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I`m Desiree

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i`m 17 years old

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has anyone ever tried the thing where they put eggs on there face for a mask? does it work?

work for what? ♥ Dez.. I know i didn`t answer your question i`m just wondering what its suppose to do..

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what is a scene person or whatever. like the label. or whatever its called. =] j/w. thanks. i have an idea wat it means but im not sure.

Maybe its means their really drmatic about things and blow things out of proportion.. ♥ Dez *by the way just a guess*

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okay well i have this friend who im like super close to, and i have known him for almost a year now. i like really love this kid. but anyways we always say we love eachother and (he lives in nj and i live in ny) he says that when he gets his car we're gunna "have some fun" and all that kind of stuff. and today he just told me that he fooled around with one of his friends and now everbody hates him. and i cant help but be mad because i really like him and now im kindof mad at him. Im going to call him in a lil bit so we can actually talk but should i be mad at him .. if you were in my shoes would you be mad. i liek REALLLYYYY like him (more than a friend). plzz help. i rate high..*

Yes i`d be mad but in a jealously way.. thats probably how your feeling..You shouldn`t be mad becuz well he`s not your boyfriend..I`d tell him how you feel *liking him and everything* not about him messing with a girl.. Maybe he`ll respect how you feel better if you mentioned how you feel and he won`t tell you those things.. ♥ Dez

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i'm having a hard time forgetting about my ex-boyfriend. we were 2gether 4 five months, and within that 5 months, i started to 'love' him. we broke up 3 months ago, but i still really do like him A LOT, but he likes somebody else. i've been trying SO HARD for the past 3 months to stop thinking about him, but everytime i try, there's always something that stops me from it: memories of us 2gether always 'flashbacks' in my mind.

how can i 4get about him??

Hmmm..This is a tuffy..
Well getting over boyfriends is always hard ofr us females..Our emotions take over us so freakin easy and i hate it.. We don`t deal with breakups good at all.. Tryin to forget about him is deff. going to take awhile.. Maybe try hanging out with friends or joining a sport to get your mind off him will make the time go by faster and before you know it puff he`ll be forgotten.. *well not forgotten but maybe you won`t think about him so much*..

I`d wouldn`t ever suggest moving on to another relationship cuz that could just lead to another broken heart and then you`d keep continuing to more broken hearts to forget about a guy.. *Hope that made sense* ♥ Dez

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I asked a girl to the winter formal dance a few days ago. She got really excited and was taken totally surprised and started bragging to all of her friends. Her actual words were "Let me check my schedule to be sure that I don't have something, but it sounds like a lot of fun." Oh my goodness thank you for asking me. Hug. Here I am thinking SCORE!
Well, aparrently not. The next day she pulls me aside and says that she's really sorry but she has something that night that she absolutely cannot get out of (independly confirmed, she really does have something that she can't get out of). Oh my goodness, she's so sorry, she was so excited to get asked that she told all of her friends. I'm a really nice guy. If there was another dance ("You're a Junior, right?" read: PROM) she'd be honored to go. She feels so sorry and she's really bad at this because she's never been asked to anything before and she's so sorry she doesn't know what she's doing. I made her day/week/month. Etc. Etc. So I mention that maybe there's something else she might want to do another night. She says "Well, there's plenty of time to think about that." Bounds off.
I am really confused. Do I cut my losses and move on or is she interested? How do I approach the situation when I run into her tomorrow? If she's interested will she come after me now or what? I don't want to be the guy that can't take the hint, but at the same time... I really don't understand what just happened.

i think you might have to approach her..Wow this girl sounds annoying.. But maybe thats something you find cute dunno.. But Yea hun I`d ask her to do something with you one day ask her to pick the specific day if she actually wants to do it.. Like get something to eat after school to talk *cheap food mcdonalds or something*..go to the movies..chill at one of eachothers houses or something.. If she blows you off i`d toss her aside and find another girl.. ♥ Dez

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my boyfriend asked me if he could touch me in 'places'. what exactly could that mean?
i'm 13/f in the 8th grade.. HELP

Wow your pretty young.. Well hun he wants you to probably touch you on your vagina and breast.. Your personal body parts.. If your not comfortable with it i`d tell him no.. Don`t feel pressured to do something cuz he wants you too..Your still young and have a while to experience all the stuff later.. ♥ Dez

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While making out.. do guys like it when the girl sort of tickles/touches/rubs "down there" over his pants? Does it turn him on, or is it just annoying? Or does it not do anything for them? Thanks.

Yes guys like it.. But if your just going to tease them and not do nothing i would think he`ll get mad.. And it would probably get him hard and horny.. ♥ Dez

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2 questions...17/f...ok
1) List some pregnancy signs i know everyones different and not all the signs happen to everyone but please list them so i know what they are??
2) OK i know you can get an abortion without telling your parents by going through court..so can if you have ever had one or no someone who has done it this way..please let me know how i can do this?
thanks xoxo
FHOHIL

..1*Well when your pregnant first sign always is missing a period morning sickness change in appitite sometimes you crave things you never really eat or some smells of things make you sick easily..

..2*I don`t know really about gettin an abortion without parents.. if you want to do it through court i`d call a court house and ask some questions before actually doing it.. If your considering to have this done you can only do it if your so many weeks/months pregnant..

..Suggestion*instead of gettin an abortion why don`t you have this child and put it up for adoption.. ♥ Dez

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ok i play basket ball and i have a game in a couple of days and i am on my period and i wear a white jersery with whight shorts and i am scrared that ill leak and it will show up all on my shhorts so how do let it dont leak out

Well if possible wear a tampon and a pad you should be fine til the game is over.. or maybe check yourself when your not playing or something.. Just change yourself before the game and afterwards hun no worries.. ♥ Dez

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ok well i wore my ring to sleep last night i usually don't but i kinda forgot to take it off and today just a few min ago my thumb here the ring is on my finger is like a greenish black. Why? Is this good or bad? What shoud i do?

it means its fake.. ♥ Dez

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OK for anyone that can help me.
Every time me & my husben have sex & I have an orgasam its like a water fall. I have had sex with outher guys & I never had this problem and its not like it just happens onces it will happen 2 or 3 times. One night I had to make him stop becouse I could not handle it any more I felt realy bad about it. thanks pooh bear

Hmmm.. This is very rare and you should feel lucky and enjoy it while he can still get it up... ♥ Dez

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is it weird to ask your boyfriend whether you turn him on?? he's quite a good boy and we never discuss anything like that.. however, i'm really curious as to whether he finds me desirable at all. is this a weird thing to just ask out of the blue?

No not at all.. ask him just make sure your like together or just on the phone.. ♥ Dez

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ok i shave down there and its nice and smooth for a bit but then the next day it grows back again and all prickly, and i always cut myself and it goes rashy sometimes how do i get it smooth and to stay like that for longer coz im going away on holiday with my boyfriend and we might have sex (for my first time)and i dont want it to grow back the next day and him see or feel it all rough.
please help ill rate high thanx
xxx

This is completely normal.. you might want to shve that area every other day.. ♥ Dez

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14/f
im looking for furniture that has to do with surfing or the ocean or beach, etc. and i don't know where to look im redecorating my whole room i already looked at pbteen online but is there any furniture stores/stuff online or anything that i am looking for

ps. please don't tell me to go to google and type in ocean theme room or w/e
THANKS!!
pps i rate 5s easily ;)

I love the idea.. I was at dillards recently last week and there was this baby blue like ocean water with dolphins on it.. it was so pretty check out there... ♥ Dez

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ok im with this guy and weve been together for 1 month and i am so ready to have sex with him and i really do trust him and weve spoken about sex so many times but after how many months do u think i should actually have sex i dont want to have it too early..
please answer thanx
ill rate high
xxx

Jst have sex when your comfortable.. There isn`t a limit of how long to be with somebody before having sex with somebody.. ♥ Dez

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is it possible to like two guys? see i like both alot but i also like one A LITTLE more than the other but i still like both! lol confusing

Yes its possible.. ♥ Dez

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k how do i get my eyelashes darker and thicker and kinda get them to pop out (my eyes)

Mascara.. Covergirl ♥ Dez

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If you had a choice would you get a BMW or Corvette?

BMW baby! ♥ Dez

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what are some good songs in between the lines of rock and r&b any kind will do except country and oldies

hmmmmm..
Lean wit it,Rock wit it*Dem franchize boys
I think they like me *REMIX *Dem franchize boyz
Stickwityou*Pussycat dolls
So lonely*Twista ft Mariah Carey
Get it wet*Twista
Emotions*Twista
Slow Jam*Twists ft.Jamie Foxx
Rock-a-bye*black buddafly
One wish*ray J
One and a million*Aaliyah
Miss you*aaliyah
4 page letter*aaliyah
Dear mama*tupac
Curious*Tony Yayo
Don`t trip*trina
Here we go*trina ft.kelly rowland
betta half *Ginuwine
pony*ginuwine
differences*ginuwine
into you*fabulous
breathe*fabulous
make her feel good*teairra mari
should of cheated*keyshia cole
sweet lady*tyrese
how you gonna act like that *tyrese
signs of love makin *tyrese
put that women first*jaheim
backtight*jaheim
Do you?*do or die *people seem to love even tho its old
We belong together*mariah carey
dont forget about us*mariah carey
ya`ll heard of me*c murder
never let go*pretty ricky
your body*pretty ricky
one million times..gerald levert
i should be*dru hill
♥ Dez thats all i could think of

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what does it mean to be anemic? my friend used to be and she thinks i am now...i don't eat red meat and i always get these really big bruises, that don't really hurt, but i don't know how i get them? and they don't go away for a week or 2. does anyone know what's going on?

Yes its from not havin enoough iron.. Most people who don`t eat meat are anemic.. My cousin is and she usually gets cold.. Yea this could also cause you to bruise easily from something simple and you might of just ignored it cuz it wasn`t anything big.. I`d see a doctor and find out if you are.. i mean they`ll probably just tell you that you need more protein.. ♥ Dez

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