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What should I do?
Well. I'm 14 and I have been madly in love with my neighbor ever since I moved here when I was 9. We write each other e-mails and we sometimes talk on the bus and stuff. He's 18 and he's going to be a senior this year and I'm going to be freshmen, many people that are freshmen date seniors so I don't think its the age. My mom said that he's probably just waiting until I'm older cuz I'm young but I dunno. He knows I like him because my friend would always yell out the window to him that i was in love with him. He asked me last year if he wanted to get a ride to school with him everyday this year, and I said yes. I really like him alot. Should I tell him? Or should I get a friend to ask him stuff?! I dunno what to do. PLease help!! I rate!!
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Hello. I think you should let him know that you have feelings for him. After all, he's a senior, and who know's how much longer you will get to see him for, because he's going to be a full-fledged adult soon, and may be leaving off to college or something. Just make sure that whether or not he has feelings for you, he's a senior, so I don't think a relationship would be good to form, but that's deffinately you're choice. Thank you for you're time, and I hope things go well.
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DONT HAVE friends do stuff for you . It gets messy. Just say look, i kinda have feelings for you. Or something simple, dont make a whole long speech stay simple and natural and unoriginal ((i like originality but not in that category lol)).. but best wishes hope everything goes down ok. He seems like the kinda guy thats into u. Good luck sweeeetie.. by tha way your mom might be right but theres no harm in figuring what hes feelin' for sure. good luck
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I think you should!! You should say like "I don't know if you caught on to what my friends were saying but, I really do like you." Aww it would be so cute lol. You should say it when you're in the car too. Good luck!
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try to flirt with him if possible in the car. Find out if he's interested in anyone else. Be like 'so your a big senior! Got your eyes on any girls?'. Also you could say 'Thanks for the ride i dont know what id do without you' and things like that..
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Why don't you take things slowly. Good realationships always start out with a good friendship. When he drives you to school, say stuff like "So, what have you been up to? What are you going to do this weekend?" Stuff like that. If he says nothing, say, me neither. Why don't we do something? Hope i helped and Good luck!
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it sounds like your neighbour likes you too. i think he's trying to drop hints by asking you if you want to ride to school with him. i'd suggest you talked to him about how you feel, and see how he reacts. he'll probably tell you he feels the same but was too shy to tell you. good luck! :)
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Be brave! Go tell him yourself, in my opinion, I think guys respect that fact in a girl that they go and tell them that they like 'em.So, go for it, and tell him how you feel.And it seems like your mom is cool with it, and you don't get that a lot from a mom.Go girl!I don't think you should get a friend to ask him stuff.Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
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Well he yooh are goin to be rididn wit him in the car .. wen yooh ahve him alone tell him yourself .. nd it defenitly souns like hes interested in yooh .. but tell him yoourself .. its the best way .. well i hopei helped nd if yooh need to talk im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *MeGaN
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um I say you should probably get a friend to ask stuff like who does he like what does he think about you and well if he shows signs that he likes you tell him cuz guys don't care if girls tell them what they think they find it cool when otha chicks dig them you know so just tell him and believe me I'm your age and a freshman and I know alot of guys that I like and they know cuz I told them and they only find me cute for a kid and said maybe like net year you know so just be patients he might love you but wait for a sign to pop out or w.e....but tell him in the car for sure ok...lol
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Be bold gurl, go tell him urself, u should always tell a guy how u feel, they love that, trust me, im a guy. well since ur gonna be getting a ride with him to school everyday, then ask him when ur in his car, just u and him, who knows the relationship could grow into dating, i know lots of seniors that have dated freshman. im a senior and i myself have been thinking about dating this freshman, but im waiting for her to come to me.
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You should always be up front with the guy that you like, because if you really want to be in a long term relationship, then you have to be able to speak your mind. If you get a friend to ask him, then what if he says yes? It will be kind of akward if you have to come up and talk to him, or atleast it will be for him. He will always remember that you had your friend ask. A guy who asks you if you need a ride every single fricken day should be dealt with up front!!
XoxO Alissa
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I think you should tell him yourself!! Good luck.
-xXoBrianna
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