alright well my boyfriend gets very jelous sometimes. its partly because some of his friends like me. but he lives 40 min away and we dont go to the same school. which makes it worse. i dont know what to do to let him know that i will never cheat on him. i love him too much to do that. i dont know what to do to help him know that he's the only one i love and i will always want to be with him. any ideas?
blake08 answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 10:22 pm: trust,
I think that your b/f has a huge "trust issue". If he cant trust you, and have faith in you that you wont cheat on him, then he prob. doesnt deserve you anyways. But now to ure ?, maybe you cound write him, or sit down and tell him how you feel and about how much you love him.
AsweetGoodBy answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 9:57 pm: hey hun you boyfriend was just like mine but like i thought the same thing and ended up cheatin on him with his cousin...if you can never see him he rly has no choice but to be insecure and be jealous or totally trust you and i think no guy does that....neways just tell him yall need to have a LOOONG convo!! [ AsweetGoodBy's advice column | Ask AsweetGoodBy A Question ]
FernGully answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 8:13 pm: Some guys are just incredibly insecure and because of this - they think that you'll drop them like a hot slice of pizza if someone 'better'comes along. You can tell him this, let him know that he doesn't have anything to worry about, however, if he keeps it up and it does really bother you - you may need to let him go. It sucks but its true. The most important thing in a relationship is trust and if you don't have that, everything else will crumble. If he can't realize that you would never do anything to hurt him, then that is his downfall. You shouldn't have to put up with his insecurities as a person and have yourself feel bad about the relationship or yourself. [ FernGully's advice column | Ask FernGully A Question ]
the_haha_boat answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 7:55 pm: Part of having a relationship is knowing that you can both trust eachother. If you tell him straight that you wouldn't ever cheat on him because you love only him and he still acts jealous all the time, then you need to have a serious conversation with him and make him see that if he doesnt trust you than there cant be anything more between you. GoOd LuCk [ the_haha_boat's advice column | Ask the_haha_boat A Question ]
Brunettebabe14234 answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 7:54 pm: *well i dont really know what kind of ideas u r askin of* but if u r asking for more ideas on what to tell him so0o he wont think u r cheating on him well yea tell him that u love him to much to that to him and let him come over like on the weekends and let him chill with ur friends* or if his friends go to ur school u could have them tell him whats going on*
Crazy_Girl15 answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 7:52 pm: Sit down and talk to him face to face. Ask him if he knows u love him. Ask him if he loves you. Tell him that you love him and you don't want to lose what you have because of 40 fricken minutes. tell him that if he really loves you then he'll wanna try.. if he's worth it hun then it can be done. if he doesn't want to do it then tell him that u obviously don't mean very much to him if he doesn't want to try. i dunno what else to tell yah hun except good luck..
hope i helped
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