ask an employee where I can find it, and they *always* tell me they've NEVER heard of it, and they do not carry the product... which just leaves you speechless and with a feeling of, 'what now?' If the problem persists, perhaps you should consult a physician, who can supply you with proper medication. Also, he can give you shots that kind of close up your pores, so sweating never really happens again. I'm not shore if that's an option for you, but I recommend asking him for more information. But whatever you decide to do, goodluck from someone who knows EXACTLY what you're going through!!
♥[?]♥ oaky i have a RLY bad sweating problem! At school i sweat like heck and i cant help it! by the end of the day i have HUGE oit stains! Ive tried many different deoderants....first i started out with avon and then i tried secret (( the strong and invisable kind)) and now im using avon sport...none of them will work!!! please help me! what is a very strong deoderant???
This is a big problem for me also, so I know how you feel; I've been there, and it's not good. I reccommend using an antiperspirant deodorant [such as Suave], followed by regular baby powder. The antiperspirant helps to reduce sweating, or at least is said to, but in our case... never does. Then the baby powder will close the pores of your under arm -- more or less trapping the sweat in, so to speak. Honestly, this almost ALWAYS works for me, but there *ARE* days when it's simply not good enough, and that can be a pain in the butt, so I usually make a point of carrying some sort of jacket. Hearing that, there's this product people are always talking about on this site [but I believe that's from "Monkey See, Monkey Do"], but it's even advertised on television. It's called CertainDri. Now, they say it can be purchased at Wal-greens, RiteAid, CVS, and Walmart, however, EVERY SINGLE TIME I've been to the store looking for it, I've never seen it on the shelves. Naturally, this leads me to ask an employee where I can find it, and they *always* tell me they've NEVER heard of it, and they do not carry the product... which just leaves you speechless and with a feeling of, 'what now?' If the problem persists, perhaps you should consult a physician, who can supply you with proper medication. Also, he can give you shots that kind of close up your pores, so sweating never really happens again. I'm not shore if that's an option for you, but I recommend asking him for more information. But whatever you decide to do, goodluck from someone who knows EXACTLY what you're going through!!
♥[?]♥ this question may be a little weird, but, i just need to know as many possible showering ruitines as possible.
1)How often do you shower?
2)girls- when you shave, when do you? Because i find it kind of hard to shave with the water frmo the shower head running over my legs and the shaving cream being watered all off
3)when it comes to shampoo, conditioner, soap, shaving, etc, what do you do first..like in order?
haha thank you guys itll help!
1] I shower once everyday.
2] And I say it's best to shave once every two to three days. This way, it'll assist in keeping away that nasty razor that noone is good friends with. ;)
3] And I shampoo first. Then, I use conditioner to get out any little tangles that might have been created during the shampooing process. However, if you're finding to have many knots in your hair, conditioning first would be a better idea.
Interesting question. :)
♥[?]♥ my boyfriend really wants to have sex...i think i love him and i really want to too. i am just so nervous...she i wait?or should i just go for it?protection? andy advice...?¿
This may seem like a lame answer, but if you are the least bit unsure in your mind, I don't advise going through with this. Honestly, what's the rush?? Are you afraid he will leave you if you say no to him? And if that's the case, then you need to do yourself a favor and kick his butt to the curb. And if that's NOT a fear of yours, then why rush things? I mean, if he REALLY and TRULY cares for you, you two should have a long long long time together ahead of you, yes? Why must you do it now, when you're so unsure?
You never mentioned your age, but I'm going to guess 14-15. Not to come off as rude, but being sexually active is a BIG BIG decision, and it must be gone about properly and responsibly. It's NOT all fun and games! Unprotected sex is a serious matter with major consquences, some possibly fatal!! You will risk PREGNANCY, you will risk STD's, you will risk AIDS. Now tell me, do ANY of those sound FUN to you?? No. If you feel that you simply can not handle a baby at this point in your life, then you really should use protection. Just think about this, and use your head, please! [:
♥[?]♥ I have a little crush on Adam Brody from the OC. Is it normal to get a crush on an actor as long as you don't go nutso (which I don't)?
Sure. Many females have their celebrity perferences. And why not? If it's not hurting anybody, then you're perfectly fine. :D
It's basically slang for being in agreeance, that's all. (:
♥[?]♥ what is that one site that tells you how to make out?
These are some that I know of:
- http://www.links2love.com/teens_kissing.htm
- http://www.partyhearty.com/kissingadvice.html
- http://www.virtualkiss.com/kissingschool/
♥ Mackenzie ♥
♥[?]♥ What is your favorite perfume? What perfumes do guys like best?
My favorite perfume is Liz Claiborne's "Mambo". And as to what perfume guys perfer, I hate to answer you like this, but it really just depends on the guy. It's all a matter of personal taste. I've never heard any complaints from the men while I'm wearing my "Mambo". ;D
♥[?]♥ i like this girl and we have been bf and gf before we talk 2 each other each day should i ask her out again
Go get 'em, Tiger! ;D
♥[?]♥ My dance iz comin upp!! i have to choices on wat to wear.. I could wear RIPPED JEANS N A SHIRT or A SHORT SKIRT WITH SOME HIGH HEELS. what would you perfer?
Well, I'm sure you look just fine in your ripped jeans, but I'd say a skirt and heels are more suitable for a dance. :)
♥[?]♥ if i ask a question on here like just a random one like this can you see who its from?
Only Level 2 and Level 3 Moderators can see who is asking the questions around here. And that is done for safety reasons. There are only 16 Level 2 and Level 3 Moderators, combined, out of over 10,000 columnists. So, unless you plan on asking for help on something insanely harmful and/or illegal, you shouldn't have anything to worrie about. (:
♥[?]♥ hey is it true that when you sleep you're supposed to take your bra off?
There is no rule that says you must, because there isn't a scientificly proven fact declaring that sleeping with or without a bra is harmful. Just do whatever you're comfortable with. (:
