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friend trouble
Hi my name is jessica and i have this friend and she likes the same boy i do she knows i do but one of us is going to end up going out with him but if we do i dont want to loose everything we have because if one oof us go out with him the other will get mad what do i do?
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talk to ur friend and make a promise: whoever goes out with him will not get mad at the other person. it will help!! then have one of ur other friends ask him out for u!! =P Good Luck!
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Well i know this may see bad to you, but if she is your really best friend and you dont' want to lose a friendship over a guy then you should just let her have him. I mean would you really want to look back on these years and realize you lost a great friendship over a guy. Guys aren't really worth losing a friendship over so talk it over with your friend and hopefully you'll make up a compromise. Just remember friends are harder to find then guys..so choose wisely.
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This is gonna be short. No matter how much you like the person, its almost never worth a friendship. Think about it before you bail out on the guy or your friend.
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I think you should talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel and you should both agree that whoever this boy picks to go out with th other cannont get mad because of it. You should never let a boy get in the way of your friendship, it's just not worth it! .:.macy.:.
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i don't think you need advice. it sounds like the two of you have it under control. it was very mature of you guys to realize that guys come and go, but bffs are here to stay.
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first of all: how much do you guys know about this boy? if you only like him cuz he's madd hott, then you need to rethink this. also, who liked him first? cuz if you liked him first and she liked him second, that's a little mean of her. thirdly, i'm sure your friendship is way more important than just some GUY. so don't throw it away if you guys start to fight, just remember that there are a billion other guys out there and it's tons of fun to be available and play around than to be hooked!
but if u really really like the guy, talk to him and see if he thinks the same way as you do. if you really feel something there sit down and talk to ur friend and tell her exactly how you feel, "you don't want to lose her as a friend but you really feel something with this guy" maybe the guy has friends and u all can double date!
good luck
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I think it's best if you and your friend don't go out with him. Do you wanna risk a good friendship with your friend over some guy? I know you like this guy but there are many more guys out there to choose from. But if you wanna go out with him, talk to your friend about it. Make sure she doesn't get mad at you for what you are gonna do. Hope I helped and good luck :)
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get over him. u both should. talk to her about how hes not worth ur friendship, and therell be a newer, better guy down the line anyway.
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Why don't you two talk to each other and decide what's more important - some guy or your friendship?
If you both feel like you'd be upset if the other one dated him, and if you are both concerned about your friendship, then it seems like the best thing to do is erase this guy from your little black book of possibilities.
Use the time you'd have spent with him with each other - it'll bring you closer together. Hopefully the next time around you'll set your sights on someone your friend doesn't like!
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