Member Since: October 6, 2009
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I need to know what kind of illness zoloft cause by taking it? also will it make me gain weight? because I don't need to gain weight...lol. but I'm 15 taking zoloft and I was wondering if there is anything I should know and side effects to beware of.
please and thank you.
Deena (link)
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My personal opinion is that you should get off any antidepressants. They don't "make you happy", they simply even out your emotions so that you don't feel good or bad, just numb. i'm afraid of them. that seems like a pretty serious side effect to me.
good luck, sweetie. don't be sad.
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k so i am gay and i dont konw how to tell my dad and i loke this guy at school and i dont know what to do will you plz help! (link)
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I have to say, I find Peeps answer half-hearted and slightly ridiculous. Is he trying to un-gay you? Recommended you talk to a Christian counsellour so that you can have a WIFE AND SEVEN BABIES?
I think not.
I'm sure that you have put a lot of thought into this decision becasue despite what some might think, homophobia is still very present in society. I agree with Peeps about being prepared to lose the trust of some of your friends. They may feel lied to, when really you have only been figuring out who you are. I completely support your idea of coming out, but do make sure that you know this is true. Are you attracted to girls as well? You could be bi, or you could say screw the labels I'll fall in love with whoever the hell I want, thank you very much, which is what I did. I'm a girl and technically I'm bisexual, coming out was very easy for me and almost everyone saw it coming. Have you been trying really hard to hide your homosexuality?
I recommend you casually start talking to your dad about his ideas on same sex marriage and homosexuality. Perhaps mention a friend you have, man or woman, who you know is gay and listen to what he says. This will give you an idea of how to start talking to him about it. You can't change his mind, but you can have a free and open mind and it will likely influence him.
Good luck, sweetie!
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Hey, okay so my best friends birthday is landing on 18th of Oct. I told her a good few months ago that theres a strong possiblity I might be away that weekend on holidays with my family ,but i would be back the 18th for her birthday,she said that was fine she would more then likely celebrate it then or after.
I was talking to her the other day and shes like by the way we are going out for my birthday on the 17th you cant miss it and stuff like that,and im like I told you I wont be here that day theres nothing you can do about it so she starts going on about how she cant believe im missing her birthday putting the guilt trip on me when in actual fact im not missing it! techniqually. She did something really bitchy on my birthday last month,she was there on the day of my birthday and I went for a meal with my family and cousin and a few friends,I had planned to go out on the saturday night then with all my friends to a night club so it was all orginised turns out we ended up going out a thursday night spur of the moment, after that though she told me she wasnt sure if she wanted to still go on saturday because of money so i said okay thats fine and i said maybe i wont bother,then that night she rang me up and said everyone was going out that my bday plans were back on,but apperntly there was no room left in the taxi to the place! so I had no way in to my own birthday night out,maybe im over reactinng but in my mind thats really bitchy she still went anyway. im the type of person who always holds back what im feeling or if im angry with her over something i ALWAYS let it go. giving her grounds to walk all over me shes done soo much stuff that ive just let go and im sick of it. if this was anyone else i wouldnt let them treat me like that its just that shes my bestfriend and as much as i want to say how i feel i cant because its like i dont want to fall out if that makes sense.
so yea now i dont know what to do.. =/ how to approach her or what to say or am i the one whos being the bitch and blowing it out of proportion? :| sorry this was long and rantful any advice would be really apriciated thanks alot.
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Leaving you out of your own birthday party? that's fucked. some other girl should have gotten thrown out of the cab, hopefully your bitchy "best friend". maybe you should try to talk and see what's going on with her, shes treating you like shit honey. good luck.
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how do you roll a blunt? my friend gave me those flavored blunt wrap things but i dont know how to roll!! help please (link)
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It's actually pretty frickin hard. What i used to do is take the paper and wrap it around a pen so that you have a shell. then you stuff the herb in the top, holding your finger at the bottom. use a pencil to pack the weed in, and take a little piece of thicker paper (ie. magazine front) and roll it into a tight little cylinder, about two centemeters long. stuff it in the top and light it up!
hope this helped. :)
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I am a girl and i really don't like my skin color. Last year, people used to make fun of me :( and i cant take it anymore...is there anyway i can lighten my skin tone? btw.im not REALLY dark..im like kind of dark i gues..but not like africans black americans! (link)
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Sweetheart! It hurts me to hear you talking like this. Lightening your skin tone is not a good idea becasue it will distance you from who you are, who is a beautiful, bright young lady. When I was younger people made fun of me for being overweight, and I had serious bouts of depression. Don't lighten your skin tone, honey, just try to feel beautiful. This sounds wierd, but spend some time naked if you can. I find it's very liberating to walk or lay around in the nude and feel warm and lovely. I think you are simply having problems with confidence, which you should not have. I hope this has haelped you, even a little bit.
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hey! I am 17 years old and a female. So I'm issues on being fucked over by guys. It starts out the same. A guy n I are friends, kinda like each other. the guy tells me, and then we kinda have a thing. but after awhile of being in this thing, we start doing stuff.and I know we both want it. But then after awhile he just completely stops talking to me! ): and I know what it is, so I just completely stop talking to him as well! I'm sick of it! I would rather have a relationship and not a thing or "friends with benefits." but also, I'm not jumping into it. i actual start liking the guy, and I think he does too but I'm gettin heartbroken by being fucked over! also, now I'm afraid to even start liking a new guy cuz i dont know if he is gonna do the exact same things the other guys have! ): please any advice? help? (link)
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Hi, sweetheart. It sounds like maybe the problem is judging the men you get involved with. You sound like a very lovable girl, I know you will find the right one in time. For now I reommend you just take a break from looking. Try some new activities, like rock climing, a book club, going to a farmer's market outside of your town. Meet some new people and who knows, maybe a kind, sweet guy who deserves you will come up. I hope the best for ya, darlin.
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