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f****ed over!
hey! I am 17 years old and a female. So I'm issues on being fucked over by guys. It starts out the same. A guy n I are friends, kinda like each other. the guy tells me, and then we kinda have a thing. but after awhile of being in this thing, we start doing stuff.and I know we both want it. But then after awhile he just completely stops talking to me! ): and I know what it is, so I just completely stop talking to him as well! I'm sick of it! I would rather have a relationship and not a thing or "friends with benefits." but also, I'm not jumping into it. i actual start liking the guy, and I think he does too but I'm gettin heartbroken by being fucked over! also, now I'm afraid to even start liking a new guy cuz i dont know if he is gonna do the exact same things the other guys have! ): please any advice? help?
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Hi, sweetheart. It sounds like maybe the problem is judging the men you get involved with. You sound like a very lovable girl, I know you will find the right one in time. For now I reommend you just take a break from looking. Try some new activities, like rock climing, a book club, going to a farmer's market outside of your town. Meet some new people and who knows, maybe a kind, sweet guy who deserves you will come up. I hope the best for ya, darlin.
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I dont know you. But I really beleive you are a beutiful girl. for all these guys to want to be with you, sadly these guys do not see you for what you are BUT you can from now on let everyone see and treat you the way you are supposed to be treated WITH respect. Girl always respect and demand respect and love yourself first so that you know first hand how you are suppose to feel. Dont let them use the " you have experiece already..you know you need it" or the Youre not a virgin or let them know too much about your sexual past theyll use it agaisnt you. All they need to know is Honestly no im not a virgin and no I do not see sex as a big thing. Grow a strong relationship before introducing sex into the relationship.... there is such a thing as Sex ruining a good relationship. Hope this helps
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Stop giving them what they want so easily. Honestly, if you're worth it to them, then you're worth waiting for. Sure you have your sexual needs, but when you really want a true relationship, you'll see who really wants one with you if you make them wait.
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