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What do i do? "confused"
ok here it goes, sorry if its a little long. but i really need your help.
ok my friend well she went out with this guy, and she used to be like a good friend of mine, she used to say that like we are best friends and all, but really she was never my best friend.
so now her boyfriend broke up with her, but she sill loves him, and she said that she cant get over him, and that hes the only guy she can ever go back out with. now that guy told me that he likes me, i mean i dont know for sure but it really sound like it, cuz ok he told me he likes me and he always tells me " i love you" and i went to the movies, and he was there and he asked me to sit by him and he putted his arm around me and he kept telling me that he loves me and sutff like that, and he was askin me if i love him! he kissed me on the cheek. so than i called him like 2 days later, and he asked me who i liked and i kept asking him who he likes and he didnt want to answer until i did, so i didnt asnwer so by the end he asnwered and said that he likes me, and i said that i like him, and i think he was serious about it, because i told him to be serious. and i said well what do you want do about it? and he said if i asked you out would you back off on me for your friend? the girl he went out with! and i said i dont know. and i was like so wat do you want to do? and he said he has to think about it. now my other friends keep telling me that i like him, and they cant know that because i dont want my friend to know that i like her ex. and now she asked me if i liked him and i said "no" cuz she still likes him a lot! but i do, and i dont know does he like me to? and what should i do? its really annoying this whole thing.
SORRY ITS SO LONG.
but i really need help on this. thanks. i'll rate 5's.
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Well ok, it's sounds like he may genuinely like you.. But if I were you I would completely back off until your friend is ok with everything. Or at least talk to him about how your friend really cares for him. If you and him were meant to be, then your friend and him will break up and you will have your chance. :) hope I helped.
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heyy i hope this helps i think you have two options
1.chicks before dicks and maybe she wasnt your bestfriend but she considers you one and you have to decide would you rather lose a friendship or would you rather lose a guy when theres a million more guys out there that will win your heart one day but theres only one of her
2.you could try and talk it out with her see if its alright with her but dont get in afight over it talk it over calmly and see where things go from there.
i hope i helped feedback please
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Well, there's 2 options.
-Disregard your friends feelings, and take the chance. Why should you miss out on life because she can't move on?
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-Tell him you wish you could, but you cant because of her. Friendship is greater than a guy.
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it sounds like he really does like you... but the only way to find out for sure is to go out with him... first things first.. no matter how hard it is... you need to talk to your friend... explain to her that he isn't "the one" since he doesn't share the same feelings for her... tell her there will be a better guy for her and make her feel good about herself... tell her she's a great person and deserves better... then if your having a lot of confidence ... tell her you have feelings for him... cauz... if you start going out wit him... she'll find out.. and its better she hears it from you then someone else... its ok if she starts hating you... cauz you should be able to make yourself happy and worry about yourself once in a while... if you really think things could work out with this guy and your willing to risk a friendship then i say... go out with him.. your friend will get over him in time... and since you said she's not REALLY your best friend... then its worth risking a friendship for a guy you love,,, hope i helped =] don't worry... things will work out the way they are meant to
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