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Making a guy last longer
Hey! 16/f
My boyfriend doesnt last very long when we have sex, but i dont think he really knows that. We never really foreplay the sex, we just go right into it. could that be the problem? I've had sex with 2 other guys and they lasted pretty long and whenever my boyfriend finishes .. its only been a course of like 3 or 4 minutes (to my knowledge i dont sit there with a watch haha). The first time we had sex he lasted soooo long! it was incredible.
I want him to last a little bit longer so i can get more pleasure out of it :). but i dont want to make him feel bad, like i dont want to say, okay lets switch positions before you finish! haah. you know wht i mean? whats something i can do that will make him last longer. does foreplay help that?
lemme know your tips and ideas!
thank you in advance!!
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i guess the dissadvantage to being young is also having low experience...dont take me wrong im sure there are guys out there that claim the are the hardest rock out there but its not just about lasting longer...just because one is young does not mean there could not be a medical reason. there can be mediacl reasons why he isnt lasting longer...like what?..just to name a few weight,stress, drugs, drinking, smoking, bladder infections, prostate problems, heart conditions, low horomes, testicular problems..the llist goes on and one.. its best for him to see a doctor theres nothing wrong with finding out...here in california its ok for teens to get sex ed, condoms, and even medical advice that not only is free but private. then there are psycological barriers too and there a list that can cause that too just to name a few guilt, emo, stress, peer pressure, you, theres so much more than what young and old people think... i mean its not like we like to think that we can fail in sex...there can be something much more to why he is not lasting longer.. advice him to see a doctor or at least take to a male adult that he can trust about this. I hope this helps
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I know when I want to last longer, I usually stop or go slower for a lil bit. Tell him that you want to go slower at some points-it also feels better when I finish if I delay my orgasm for a little bit, so he has some incentive too!! Maybe you could tell him that, that you heard it feels better if you start off normal, then go slow, so it kinda teases it a little bit haha...this way he doesn't get embarrassed or upset like if you told him directly. Good luck!
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Well, first of all, lets hope you're having protected sex. Secondly, younger men tend to ejaculate more quickly than older ones.I don't think you jumping right into it is the problem.
Try not saying "lets switch positions". Foreplay doesn't help its to arouse more.Go slow, have him tell u before he is about to finish if he can tell, and stop moving for a minute.There's really not much you can do about it until he learns with age and experience how to control when to cum.
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