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Sex Dosent feel that good to me
Okay so Im a virgin
but i love my boyfriend and he rubs me down there and he went down on me for the first time yesterday. Only problem it didnt feel as good as i thought it would or what my friends told me.
I masterbate with an old vibrating tooth brush on my clit only though (dont judge me)...I think i have orgasmas with that but im not sure..but it feels real good.
Could this be a reason why when me and my boyfriend mess around it dosent feel that great or could it be that im not comfortable doing it yet because we are 16 and have to sneak around to do this.?
sorry for grammar and thanks ahead of time:)
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I dont think theres anything wrong with you. I think you are doing fine in masturbating it feels good and you dont feel you are doing anything wrong. If you do not feel right messing around then its your right to stop. It could be you are having orgasms ( ithink you are) and maybe he has not yet reached the level that you have when you masturbate. Theres a lot of women who go through this and most admit they never have had an orgasm through vaginal sex or they have never expierenced one by their lovers. I think its a good thing you know what feels good and you know what an orgasm feels like a lot of women feel depressed , sad, confused and at some point upset during sex or when messing around because their boyfriend/man gets to hit the peak (orgasm) and get their sexual appetite fufilled and not them which leads to feeling...so what about me? my opinion is continue to learn to explore yourself learn what makes you feel good and what is good for you. its important for you to know when you are sexually satisfied and when you are not...after all if you have sex with your love one shouldnt you both be getting satisfied..not just one? I hope this helps
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Are you talking about actual intercourse or getting fingered/eaten out?
Well I know what you mean if you're talking about having sex. I had this big idea that it would be pretty much amazing. It built the whole idea of sex up so much I was certain for disappointed (I didn't see it like that until AFTER I had sex for the first time). And disappointment is exactly what I got. Well maybe not disappointment I just wasn't what I expected. I hope you see where I'm going with my story. I was the same exact age you are now and yes we were also sneaking around. My advice to you (again lol) is to relax, live in the moment. You already breaking "the rules" so you might as well have fun while you're doing it. You masturbating isn't what's causing you guys having sex or him eating you out/fingering you to not feel good. Just tell him what you like while he's doing it. Make it enjoyable for you.
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it could just mean that hes not doing it the way you like it...different girls like different things maybe your more of a fingering type of girl
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