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guy probelms
15f- I like this guy (still). We went out for like two weeks in January then he broke up with methe day after V day! he and I were hanging out the Thursday. We did some stuff. I did it because I don’t want to loose him though. well he said he still likes me. And "he wants to be with me" I don’t know what that means. I don’t know what to do! I like him! he told me he hasn’t been with any other girl since he met me. I don’t know to believe that! he hasn’t talked to me most of this week and every time I do talk to him he’s like I’m busy or I’m grounded! he always tells me he loves me on the phone... and the other day he looked me in the eyes and said it! He told me last night and when I said I love you too he’s like no you don’t...? I don’t know what to think. He told me last night that he had to go to church at 6 this morning. And he said he’s getting grounded from his truck and phone. I don’t know what to think there either! But I had a panic attack the other night. It was because of him. because of texts he’s been sending to a girl He called her baby and asked if she was single. He told me later that she had a boy friend and she’s only a friend. Okay, well he called when I was flipping out (panic attack) I was crying. So I left my house in therain to think about him and what I should do. And he was like baby I don’t want to get off the phone with you until your okay! He sent me like 100 text messages and said I’m so worried about you baby and I love you so much! I’m not sure what to believe. I like him so much. I think I’m getting to the point were I like him so much I hate him. If u know what I mean! I wrote something in his column telling him I like him a lot (said a lot about 150 times. at the end I was like 'but I don’t have a chance anymore'. he responded "yea u do” I don’t know if that was to the fact that I like him (like him being sarcastic about), Or if it was him saying I have another chance. I’m not sure what to do! I like him so much! What should I do about him?! Please answer this with your most honest answer PLEASE! I need help with this guy... thanks...
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Guys are so simple to figure out. It's we GIRLS that complicate the situation!! Ok, so this guy most likely does like you, but is holding on to you for safety (if I'm wrong, let me know). He probably talks to a few other girls that way, but since he knows for sure that you like him, he's not too worried about that. That's what the whole "when I said I love you too he’s like no you don’t...?" thing is about. And something tells me he's truthful about being grounded, maybe it's because he's making too many phone calls or late-night drives or something.
But if this goes on for too long you've got to let him know, girl! As much as you like him, you have to think of YOU first. It seems like this guys is tearing you up! Does he know what he's doing to you? Let him KNOW!!
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In your plea for advice you said that he was supposedly "giving you another chance", but honey, sounds to me like he is the one who needs another chance. You have done nothing but care for this guy, and he comes back and does nothing but play with your heart and toy with your emotions. He did say he loves you, but who doesn't now a days? Don't trust this boy as far as you can throw him. Watch out for your heart honey, and if you do then getting over him now will be a lot better than when you find him doing more than text messaging another girl.
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Just forget about him...Try to find somebody else...and aparently he doesnt like you that much if he cant make time to talk to you!
cody
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Not worth it. He's using you, and will discard you when done. Such is young love, experimentation and exploration. It's unfortunate we can only see it for what it is after it is done.
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i no that this is hard...but, you shouldn't revolve your life around him...if he really loves you, then he wouldn't text that other girl, or make excuses to not come see you...i don't know what it is...but it seems like to me that there is something shady going on with him...make sure that he is being truely loyal to you before you totally trust him. i would just sit down and try to have a serious talk with him and if you still feel that something still isent right...then listen to your concious and do whatever feels right...think about oif he is truly loyal and really loves you or if you dont think that he is really meaning is then i would just dump him...hope i helped alittle...please rate! :)
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He's totally lying to you. Breaking up after two weeks and then beggingfor you to take him back? Honey, this guy is a jerk and not worth your affections.
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Well, guys are a mystery in themselves.
This guy could really care about you. But it seems lots of guys have trouble deciding who they wanna be with, like us girls do sometimes.
As for the flirting incident, guys do love to flirt, just like us girls.
At first it sounded like he was just using you, but I think this guy does care about you, even if it's a little. If he was just using you, he probably would have left you for good by now.
When I can't figure out why a guy's doing things like that, I sit down and think about it from a guy's point of view. I put together all of the things I know of in his life that could affect this, and all of his other girls, and how he talks to them compared to me. I seriously think this guy still likes you in some way.
That might hurt your brain some, but you should get a better look at this guy. Then, you should go and talk to him, and tell him what's up. Ask him about the girl he was texting and why he wanted to know if she was single. Get all you want to know from him so your mind can be at ease. This is my most honest answer, and i really hope it helps you out some=)
*Diamyn*
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ok... you need to sit him down and talk to him... if you have any doubts about him then you should move on... he could be using you for sex and stuff... and he might even cheat on you... don't fall into his trap... do what you feel is best.. if after talking to him ... you feel like he really really loves you and you could be together forever and he's really worth it.... then you should go out with him
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