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Pregnant @ 14
Before I get lectured about being to young I already know I am but to late. I had sex with this guy, lost my virginity to him. Welll He didnt come and we used a condom that didn't break... WEll I'm supposed to start my period but it won't come ! is there anyway I could be or could I just be stressed HELP OH and I'm not completely regular but...
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i dont think yu are but to be sure , qet a test
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There are a lot of different things that could be putting off your period. Diet, stress & just the fact that periods are irregular for the first few years are major factors! If you've just started your period within the last few years, chances are it's going to be irregular for a little bit. If you're stressing out, that will also delay your period. If you're eating less or nothing at all, that could also alter your period so make sure that you relax, eat normally & just have some patience. It could just be that your period is irregular.
If you miss your period & you're scared, take a test. If it comes out negative, I'd see a doctor just to be sure & safe.
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I highly doubt you're prego but when you stress about things then you screw with your hormones. Give it a week and if you don't get it go buy an at home pregnancy test. They're only like 10 bucks and you can just take it in the store bathroom afterwards and see what it says. Obviously you can go to the doctor too but I would go with the at home one. I lost my virginity when I was barely 15 so don't worry about it, I mean don't make a habit of it but don't think you messed up big time either. Live your life the way you want to live it. :)
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Usually when you start to stress out about not getting it, your hormones start to "freak out" too therefore because you're stressing out it may delay your period coming. Also, if you're not on birth control your period is going to be irregular. It can even be off by a week. I wouldn't worry too much about it. You used a condom and he didn't get off so you should be safe. If this doesn't help calm your nerves i suggest a pregnancy test. They will relieve a lot of your tension and you'll most likely get it the next day after you relax!
Hope all goes well!
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no one is judging you hun. I got pregnant when i was 14 almost 15. it was hard. trust me. but one you have to reasons that you may not be. you are irregular and you are stressing out. wait a couple more weels if your period doesnt show up then take a home pregnancy test. it it does show up positive go to your doctor to have a pregnancy test done that will confirm or deny the home pregnancy test.
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first off. Its okay im not going to judge you. You dont need that right now. You need support.
This is my opinion. for what ever reason you have not begun menstrating i dont really know but it may very well have to do with the fact that your body has just had sex your vagina will react in a vvery diffrent way. girls and guys who are new to sex think its just bam bam and its all back to normal...so not true You could very well be not pregnant or you can be. Only time 1-2 weeks can tell via a pregnancy test either after having intercourse(sex) or missing you period even if your irregular if your pregnant your body will preduce a hormone that will show up in your urine (pee) when you take the test take it after you wake up when you bladder is the most full. avoid drinking beer or alcoholic beverages. If you do have sex again please think about it alot. and if you do take that step again dont rush it you are already naked and hes ready to go in just slow down and think about even if hes about to penetrate you can stop i beleive that a guy can prove to a girl he really cares and respect her if she says." i dont want to or lets stop or it hurts or lets slow down" it can tell you alot about a guy. compare to a guy that says i cant i need it or too bad and just shoves it in....i really hope you dont take this for a lecture ..its just an opinion and you are more than welcome to hear (read) it or not . so to answer your question here it is when was your last menstruation? when was it you had sex? did he used the condom before going inside you or did he at any point go in a little or rubbed his bare penis on your vulva ( area outside vagina)?
try to calm down if a condom was used properly and he did not climax (cum) inside you then you have a huge chance you are not pregnant. try the pregnancy test. but why isnt your period comming?
you have to understand that you had a penis inside you. and it was covered in a latex cover you threw off your viginas chemistry off. The vigina is a part of the human body that has a life and defense system of its own it has a acid range (ph) and maybe your body reacted to his penis as an intruder and is really stressed. believe it or not some women that miss their periods that have not had sex, when they do have sex they get their period...wierd? not really sex is a way to relax...now wait im not saying to go have sex but i am saying is to try and relax go for a walk watch a movie do excersice,just relax let your body calm down and do her job..and if you get turned on...go to your room and please yourself a bit and if you cum that might make you have your period but for the time being just..dont have sex yet...sex can be scary huh?
I really really hope this helps
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