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alright well my boyfriend gets very jelous sometimes. its partly because some of his friends like me. but he lives 40 min away and we dont go to the same school. which makes it worse. i dont know what to do to let him know that i will never cheat on him. i love him too much to do that. i dont know what to do to help him know that he's the only one i love and i will always want to be with him. any ideas? (link)
Part of having a relationship is knowing that you can both trust eachother. If you tell him straight that you wouldn't ever cheat on him because you love only him and he still acts jealous all the time, then you need to have a serious conversation with him and make him see that if he doesnt trust you than there cant be anything more between you. GoOd LuCk


Well.. I'm not sure how to put this... last year before school ended.. I started liking this kid named Kevin. Well we dated.. and then decided we didnt know enough about each other to be together so we broke up. Then he said when he gets to know me better we will get back together. I've talked to Kevin ever since school ended and yesterday we hung out all day long.. and he really really likes me. and If i didnt have a boyfriend wed be together. I really like Kevin. My problem is. I have a boyfriend. And I like Kevin more then my own boyfriend. And I'm not sure how to break up with him. Without him knowing that I'm going to be with Kevin. :( Ahh man... I sound like a slut. (link)
Theres no right way to break up with your boyfriend. He needs to know the truth, and what would happen if you'd run into him with kevin acouple weeks later. Just tell him that you feel stronger about your ex, and that you dont want to hurt him but you have more feelings for kevin. All three of you will feel better knowing the truth.


okay.. there is this guy who ive known for about two years.. and we have always just been friends.. and yea... so i asked him to ride the bus home with me today so that i wont be all alone and he did.. and when we were on there... he asked me.. "will you giv me a chance? " and i laughed and was like.. no!! because i thought he was joking.. but he wasnt and he got all sad.. and he got off at the next stop.. and it wasnt even his.. but yeah.. i feel bad.. and i dont know what to do.. i mean.. he is really nice and i would HATE to hurt him.. but yea.. what do you think i should do tomorrow when i see him?

sorry it was so long.. ill rate.. because i really need help! (link)
I think that tomorrow when you see him you should tell him that you thought he was joking, and instead ask him out (that is, if you like him.) If you don't have feelings for this kid then you need to tell him that you extremely like him as a friend but nothing more that that and you are sorry about yesterday. GoOd LuCk


Hi my name is jessica and i have this friend and she likes the same boy i do she knows i do but one of us is going to end up going out with him but if we do i dont want to loose everything we have because if one oof us go out with him the other will get mad what do i do? (link)
This is gonna be short. No matter how much you like the person, its almost never worth a friendship. Think about it before you bail out on the guy or your friend.


Okay I'm 14 and there is this guy Patrick (16) he has a crush on me which would be fine because i can survive that but he is also in a wheel chair and thinks that he some big-shot and all the girls at church are disgusted with him (as am I) because you can't get through a meeting with out him raising his eye brows and mouthing something. I have told I have no intrested in him and when I did he just stared at me for months with a look of hatrid almost. He is a very spoiled kid and gets his way no matter what. I don't normaly say things about people that have disabilitys but I am so tempted to stop to my meetings because of him. I don't like him, I've told him, Ignored him, Been completing nice (Bad Idea to be nice made him think I liked him) I have even had my friends to tell him. He just doesn't get it. Don't tell me to tell the adults because they think its so sweet! PLEASE.
Only the Young Women can see what he really is; A spoiled brat. so any advice on how to stop him would very helpful.

Signed,
Disability Patrick (link)
Tell him that you really don't like him, and that he needs to stop staring at you. If that doesnt work, totally humiliate him and maybe he'll lay off. I would say Pants Him but i guess that doesn't work in a wheel chair :/. GOod LuCk.


13/f ok i was going out with my bf for like 2 or 3 years. we broke up last year and he started going out with this one popular girl. she's a real snot to everyone except her "popular" friends and i don't see why he likes her. he's been kinda checking me out this summer and he's in my class this year and she's not. is there any way that i could get him to like me again??? i really need help with this! (he's not the bad boy type he's more the nice guy type) help!!
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Remember your just 13, so there are other fish in the sea. But yeah, i understand, if you really like this guy and it was meant to be it'll happen. He'll notice that she's not for him and you are, expecially when he notices what a beotch she is to everyone else. Just give him time. GOod luck.


Well there's this boi, and he goes to my school and all that yatta yatta. But I like him, and I jux found out what his name was, we've never really talked or anything like that before....but a while ago, he was @ my neighbors house, and he was checkin me out, and he was about to go somewhere and he was like I'll be right, you gonna be back out here, and I was like yeah I will, and he was like okay. But yeah, I noticed that he rides my bus and I jux realized how cute he is, and yatta yatta. My patna asked if he was single and lookin and he said yeah, and she described me to him, and she says for me to talk to him but what do I say?????? (link)
You should hang out with him some more, just to make sure that you REALLY like him, and if you do.. then you should deffinately ask him out cuz it seems like you like him. Good luck..


I'm in love with a guy I never even met but I talk to him on MSN and he's so sweet and everything he lives like 10 hours away and I don't know I live in Ontario he lives in Calgary and I'm so in love I can't help my self he's sweet and like yeah feels like I know him it's been 2 years almost since I first met him on Chat Rooms...ne suggestions?...and why do I always fall for the guys I never met and never will? (link)
Be careful with guys you meet on the net, even if you saw them on a cam. Maybe yall could start talking on the phone, but i'd say DO NOT MEET HIM. No matter what he says it would be a wise decision. Good luck with him and i REALLY hope for you that hes not a 250lbs old bald guy from canada. Good luck with that... lol


Ok i have this really good guy friend who used to go out with 1 of my friends but she dumped him and now she is being really mean to him! I found out she likes my boyfriend and she has been trying to steal my bestfriend. She even called me a bitch once. But she does this all behind my abck and when she is with me she is really really nice. The thing is she has a reputauin for using people.All my friends are friends with her and i think that if I dump her everyone would be mad at me. My guy friend(her ex) has been trying to convine me to dump her as a friend and is saying he would be there for me if she says anything mean and stuff. I really dont know what to do! Know 1 knows she likes my boyfriend and no one relizes she is stealing my bff !I dont want people to hate me but i dont really like her much ! What should i do ? (link)
If your friends would be mad at you for getting rid of a friend who treats you poorly, then obviously they aren't worth it either. If this guy did nothing to deserve this treatment then just go ahead and dump them. He is your real friend so you should do anything to make your friendship better (? I guess) So yeah, i think you should stop hanging out with her.


if ur invited to someones birthday party and you dont realli kno them but u have talked b4 awhile ago but one of ur other frnds is frnds wit them and she told them 2 bring u .. should u get them a bday present or wat? like if its a "party" bday party, and ur not real close frnds, should u? thnx i rate (link)
You should ask some other people that are going. Find out if theres anyone else like you who wasnt originally invited and ask them if their going to bring one. Remember though it is this persons birthday and EVERYBODY loves presents!:D


Okay my little brother is sooo picky when it comes to eating. he doesnt eat meat what so ever. he lives off of chips and captain cruch cerial! Oh and I cant forget about candy! My point being is he eats all this junk and hes not chubby for his age and height. I know hes only 7 years old but still how can u NOT be chubby and eat junk food everyday. Its not like he runs around cuz hes always in the house playing video games haha. Here I am busting my butt off trying to lose weight because im 16 yrs old weigh 115 lbs and im 5'4". How is this? Should I be a vegitarrian like him? (link)
No you dont have to be a vegitarrian to loose weight. He just does that cuz he has a high matabolism. Just work out and cut back on food. We all wish we had the matabolism of a 7 year old, but he'll have to start changing his eating habbits soon too. At 115lbs it doesnt sound like you need to loose weight anyways though, remember being too skinny isnt good for you either!! good luck


so a year ago my mom moved like an hour away to live with her boyfriend now husband....and i moved in with my granny cuz i didnt want to move that far from everything...and my sis moved in with my dad....well eventually i moved back in with my mom its been about 4 months and I HATE IT ...my granny said that i can move in the downstairs apartment at her house. but i know im gonna feel bad my sis says i shoulddent becuz our mom left us blah blah blah (link)
Do it.


Heyeveryone, i really need some help!! ok, well, i did something stupid about a month ago..i talked to some guy online and gave him my picture..and i have a boyfriend that i really love. I guess why i talked to that guy was because he asked me about my boyfriend. And my boyfriend is moving to oregon and so i kinda opened up and talked to that guy about my b/f. now, my b/f found that convo and was really scared about our relationship. He said he trusted me 100% but now, he says only like 50%. Im so0o upset i've told him i'll never do that again..but he dont believe me..he's in oregon and we are doing long dist. How can i make him trust me more?! I really love him with all my heart and I want to make it work out. Any advice on my situation?! PLEASE HELP!!! ~manda~ (link)
Just straight up say that was a | B I G | mistake and it will never happen again. Talk to that guy again and be like 'i love my boyfriend SOOO much and i'd choose him over any guy' and send that convo. to your boyfriend. That will hopefully make him feel alittle better. Good Luck. :D


hey..i wanted to know if anyone new any cool online games to play..anything at all..thanx byebye (link)
www.madblast.com


OK i met this boi n the problem is hes 19 n im 14 n we really really like each other but we have a problem its my parents n he goes well babe listen i no your parents dont like the fact that where talkin but we really like each other will u date me n i said i dunno..should i cause u n ohe might be the right 1 (link)
If you have any respect for your parents then you made a good choice by listening to them, because that is a pretty big age difference and remember "they know whats best for you!" lol.. maybe...


Ok..just a couple minutes ago my friend told me that she saw my boyfriend smoking with his friends. Sure I think that him smoking is a problem..but what really makes me mad is that he told me that he stopped smoking. And the other day his friend walked up to him and goes "omg dude! you were like drunk last night" and he told me that he didn't know what he was talking about. But now that my friend saw him smoking I don't know what to think. Should I believe her and just ask him about it..or what? Dang I'm so confused (link)
Ask him about it. Chances are hes just not doing it around you and was doing a very good job hiding it.


im 14 and goin wit a grl i really like but all my freinds and even my dad say i should break up wit her and go out with this other grl. the problem is i like both of them alot but the grl im with usualy hase long relationships but the other grl doesnt. if i break up with the grl im with and then the other grl doesnt last long i will be givin up the relationship i wanted 4 a one week thing. if u can help me ill be really happy. thnx (link)
you shouldn't break up with someone just because someone else came along. Think of some better reasons and maybe even write them down.


Well. I'm 14 and I have been madly in love with my neighbor ever since I moved here when I was 9. We write each other e-mails and we sometimes talk on the bus and stuff. He's 18 and he's going to be a senior this year and I'm going to be freshmen, many people that are freshmen date seniors so I don't think its the age. My mom said that he's probably just waiting until I'm older cuz I'm young but I dunno. He knows I like him because my friend would always yell out the window to him that i was in love with him. He asked me last year if he wanted to get a ride to school with him everyday this year, and I said yes. I really like him alot. Should I tell him? Or should I get a friend to ask him stuff?! I dunno what to do. PLease help!! I rate!!

*amy (link)
try to flirt with him if possible in the car. Find out if he's interested in anyone else. Be like 'so your a big senior! Got your eyes on any girls?'. Also you could say 'Thanks for the ride i dont know what id do without you' and things like that..


i think i might have something wrong with my lungs. i get out of breath WAY too easy. i don't think i have athsma, cuz i've never had an attack, and i don't smoke, but my parents do. i'm getting bad grades in p.e. because i can't run. i COULD run...if i could breathe, because it doesn't tire my legs at all...but anyway, how can i tell if there's something wrong with me, or what do i do? (link)
practice physical activity alittle at a time, and keep doing it on schedual. Take part in sports, and invite friends over to play night games like kick the can and ghost in the grave yard. They might seem kiddish but their a lot of fun when theres lots of people, and their good for you.


I'm searching for an apartment right now, but am finding it extremely difficult because of my dog. I have an very friendly dog that is great with people of any age, but he is also a rottweiler, and because of their bad reputation, most insurance companies are allowed to turn down people from owning any rottweiler, no matter what temperment, from living on the property that they insure.
I think it is wrong for them to be able to do that, and is just another form of discrimination. I believe that there are no bad breeds, just bad owners. It is never a dogs fault when they are aggressive, because they are all subject to their environment. They depend on humans for everything, and when they have a bad life, they have no way of running away and finding a better one. I believe it's always the owners fault when a dog hurts another animal or human, and that no matter what size a dog is, they still need to be in complete control, and never even get the chance to hurt a person or animal.
I want to try to make a pettition of some sort to stop the discrimination against "bad" breeds such as rottweiler, pit bulls, and german shepard dogs. And make people in the US realize that they need to start to focus on the bad owners instead of the poor dogs who are forced to live under bad ownership.
The problem is that I don't know where I would start. I know of a web site where I can start a pettition, but I'm not the greatest writer, and I don't know how I would actually make my pettition seen by the government at least in my town, if not my state. Can someone point me in the right direction? (link)
Maybe you could start your own website, or calling people, or just find another person SOMEWHERE in your country who strongly feels the same as you. Bring it up with some other 'bad dog' owners. Your bound to find someone who feels the same, and then you can work together to fight for the cause. good luck..




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