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Im a virgin but i smell down there.People say to to douche but nothing is going near my vigina. My boyfriend says its because im a virgin i smell like that..what does that mean. I take baths and air dry but i still smell. Its not a horrible smell but i wish there was more of a plesant smell down there
What can I do?
What does this mean? (link)
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it is normal for your vagina to emit a scent belive it or not it can turn men on or even off the odor can be cause by either normal and healthy vagina, obnormal horomoe levels, or infection/ medical reasons if the odor you smell is unpleasant make sure it is no just you, if your boyfriend states thats normal i kindah wonder whos elses vagina he has smelled in order to compare to yours saying that no two vagina can always smell the same. if you are having discharges cramps and pain id suddest to see a professiinal medical advicer just to be safe . **this is something important that i will mention that many will not like and or want to know and worse of all wnat to do..I really hope no one gets offended.. Once a girl decides to start having sex theres also a resposibility to take care of your body (vaginal, breast, anus, throat/mouth) even more than when you were not being sexually active. In this case a vagina needs to get a pelvic exam also known as a pap smear annually its important for you as a woman to know the healthy condition of your vagina ph level, horomone, uterus, vaginal canal theres a lot of information that you should know whats can cause stress and what you should sexually do and not do. it is possible to tear a vaginal wall and to irritate a vagina by having too much sex..the beauty of being young is feeling like Elvis all of the time the disadvantage is not knowing your bodies limits. My opinion is do not douch unless your medical practitioner recommends it for medical reasons washing out your vagina inclused washing precious bacteria that is there as a defense so I higly DO NOT recommend douching your vaginal. there are personal female pubic area deodorizers but my strongest recommendation is to 1. talk to your mom or a trusted andresposible mature female about this 2. tlak to a doctor or gynocologist 3. follow their recommendations. I also want to add the following true story that i heard a guy friend tell me his own personal experience he claims his girl friend used tampons and one month he and his girl where really horny and had sex she had forgotten about the tampon she had on. she continued her period and weeks later started to notice a pungent smell and she thought this is normal ....well it wasnt until she collapse and was taken to the hospital that she found out she had a HUGE infection in her vagina due to the old tampon being saturated with decomposing blood and clots...she was extremely lucky she did not die. also if you and your boy friend are having sex or oral sex DO NOT LET him ever blow air into your vagina its can be very deadly it might be funny or amusing to some to hear a vagina "queef"/fart/Flatualance and see the labias flutter but it CAN BE DEADLY!! so Please do not do this.
I hope this helps
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Okay, here it goes! So, I have been seeing this guy a little over a month now, and the last time I talked to him was last tuesday after we had spent the night together again. I guess I consider him to be my boyfriend.
Well, I have tried to call him but he won't answer his phone. I drove down to his place and his truck is there so I know he must be home. I emailed him a couple of times now and he hasn't emailed me back. It's pretty frustrating.
Should I go ahead and move on or try and wait on him? We did have sex each time we saw each other since we started dating. My friend said maybe he used me but I don't know. I've been used in the past and the guy did end up completely ignoring me. Do you think this is what has happened? What should I do? (link)
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Im so sorry hes being a jerk! It may be tough to hear this but...yeah i think he usedyou. Not to offend you but i really hope you used some form of STD prevention/ Contraceptive if you or he did anything oral,anal get tested to be sure he did not leave you marked for life. I dont mean to be rude but i really hope this sad lesson helps you understand one thing...sex before security can lead to these kind of situations now im not saying that you cannot live a healthy sex life without marriage but i am saying to please take care of your self and feelings, and your body. If you need any more advice i will be more than willing to give you more advice. I really am sorry . I hope this helps
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So, I'm in college and yesterday I turned 19. I was hanging out in the library between classes and this girl that I've been talking to came in and sat near me. We talked a little, and before I left I finally asked her out on a date (set for Friday). She said yes and I was really happy. I thought it was like a birthday present from God or something cheesy.
So, today (the day after my birthday, obviously) I go on my Facebook. I see that she has sent me a message about how she only wants to be friends with me and didn't mean to give me the wrong impression. I feel like I couldn't get a girlfriend to save my life though. I've never had one and have never even kissed a girl. I'm sure it sounds pathetic.
If you're a nice guy who girls don't like because your nice, how can you change that? What am I doing wrong? (link)
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Honestly ?? Nothing your not doing anything wrong guy.The best thing about women is that just like guys they have diffent taste. You might feel kindah bad for the way she told you but you got to give her props for telling you this early. Every girl wants a nice guy...yeah they do as to why they go for the bad one? i have no clue but i can say this to you dont give up focus on your goals and learn, learn and learn. learn to cook, clean, laudry, learn to take care of yourself, learn as much as possible women love men that will teach them many many new things they love it when a man can cook and i dont meanpenut butter and jelly i mean cook, and they admire men for being able to take care of themselves. There is a girl out there you just got to be carefull YOU dont end up with a bad one. Seems like you have a desire to love and the desire to be loyal again just be careful and as i alwasy advice girls/guys set your mind apart. Write down in your journal what you do not want in a girl/woman and read it over and over and over until you remember the list by hard so that when you meet a girl you wont easily fall in love instead you will be able to find the girl you feel that you cannot live life with out , dont go hopeless or desperate thats when the wrong girl will comealong and could make your life a living .. well you get the idea. I hope this helps
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i recently bought a used car and was talking to my moms boyfriend about it. It pulls to the right and he said it could ither be the wheel alignment or tires. i know the back tires need to be changed but my question is whcih one is it more likely to be and if it is the alignment how long can i wait until it will start messing up my wheel barrings? im a little tight on money so i wont beable to do it right away (link)
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It sounds at this point that its more of an alighnment problem but know this alignments can cause tire wear and tire wear/pressure can eventually lead to alignment problems but not too severe ones. You can also have an idea by looking at the wear pattern (if there is one on the tire) feathered, bald spots, outter/ inner tire wear and center tire wear, these wears can give you a clue . Accidents can deffinetly throw an alignment off , but so can hitting the curbs, baja driving an accord or honda off road, pot holes, and even normal every day street driving which is considered normal ( the everyday street driving) you should also be aware that if the car has been in an accident it may not align right or within the manufactures specifications there are shims available from the after market but some are limited to what angles they address usaually camber. there is toe in/ out, caster, camber, forward thrust, just to name a few, worn out linkages, ball joints, wheel bearings will also contibute to the alignment geometry change. My advice is DO NOT IGNORE THIS even if the cars cheap and get a carfax or vehix car report...put it this way since alignments can eat up tires whats the use of getting a car that you cant align or afford to align and worse off itll eat up the tires fast and youll end up either 1. not carring until you pop a tire and realize it when you are having a personal close encounter with a tree in the rain or 2. when your wallet gets starved from all of the buying youll have to do. Here in california alignments usually go for about $ 89.99 for a two wheel alignment and as much as $300.00 for a full 4 wheel alignment. Hope this helps
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If I were to fill up a car with a full tank of gas how many miles would I get until I had to fill it up again (given, it isn't highway driving but not too many stops and turns?) Just an approximate amount? (link)
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do it the old fashion good old math way.
go empty, go fill it up note the gallons it took to fill, note the mileage or clear the trip meter , drive. You can then at the next filling record how many miles you went. divide the gallons by the miles and youll get miles per gallon. as to exactly what your vehicle is without knowing some info i really dont know and i dont think anyone can say. all cars have different size of engines (displacement), # cylinders, loads, size on fuel tanks, and size of vehicle and weight.
the new standar calls not for MPG ( mile per gallons) but more of Gallons per mile...wierd i know. I hope this helps
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my car keeps dying when i am stopped at a light or about to stop i think it might be the filter but i really have no idea the car is a Dodge Interpid 2002 3.7L (link)
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there can be many reasons for this. most likely it will not be a fuel problem or an air or fuel filter problem. filters when dirty tend to lag performance and would get worse as you demand more from the engine at higher rpm. it could be a vacuum leak but itll have to be a large one. it can be a TPS ( throttle position sensor) or a MAP
(manifold absolete Pressure) sensor or even a MAF (mass Air Flow ) sensor/meter. even the PRNDL switch could cause a problem and of course theres electrical. if you live near a comunity college take it there youd be surprise as to how low theyd charge to diagnose the problem. But if your asking for an exact reason and fix to the problem then it can be anything, even an ISC (idle Speed Control) motor. its a good idea to have it checked out first before going around and changing parts and end up getting every thing new except solvoning the problem. I hope this helps
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16/f
so i was in a huge rush to get home, because i was already stressed enough.. so on my way home, i accidentally turned on the wrong street. and so i was planning to do a U-turn, so i was sitting waiting for about 10 minutes because it was traffic time, and the cars behind me were building up. and when i thought that there were no cars, i finally did a U-turn, and all the sudden a car behind me honked, so i hurried and got in the other lane before we got into an accident. so it was a red light, and cars started piling up again, and i was sitting waiting for a green light... then my friend went up to me and said "you almost hit my mom..." and i said "that was your mom?! ohhh sorry!" and he goes "yeah, but i still have to get your license" so he went to the front of my car and wrote down the number. after i got home, i called him and told him to tell his mom that i was sorry, but i didn't hit her car.. because i didn't know why she wanted my license plate number if i didn't. and he said "yeah, you didn't really hit her car, you just sorta hit the bumper but there isn't a scratch or anything on it." so i was just wondering, are they able to report me for "hitting" their bumper with no scratch on it?
and it kind of gets me confused, because they were from behind, so doesn't that mean that she hit me? O_o (link)
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Here in California if the damage is more than $500. then you need to report it. If they were behind you and you cut them off then you could be at fault IF there was an accident. I think theyre trying to find a scapegoat ( toblame) they can try to report you but whats there to report? there was no one injured, no damage to any vehicle if anything they want to blow off some steam and id just forget about it. If they talk to your parents then dont argue with them. if you feel they are going to snitch on you then you beat them to your parents.However i would like to say that i Hope you have a drivers license or a driving permit and since you are still a minor law might require to driver wiht a licensed driver of mature age. So just be careful and drive safetly. I hope this helps
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Hey! 16/f
My boyfriend doesnt last very long when we have sex, but i dont think he really knows that. We never really foreplay the sex, we just go right into it. could that be the problem? I've had sex with 2 other guys and they lasted pretty long and whenever my boyfriend finishes .. its only been a course of like 3 or 4 minutes (to my knowledge i dont sit there with a watch haha). The first time we had sex he lasted soooo long! it was incredible.
I want him to last a little bit longer so i can get more pleasure out of it :). but i dont want to make him feel bad, like i dont want to say, okay lets switch positions before you finish! haah. you know wht i mean? whats something i can do that will make him last longer. does foreplay help that?
lemme know your tips and ideas!
thank you in advance!! (link)
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i guess the dissadvantage to being young is also having low experience...dont take me wrong im sure there are guys out there that claim the are the hardest rock out there but its not just about lasting longer...just because one is young does not mean there could not be a medical reason. there can be mediacl reasons why he isnt lasting longer...like what?..just to name a few weight,stress, drugs, drinking, smoking, bladder infections, prostate problems, heart conditions, low horomes, testicular problems..the llist goes on and one.. its best for him to see a doctor theres nothing wrong with finding out...here in california its ok for teens to get sex ed, condoms, and even medical advice that not only is free but private. then there are psycological barriers too and there a list that can cause that too just to name a few guilt, emo, stress, peer pressure, you, theres so much more than what young and old people think... i mean its not like we like to think that we can fail in sex...there can be something much more to why he is not lasting longer.. advice him to see a doctor or at least take to a male adult that he can trust about this. I hope this helps
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I am 26 now and didn't lose my virginity until I was 23 years old. I lost my virginity to a stripper from a nightclub I had been visiting. Since then I have been to 4 different female escort services though. I used condoms every time I went to an escort and we did have full penetration sex, but with the first girl I did not use a condom (I didn't really expect it to happen).
I have also received oral sex without a condom on and have given oral sex without barrier protection. These were also from the escort girls though. I think the escort services probably STD tested their girls on a fairly regular basis though, right?
I later had sex with a girl that was about 35 years old. We both got drunk at a party and their was no condom used. We engaged in full penetrative sex and oral sex. There is a high probability that she has been with many, many people because of her overall demeanor, but I don't know her from anyone and I couldn't tell you anything more about her to save my life.
About a year ago I took a trip to Las Vegas. I have low self esteem but was wanting to have sex so I actually picked up a couple prostitutes while I was in town. I am pretty sure that the second one I picked up was on some sort of drug because she was extremely eager to get her money and the others weren't as jumpy and strange.
I'm guessing that I probably have something, but not sure what. I was to afraid to get tested because I know that if I was positive for HIV or AIDS my life would be useless. I have a very nice job that pays well and I have no idea how I've stayed out of the drug scene. I am almost afraid that finding out I have an STD will push me to drugs because I will have to stop paying for sex. I could never get girlfriends so I turned to whores, I guess. I know that I was playing Russian Roulette every time I slept with these girls, but I felt I had no choice since I am unattractive, boring, have no sense of humor, etc.
1. What are the chances that I actually have HIV?
2. What are the chances that I have at least some type of STD?
3. What are the chances of have an incurable STD like Herpes? (link)
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I really hope you consider getting help for your sex addiction there can be a very small chance that you have not contracted anything but you will never know unless you get tested. I do think that you have risked alot and again maybe you have avoided Aids or HIV but again only testing will tell. One the most important things you will also have to do is really get help and to set your mind on changing your lifestyle the only way to control an outbreak is to do that decide to put a contril on it. Your life will always be worth more than gold. there is hope in a form of treatments for HIV so the battle isnt over. You have a high rate of getting a STD, and im sure you know that no STD will tell you that you have one unless you get tested. Please get some help and STOP having sex until you get treatments if you dont value your life at least consider the lives of others. i hope this helps
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Okay so Im a virgin
but i love my boyfriend and he rubs me down there and he went down on me for the first time yesterday. Only problem it didnt feel as good as i thought it would or what my friends told me.
I masterbate with an old vibrating tooth brush on my clit only though (dont judge me)...I think i have orgasmas with that but im not sure..but it feels real good.
Could this be a reason why when me and my boyfriend mess around it dosent feel that great or could it be that im not comfortable doing it yet because we are 16 and have to sneak around to do this.?
sorry for grammar and thanks ahead of time:) (link)
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I dont think theres anything wrong with you. I think you are doing fine in masturbating it feels good and you dont feel you are doing anything wrong. If you do not feel right messing around then its your right to stop. It could be you are having orgasms ( ithink you are) and maybe he has not yet reached the level that you have when you masturbate. Theres a lot of women who go through this and most admit they never have had an orgasm through vaginal sex or they have never expierenced one by their lovers. I think its a good thing you know what feels good and you know what an orgasm feels like a lot of women feel depressed , sad, confused and at some point upset during sex or when messing around because their boyfriend/man gets to hit the peak (orgasm) and get their sexual appetite fufilled and not them which leads to feeling...so what about me? my opinion is continue to learn to explore yourself learn what makes you feel good and what is good for you. its important for you to know when you are sexually satisfied and when you are not...after all if you have sex with your love one shouldnt you both be getting satisfied..not just one? I hope this helps
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15/f
So I have decided to have sex with my boy friend for the very first time. I haven't been pressured into this decision infact when I told him he asked me to think it through and make sure for a fact this is what I want. I know this is what I want, because I love him with all my heart and soul. He is my everything and I want to give him everything I can and he already contains my heart and mind because I love him with all my heart and I think about him all the time. The only thing left for me to give him is my virginity and this is because I want him to have it. So I know I am ready for sex and I was just wondering if like I could get some pointers as to how to make this the easiest on me, my body, and my beloved, cause he doesn't want to hurt me and I know it is going to. Basically is there anything I or he can do to make it hurt less?? (link)
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yeah ....Dont Have Sex yet. You have no rush. First learn how to set your mind on a goal career and responsibility then worry about this sex and giving yourself thing. I bet if you get pregnant for having sex with him you would not want to be pregnant...wierd howd you be willing to say you love him and thats hes your world but would not want to get pregant. My thought is if your not willing to accept pregnancy dont do it yet until youre more mature. Your not ready for sex cause if you were youd be more responsible and would NOT pressure him into having sex..just give him time sheez!! ever think about that? he might not want to have sex or have sex with you. THINK about it
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ok this is what happening
my parents are out with family friends, and they'll be back any minute so I need your help
heres some background
i volunteer on my cousins softball team (im 17, the girls are 15)
and whatever yea i met this girl, her name is Allison, and we're going out for a while. We have a lot in common, sometimes i help her with her homework. I helped her on an english essay and she still got a C. This is because her teacher is a prick... anywayz
So she came over like an hour ago, and i really want to lose my virginity, so I ask her to have sex
"no i cant its not right" she said but i told her "dont worry i know what im doing, ill be done in like 10 seconds, plus ill give you 2 n64 games if you say yes"
So I gave her diddy kong racing and ken griffey jr baseball, and then she goes to my room. shes a bit confused and scared.
Then i think to myself - yo I need lube right? Cuz I hear you guys on TW saying you need to lube up her clit otherwise it wont fit in properly.
Ok so I have no lube, but i really want to lose my virginity - so i grab some butter from the fridge, but its cold, it wont melt - so i microwaved it for 8 minutes, and then i put it in a glass and poured it on her cooter, now shes saying i burned it.
I don't know what to do, my parents are going to be back any minute and shes crying in the bathroom plz help you guys are really smrat and please help me.
Any idea how to shut her up? Should i give her another n64 game? (link)
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You are sick!!! really you sunk really low guy
Shame on you!! Nuff said
next time pour the hot boiling frying oil on your rod first then try to put in into a girl/gal.
You are a little boy trying to pretend to be a man you have no clue on 1. sex 2. women 3. you have got to be making this story up.
Oh and i hope you get busted by your and her parents if this really did happened. I hope you get in trouble. She can get the police involved and i hope she does and sue you and your parents for assualt... first learn how to shower kid before you try sex.
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Female. 17. My boyfriend and I were having sex today and as he thrust back in his penis hit my clit and made a cracking noise. He said there was only a half second of pain and he maintained an erection and we kept going. Later, i looked it up and it said penis cracking is very serious, but it also said that the penis would turn extremely dark from bruising and immediately lose an erection, neither of which happened. Is it really something to look into? (If it isn't REALLY something, don't tell me to go get it checked out please.. he's Muslim and his parents will kill him, no joke, so we are trying to avoid doctors.) (link)
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uh...there is a such a thing as broken penis..mabe it may not be bruised or in pain but the fact that he did mention a second of pain is enough to damage and break muscle tissues, again it may not be broken but it could very well be sprained which can lead after it heals for it to curve or disfigure the straighness of it..in other words it wont be straight anymore and that means it can interfere in sexual intercourse and the feelings. ..My advice go see a doctor most states are prohibited by law to share any patient information. so in other words a physical check and consoultiong with a physician will never hurt and no one needs to know. I hope this helps
P.S.
I do NOT recommend having sex until you get it checked out by a doctor if you ignore it. It can cause more damage as you have sex then the problem can get bigger and it might be too late to fix.
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its like part of his personalty.
if hes upset he goes off on a crazy rant on whatever is pissing him off and you cannot say or do anything to clam him down or make him happy. seriously nothing.
for instance-work.
he works with me and hates his job with a passion. heres the deal-i host/bus(make tips) and make a great deal of money(usually 70$ plus) compared to him-making exactly 40$ a night for busting his ass doing dishes and prep. our resteraunt is always busy so you have to rush to do everything-no matter what position you are. he usually has to hustle twice as hard as everyone else in the resteraunt. we work under the table by the way. everyone else makes a great deal more than he does. he knows this and he is totally over it yet he wants to have some money so he keeps the job.
today he was called in (he hates being called in no matter what) and had school all day so he was extra pissed.
no matter pisses him off he is livid about it and like i said i cant calm him down at all!
me and his mom are going to get him these vitamins=fish oil, vitamin B12 and a nerve tonic to help with anger and nerves.
i dont know what to do! he knows he has anger probs so its not like i can talk to him about it.
like okay i dont know what to do about today either-when he got called in like he was crying when we pulled up to work and cussing at all and when we were there i went in to get a drink at the bar and he came out saying he wanted to go home and all and then the boss was walking up so he kicked open the door back to the kitchen and yeah! i was like shit. then i was walking out to my cae to leave after dropping him off and he called me from the work phone bitching he wanted to leave.
he just called me again crying an hour later saying he is over it and yeah
shitty
any advice?
im like wtf
any is appreciated (link)
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Dont be "wtf" heres the thing that women need to know...Men Have feelings!! yes they are like women just not in a sexual way women. men have to deal tons of stress too, yes men dont menstruate in the same way women do. I can understand why hes breaking down, its tough on him right now school, work, you career goals, i mean he is not growing younger and the world is not moving any slower which does make it any. I can clearly understand your concern i had a friend go through this..this is what helped me help him:
1. I let him vent it out
2. I kept quiet and let him talk
3. When i did talk i encouraged him on the good attributes he had in other words i never put him down, and always encouraged him and spoke positive.
4.I was a positive influence
5. started working out, joggin in the morning or when ever he could to help not only emotional to vent it out but also physicaly
6.talk, and listen then talk and listened again
7. Helped him whenever possible.
8. we also worked together and ironically i made more than him, i knew he was as good and even better than me so i recommended him as my replacment and i quit. I found another job that i ended up making even more money that what i use to make.
9.I let him in on my vitamin suppliments B12, chromiunm,Vitamin D, good ol H20 (water) and lots of walking
Im glad to say we are still friends and when his girlfriend wen through what he went through he did what i did for him and im glad to say they are both doing very good.
I hope this helps
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Is it true that orgasms for women are a LOT better when they are on their period? (link)
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they can be. part of it could be that its a taboo to be sexually active during your period. Many studies have shown that an orgasm can help releave tension and stress during menstration. for some women the fact of not being able to have sex/masturbate/orgasm/ freely as you normaly could brings even more tense hunger for satisfaction...which equals to superb feelings of satisfaction.. so it really does depend on your point of view..my answer would be that orgasms duirng a period can be very tense/satisfactory.
I hope this helps
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If a woman has sex while on her period, does she stop bleeding during the actual intercourse? and do the same rules still apply for her to have an orgasm, or is it easier or harder? (link)
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it depends for some women having intercourse during their periods can be a huge high even though theres the thought of it being messy or "unclean" there isnt anything that you should be ashamed of. Studies have shown that sex can definetly relax and sooth a woman during her menstrating period. Having an orgasm as far as i know during a period does not harm or damage anything however you do want to take precautions such as make sure that you do not want to get pregnant you will be ovulating . do not ever have anal sex and then vaginal sex ESPECIALLY during menstruation bacterial can more easily enter your uterus and thats Dangerous. Your period can stop during and after sex or vise versa there is a higher chance of you NOT getting pregnant if you use an IUD. when you have an orgasm you do not climax through your uterus so you wont orgasm blood if thats what you mean. the only thing about having an orgasm during your period is that your vulva vigina might be very tender and sensitive and you may not be able to get easily arroused but for some women the tension can build up and the sexual satisfaction of the relief in an orgasm is a comforting tool. Many women do not like the idea of masturbating or having sexual intercourse because of the mess or the "gross" feeling but it really depends on how you feel and how you view the happenings on what your body is going through. I hope this helps
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Ok so I'm 19 years old. I never really acted my age since when I was little i failed 2 grades but even like that i was always "childish". I don't look my age either. Most people think im only 16 and freak out when i say I'm 19. Mys sister is 14 and shes my best friend. we do mostly everything together. Shes gonna have her "quinceanera" which is when a girl turns 15 party. So she has her "court of honor" with all her friends. I never met X before but i did hear about him. And my sister said he liked me because he would see me when i would pick her up from school. there has only been two practices and he has went to both. the first time i saw him i thought he was around 17. but hes 15. We started talking during the practice. He got the dance really fast so had to dace with most of the girls so they would understand it too. he said a little comment about dancing with me. (one girl wasn't there so i had to fill her place. I'm not in it) But i told him that i wasn't in it. Some how he ended up dancing with me and i was like. Why are you with me you should be with another girl. and he was like oh yeah. he asked me why i wasn't in it and i told him because i didn't want to and of my age. he said he thought i was 16. and i said nope I'm 19. Last practice was Sunday again he was flirting with me i try to stay away from him. but some how i always end up near him. We started talking about his cousins 15. and end up being really far away from the rest of the group. One girl saw us talking and said that we looked cute. i told her well I'm 19 and hes 15. and she laughed and said that she wouldn't tell. and he put his had around me and say thank you. When i drove everyone home i told them that they had to be quite cause i wasn't used to driving in car with a lot of people and who ever was the quietest got to ride shotgun well everyone was laughing because he was the quietest. he ended up being the last one to drop off. UGH! i kinda secretly am starting to like him more than what i think I'm aloud to. I don't think its right. Not about sex. because thats not even in my mind. I have always wanted to wait till I'm married. So what should I do should i follow along or just try and stay away from him? (link)
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theres nothing wrong in what you feel. I think this can happen to everyone. you might feel very comfortable in your age some people dont but you seem to feel very comfortable and that might be why he also seems very interesting to you. you are not old but there is one thing about him that i think you should consider. He may not be mature and he will be going through changes mentally physically that you may have already gone through which is good cause you can really be a good guide. because he is 15 and you 19 people may not like the ideal of you "robbing the craddle" but you can be his friend and like i said help be a guide to him an just get to know him and actually watch him mature and in a few years you might not feel this way about him being younger. I hope this helps
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19/f
i need to get over this guy, nothing ever really happened between us, although i wish it did, but we went out for a week and i ended it because i felt more depressed when we were actually going out as appose to being friends, but he always makes me smile and he flirts alot with me when ever i see him and he makes me feel good, but he's kind of a jerk, which was part of the reason why i ended it, but because we never did anything, the curiosity of what it would have been like has been driving me mad. i want to move on and find someone else but it's hard for me to meet new guys and he always pops up in the back of my head, especially because my friends are friends of his too and keep telling me he still wants me. i still want to remain friends, which i know we can because we were before, but how can i stop thinking of him in that way and what can i do to meet more guys?
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I think you really liked the way you felt he made you smile and flirted with you in other words you liked what he did but you really never liked him. I think you did the right thing in protecting you feelings and not let it go out of control. Maybe bcause deep down you knew that the part of how he made you feel in those areas were only that and not love towards you. theres nothign wrong in think maybe things could have worked. I think you will meet someone who will make you feel the way you need to feel...loved. hang in there itll get better. I hope this helps
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so there is this boy i have a huge crush on he knows that i like him and sometimes me him and my bestfriend have a joint convo on msn and even though m friends alway says thing that are so embarising i really enjoy it to be honest he is jst so nie to talk to but i really wont to tell him how much i love him and then mybe ask him out but im just not strong enough to do that what cold i do ?? (link)
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Well you could ask him out without asking him out, I mean dont make it seem like your asking him out on a date more of like hey that new movie is coming out ..we should go watch it ( you, your friend and him) dont let him pay you all pay for your own ticket. then do it again like ...oh i really want to go to the park and hike or beach..and so on then if you want to just spend time alone to get to know him then you sort of say something that you know that hed be interested in doing or going but your friend cant. By this time you both will feel comfprtable being around each other and it wont feel like its new. this is just an idea that might work to get you to a point were you and him could talk somethign you both already have in common, and that might let him open up about possible feelings towards you or someone else. If he expresses feelings for you then you express you feelings and take it from there if he expresses feelings for someone else then you didnt risk anything.. you could try asking him whats his plans for the future, career? goals? kids? marriage? any special person? it might also give you a clue if this is a guy you might find even more interested or feel you can just be friends with. I hope this helps
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Okayy so my question is quite simple i would say..its 2 actually.
The first one is when you are having sex/masterbating how wet is your vagina supposed to get? Because when i finger myself it is A LOT like its dripping everywhere and i have to keep something under me to absorb it..is that normal? My other question is when you queef (fart from the vagina) is it supposed to last long because mine do..does it last longer when fingering or during sex? Is it even supposed to happen?
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the "queef" youre talking about is the air that gets pumped into you which could cause you to get cramps feel bloating and feel pain. if you are getting very wet and very slippery thats a good thing it helps not only you to finger yourself easier but also let you experience a mpre enjoyeable and pleasurable exprience. you will be able to have more "queff" when you are penetrated with a penis than with your finger. I hope this helps
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