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My boyfriend broke up with me today. And he did it because he thinks I love my ex still. And that I don't love him...enough. But he wants us to be "friends" still. How am I to deal?
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well.... do you still love your ex? if you do.. then you should go out with your ex and not him... but if you really do love him... talk to him... or maybe the best bet is to just be friends because he could just be using an excuse to brake up with you... theres really no way to deal with it... maybe you should just go out shopping with your friends today to get your mind off it
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I find myself easily stressed out and being that I'm only 15 this must not be a good thing. I feel like I have no time to do all the things I need to do, with my life, with school work, a job, home with babysitting and I find myself unable to relax. I don't know what to do to relax. Any suggestions. Thank You. (link)
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ok... you should make a planner... set certain time for studying and certain time for tv... treat yourself to something everyweek like a manicure or a day shopping with friends... you can listen to those nature cd things and you know those stress balls... you can get one.. if your feeling angry just scream into your pillow, it really works. hope i helped =]
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My boyfriend and i have been dating for the past 5 months. We go to the same high school, but next year he is going to a public school and leaving me at the private school we both go to now. He has had sex before and i havent. He wants me to but i tell him im not ready and he says he can wait. I love him so much and he tells me he loves me to, i just am nervous to have sex with him and then he will leave. and i dont want the condom to break and im stuck having a kid. Plus the main promblem is what will god think of me? Please Help!!!!!!!!! (link)
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just stick your ground... he sounds like he respects your opinion cauz he said he'll wait... if he asks you to have sex again just say... "i love you... but there are so many consquemces and things could go wrong... plus its not a good thing for my religion." tell him everything you feel.. if he really loves you... he'll understand.
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Ok well I had a crush on a guy at school (a new kid) and I told my best friend (steph) and not (viv) I didnt tell her because I know she would do something stupid. Well steph knew the guy and talked him ad found some stuff about him 4 me. But then when viv found she got mad at me but then brushed it of then she did the stupidest thing she thought it would be funny if wrote this guy a nasty note and put y name all over it so she did it without telling me and then the next class when he was in my class he through it aint me and thought it was all me because it had my name all over I didnt say anything because I didn’t know what was even written on the note. So I told viv I didn’t want to talk to her again ands hen then started takin all my friends away from me and my ASB teacher started to notice that I wasnt with viv and started questioning me about it everyday until finally on the 3rd day I gave up and I showed him what has been happenin he called it sexual harrassment and said I should have to deal wit it so he gave it to the AP and viv got 2 weeks of cleanin bathrooms and in school suspension and for some reason I feel guilty I don’t know y but I do. Did I do the wrong thing? We on spring break and when we start school again I don’t know what to do can u plz help me? Sry for it bein so long! If you answer it I will give you 5’s!! please and thank you. (link)
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well... viv could be mad because maybe she likes the same guy you do... and that you didn't tell her... did you explain to her why you didn't tell her?... i don't think you should be friends with her... it sounds like she's jealous of you... and you definetly deserve a better friend than her... yyou didn't do anything wrong... your teacher was the one who turned viv in... maybe you should talk to your crush about this and tell him it wasn't you and that you really like him alot... and maybe you'll hit it off =] hope i helped
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I am 13, I live in The Conroe area in Texas and I am very sexually active. It seems as if all my guy friends preasure me to do it. Like my friend Kellen... he always pushes himself up on me and I try to say NO but he does it anyways... once we start It doesn't really bother me.. but I really wanta stop!! and every1 asks me if I like Kellen or if we did have sex I always try to deny it cause I don't know what to do... Kellen's friedn Andy, always trys to have sex with me too! but I don't know! I don't want it to happen! what can I do to get them to stop? PLEASE help me! (link)
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ok... i think you should take some action... if they're not gonna listen to you when you say stop then you should show them that you can be a great friend with out having to have sex with them... or you should just stop hanging out with them... make sure they know you really don't want them to keep doing that and maybe you can tell a trusted adult if things get worse... hope i helped
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ok..i really like this guy ...he is perfect..but the only problem is that he is in 7th grade and im in 8th should that stop me from liking him?
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no way... i have a boyfriend who's in 6th grade... and im in 7th and i love him and it doesn't matter what grade their in... as long as you truly like him .. thats all that counts.. my boyfriends really sweet so i say... go out with him
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there is this guy and i like him so much. We used to go out. We went out the whole summer. After we broke up, we havent talked since. We see each other all the time, and he stares at me sometimes, but never talks. We even hang out with the same people at church. The bad thing is, he has a girlfriend. We went on a ski trip with our church a month ago, and there was this girl who liked him, and when someone asked if he liked her (he had a girlfriend on this trip too) he was like "no i would never go out with her" but then like 2 weeks ago someone asked him if he would ever go back out with me and he said "umm .. i got a girlfriend". so he didnt say yes or no. i want to go up and talk to him wednesday, but im so scared. Do you think he still likes me and what should i say if i go up and talk to him? SORRY ITS LONG, BUT I RATE 5'S!! (link)
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well ... there's a possibility that he misses you and still likes you... i don't think you should go up to him and be like "omg i love you!!! be my boyfriend pleasee!!" i think first you should just ask to be friends so you can get to know each other better and then once things get going ... let him know you still have feelings for him
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this guys keeps calling me prude. i just dont want to waste my first kiss on someone i dont care about. do you think i should just kiss someone and get it over with or just keep waiting for the perfect moment and the perfect guy. i am 14 years old. please help. (link)
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you should definetly wait ... no one should wanna just waste their first kiss.. you have your own opinion so don't let any1 call you a prude... cauz in the end... they'll regret that their first kiss stunk and yours was perfect
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im 16 and had a baby 3 months ago today.my mum and dad are strict catholics and demanded that me and my baby)s father to get married.well me and the babys father split. so my mum and dad were like "i told u so". i left home and moved into a council flat.i have got exams this yaer and im finding it so hard.even tho i have paid childcare thoughtout the day im so tired to do anything.my mum said that i had her and so shes my responsability.im getting desperate now and even thought about adoption.has anyone got any good advica on how to cope. the last thing i want to do is say to my mum that she was right.sorry its long. (link)
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first i just want to say that im sooo proud of you... you didn't take the easy way out and get an abortion... i think you should make a planner... like set certain times of the day when you are going to study.. and then set certain times when you will play with your baby... maybe all you need to do is tell your mom she's right... don't waste years not talking to her when you can have her there helping you with your baby and watching your baby when you have to study and do stuff for school and yourself... hope everything works out for you
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ok....i like this guy ALOT and he likes another girl....my best friend is trying to hook us up...i find out that he might end up liking me but he doesnt know me well enough....now i am really embaressed to see him in person...am i being too pushy?
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uhh... you may be being too pushy... i mean,,, you can't force someone to fall for you... you have to just wait and see where the cards fall... i think you should ask your friend to stop trying to hook you guys up... it might be a turn off to him... then just go out with a bunch of people to the movies and invite him also... hope things work out for you... but if he is really in love with his girlfriend then just let things stay the way they are.. hope i helped
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I like this guy.. lets call him B.. and whenever i'm around him i get butterflies in my stomach.. then if im sad or upset..he's the only one that can cheer me up! is this Love?
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butterflies are usually only temporary... but ive got the butterflies when im around my boyfriend since i was in 4th grade... and if he's the only one you think about and you really miss him... then yea.. it could be love but if the butterflies are temporary... it could be just a crush... ask him out.. also, its love if he feels the same way =]
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okay, i really need tips on how to get better sleep, and wake up feeling refresed (link)
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ok... i got this off the internet...
Maintain a regular bed and wake time schedule, including weekends.
Establish a regular, relaxing bedtime routine such as soaking in a hot bath or hot tub and then reading a book or listening to soothing music.
Create a sleep-conducive environment that is dark, quiet, comfortable and cool.
Sleep on a comfortable mattress and pillows.
Use your bedroom only for sleep and sex. It is best to take work materials, computers and televisions out of the sleeping environment.
Finish eating at least two to three hours before your regular bedtime.
Exercise regularly. It is best to complete your workout at least a few hours before bedtime.
Avoid nicotine (e.g., cigarettes, tobacco products). Used close to bedtime, it can lead to poor sleep.
Avoid caffeine (e.g., coffee, tea, soft drinks, chocolate) close to bedtime. It can keep you awake.
Avoid alcohol close to bedtime. It can lead to disrupted sleep later in the night.
also, when you wake up in the morning... take a hot rag and wash your face... you'll feel refreshed and awake..
you can go to google and type in "tips on how to sleep better" thats what i did and im sure theres more information out there
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ok....i like this guy and he likes another girl and the girl is some slut who cheats on every guy that she dates and i dont want him to get hurt.....i know i wouldnt hurt him...do u have any advice that i could win his heart over to me? (link)
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don't be pushy.. like don't try and kiss him since he has a girlfriend and probably doesn't want you to do that... that would be a turn off... tell him your worried he'll get hurt.. let him no about her reputation... show him you really care and that you will always be there for him... and if your telling him this on the phone you can be like "theres some one better out there for you who won't cheat on you... and that someone is me" and then be like "bye" and then hang up... hope i helped
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15f- I like this guy (still). We went out for like two weeks in January then he broke up with methe day after V day! he and I were hanging out the Thursday. We did some stuff. I did it because I don’t want to loose him though. well he said he still likes me. And "he wants to be with me" I don’t know what that means. I don’t know what to do! I like him! he told me he hasn’t been with any other girl since he met me. I don’t know to believe that! he hasn’t talked to me most of this week and every time I do talk to him he’s like I’m busy or I’m grounded! he always tells me he loves me on the phone... and the other day he looked me in the eyes and said it! He told me last night and when I said I love you too he’s like no you don’t...? I don’t know what to think. He told me last night that he had to go to church at 6 this morning. And he said he’s getting grounded from his truck and phone. I don’t know what to think there either! But I had a panic attack the other night. It was because of him. because of texts he’s been sending to a girl He called her baby and asked if she was single. He told me later that she had a boy friend and she’s only a friend. Okay, well he called when I was flipping out (panic attack) I was crying. So I left my house in therain to think about him and what I should do. And he was like baby I don’t want to get off the phone with you until your okay! He sent me like 100 text messages and said I’m so worried about you baby and I love you so much! I’m not sure what to believe. I like him so much. I think I’m getting to the point were I like him so much I hate him. If u know what I mean! I wrote something in his column telling him I like him a lot (said a lot about 150 times. at the end I was like 'but I don’t have a chance anymore'. he responded "yea u do” I don’t know if that was to the fact that I like him (like him being sarcastic about), Or if it was him saying I have another chance. I’m not sure what to do! I like him so much! What should I do about him?! Please answer this with your most honest answer PLEASE! I need help with this guy... thanks... (link)
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ok... you need to sit him down and talk to him... if you have any doubts about him then you should move on... he could be using you for sex and stuff... and he might even cheat on you... don't fall into his trap... do what you feel is best.. if after talking to him ... you feel like he really really loves you and you could be together forever and he's really worth it.... then you should go out with him
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Ok, so theres this kid that says he likes me. He talks about to my friends like 24/7. He won't ask me out. What's he waiting for? What's he afraid of? Should I make the first move and ask him out? We already made out like 12 times but never dated. HELP ME PLEASE!!! ty (link)
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personally, i don't think he wants to have "commitment"... it sounds like he just wants to make out with you... if you really feel he likes you.. then you should definetly make the first move.. cauz he could be shy... hope i helped
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ok here it goes, sorry if its a little long. but i really need your help.
ok my friend well she went out with this guy, and she used to be like a good friend of mine, she used to say that like we are best friends and all, but really she was never my best friend.
so now her boyfriend broke up with her, but she sill loves him, and she said that she cant get over him, and that hes the only guy she can ever go back out with. now that guy told me that he likes me, i mean i dont know for sure but it really sound like it, cuz ok he told me he likes me and he always tells me " i love you" and i went to the movies, and he was there and he asked me to sit by him and he putted his arm around me and he kept telling me that he loves me and sutff like that, and he was askin me if i love him! he kissed me on the cheek. so than i called him like 2 days later, and he asked me who i liked and i kept asking him who he likes and he didnt want to answer until i did, so i didnt asnwer so by the end he asnwered and said that he likes me, and i said that i like him, and i think he was serious about it, because i told him to be serious. and i said well what do you want do about it? and he said if i asked you out would you back off on me for your friend? the girl he went out with! and i said i dont know. and i was like so wat do you want to do? and he said he has to think about it. now my other friends keep telling me that i like him, and they cant know that because i dont want my friend to know that i like her ex. and now she asked me if i liked him and i said "no" cuz she still likes him a lot! but i do, and i dont know does he like me to? and what should i do? its really annoying this whole thing.
SORRY ITS SO LONG.
but i really need help on this. thanks. i'll rate 5's. (link)
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it sounds like he really does like you... but the only way to find out for sure is to go out with him... first things first.. no matter how hard it is... you need to talk to your friend... explain to her that he isn't "the one" since he doesn't share the same feelings for her... tell her there will be a better guy for her and make her feel good about herself... tell her she's a great person and deserves better... then if your having a lot of confidence ... tell her you have feelings for him... cauz... if you start going out wit him... she'll find out.. and its better she hears it from you then someone else... its ok if she starts hating you... cauz you should be able to make yourself happy and worry about yourself once in a while... if you really think things could work out with this guy and your willing to risk a friendship then i say... go out with him.. your friend will get over him in time... and since you said she's not REALLY your best friend... then its worth risking a friendship for a guy you love,,, hope i helped =] don't worry... things will work out the way they are meant to
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im almost 14 and i still havent been kissed or had a boyfriend is that normal??? I feel like im abnormalk or something... (link)
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don't worry... its fine... one day the right guy will come your way... don't rush your first kiss cauz then it will just be wasted... try talking to guys more often if you don't do so already... just relax and enjoy your time being single
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ok, well i like this girl, and i no she likes me 2. we went out for like a week, but it didnt really feel right, but we still both like each other! wat do i do? (link)
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you can do 1 of 2 things...
1) move on - since things didn't work out in the beginning and they didn't feel right... theres a chance that they will never feel right.
2) try and get back together - you can take a risk and ask her out agian... if you know she really likes you then go for it... if it doesn't work out the 2nd time around... then just let it go
hope i helped
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I really really like this guy! My friend is going out with him though and i dont think she knows that i like him! But they are really cute togher and i dont want to make her mad! He is a good friend of mine to! So it's hard to tell eaither of them because i dont know what's going on with them!! what should i do? (link)
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i think you should let your friend and her boyfriend be... if they're happy together it wouldn't be very nice of yoou to ruin it. DOn't tell either of them... because if you tell her she'll be pissed at you and if you tell her boyfriend... he'll probably tell your friend and then she'll be even more pissed... so its best that you keep to yourself... you can still like him... but wait until they brake up or maybe just move on
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Okay so my best friend is all of a sudden being a total jerk to me. She's saying I'm stupid when I'm an A- average student and she's a C average student. She's saying just because it took me a longer time to move up a level in gymnastics means I'm not as good as her when I'm the one who got her into it and she's only moving up a level because she wants to be better than me. I work my butt off to get the scores to move up but she gets a score 4 points lower than mine and she can move up. I have other friends but I spend more time with her. What should I do? (link)
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i think she is VERY jealous of you. SHe knows that you are smarter than her and that your better than her in gymnastics. MAybe you should start spending time with your other friends more... also talk to her about it... maybe she wants to be like you and your her role model or somthing... just don't let her get to you... you know your better than her... but don't go blabbing it to the world like she would because that shows your a bigger person then her.
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