Okay I'm 14 and there is this guy Patrick (16) he has a crush on me which would be fine because i can survive that but he is also in a wheel chair and thinks that he some big-shot and all the girls at church are disgusted with him (as am I) because you can't get through a meeting with out him raising his eye brows and mouthing something. I have told I have no intrested in him and when I did he just stared at me for months with a look of hatrid almost. He is a very spoiled kid and gets his way no matter what. I don't normaly say things about people that have disabilitys but I am so tempted to stop to my meetings because of him. I don't like him, I've told him, Ignored him, Been completing nice (Bad Idea to be nice made him think I liked him) I have even had my friends to tell him. He just doesn't get it. Don't tell me to tell the adults because they think its so sweet! PLEASE.
Only the Young Women can see what he really is; A spoiled brat. so any advice on how to stop him would very helpful.
Beccah answered Thursday August 26 2004, 11:27 pm: Ypu could maybe give him a weird look next time he looks at you and tell him i dont want a b/f and i dont date older guys sry i hope we can still be friends and i dont like it when u like stare at me.... hope it helps u could mix up the words or sumthin i really wish u lots of luck!!
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the_haha_boat answered Thursday August 26 2004, 10:43 pm: Tell him that you really don't like him, and that he needs to stop staring at you. If that doesnt work, totally humiliate him and maybe he'll lay off. I would say Pants Him but i guess that doesn't work in a wheel chair :/. GOod LuCk. [ the_haha_boat's advice column | Ask the_haha_boat A Question ]
xoRachel answered Thursday August 26 2004, 9:29 pm: I think if you just keep talking to him and say stuff like Patrick, I DO NOT LIKE YOU! so please stop thinking I do then he'll listen. Just ignore him if he looks at you or talks to you. I hope I helped, if not I'm sorry. Ratings appreciated =c)
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