If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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my friends wants me too have sex with him and i dunno if i should or nt...should i? (link)
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You're 12. No. Plain and simple. You're not ready. 12 year olds shouldn't be having sex. It complicates it a lot. What if you get pregnant? Get a disease? The list goes on and on.
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I just want some opinions on this:
Do you think it's wrong to let your boyfriend go to a strip club?
I personally think it is wrong, but then I see some girlfriends even go with their boyfriends to stripclubs!! I just don't get it. How could you let your boyfriend get turned on by another woman? ..or let alone get a sexy lap dance by another woman? I personally think that can even lead to the thought of cheating.
What do you guys think? I am 18 and my boyfriend is 17 and he will be 18 next month. I don't know whether to never let him go to a strip club(since that is a common thing for men to try out at least once in their lives) or to let him try it out. I am really uncomfortable with that idea. (link)
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If you try to stop him, he's just gunna do it anyway. "Let him", no there's no letting him. If he wants to go, he's gunna go. And he can't get in anyway. You gotta be 21. He's not gunna fuck any of the girls over there. Unless you never give him any. Then it's a different story. My advice: give him a lot of sex. Keeps him happy.There's nothing wrong with strip clubs and all men love going to them. Men are not that complex. We like women, we like women dancing, we like women naked. So we like women dancing naked. It's not that hard.
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I have this friend, known her forever. Shes turning out to be really mean, and its gettin me down.
This summer, we spent EVERY DAY together. Never ever missed a day. When we got back to school, she paid no attention to me. I talk to her on the computer these days and she tells me im fat, ugly, slutty, fat,fat,fat,fat,fat!!
And it gets me down, because im not fat. she gets others to hate me
But then.. Im so nice I go back to forgiving her!!
I cant stop myself!! What do I do!?!!? (link)
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That just struck me as funny. You were like "yeah she calls me fat, ugly, and slutty. Well i'm not fat" implying that you ARE the other things. She's a bitch. Lose her.
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I sit next to this really great guy in school (every class except my extra classes[french and music]). Well he has a girl freind and on monday he starts talking to me and he never talks to me. He asked me for a piece of paper. He asked me to help clean glue out of his desk. Then we start talking about our pets. Then yesterday he poked me on the sholder and smiled at me. What does this MEAN???????? (link)
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It MEANS that my world domination is almost complete.
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My mind always fills dirty things about guys. I always fantasize about their penises like how big they have, shaved or un-shaved, fat or thin. Its about all men, young and old, known or unknown. Imagine when I talk to a man, my mind goes fantasizing about his penis, Is this sickness?
I am 15/F. (link)
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Give me your name, number, location and I'll help you with your problem.
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Iam 16 years old and I want to have sex so I could get pregnant becouse I feel like nobody loves me and if I have a baby iam sure my baby will love me is this normal? (link)
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No. NO. You're just a total idiot. If you can't see the problems with this situation, you deserve to get screwed like this.
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Last night I had to spend the night with my sister. She is married and already has children. So while she was taking a bath I was looking on her phone and found Text messages that where from her husband (he has a driving job) and one said, "Talk Dirty To Me." and another one said, "Wouldn't you like to be licked all over?". I was so shocked. I mean I would have never thought of him acting like that. So I put the phone down and I just couldn't read anymore. I still feel shocked and horriable. I know she is married and has a right to do what she wants,and I shouldn't have been looking on her phone and nowI just don't know what to do. Any Ideas?? (She is 29, he is 30) (link)
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Hey they're adults. Adults fuck. How do you think you got here?
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last sunday this girl was at my house and we were just friends. We were watching a movie and we started holding hands and cuddling. Well later she put her number in my phone. so i called her a few days later and she's like "so uhh why did you call?" and we talked for like a half an hour but it was mostley alkward scilences and stuff. it just seemed like she didnt want to talk to me at all and now im confused now if she likes me or not. What do you guys think? (link)
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She's an idiot. She gave you her number(this implies "call me") and now she acts suprised when you do it. She sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. Never speak to her again. Girls get off on that asshole thing.
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okay, well my friend got fingered for the first time the other day and now she's been worrying about it. she think's that she is pregnant but i'm telling her that she can't be because it's totally impossible because she didn't have sex or anything. and she hasn't gotten her period and she's 2weeks late. i told her that i think it's because she doesn't have a regular period, because she hasn't had it for over 2years and normally that's when it starts getting regular. her boyfriend only fingered her, she didn't do anything to him so i'm really not sure what to tell her except that she isn't pregnant. what do you guys think?
PS. when she got fingered after she bled alittle, and i told her that maybe he scratched her or something because you never know. (link)
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The only way this could've happened is if his hands were covered in sperm and some got inside of her while he fingered her. And even then, the chances are remote.
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My step father has been forcing me to have sex with him for a few years now. When I was 8-9 he brought home a porno tape and showed it to me. I called my mom and told her that it was a sick tape and he threw it away. After that, my dad has brought porno tapes for us to watch and has had sex with me various times. I hate it when this happens, but I've been afraid to tell anyone!! He taps my ass and touches it and stuff. What do I do to make it stop?!?! (link)
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You need to tell someone, anyone, right now. Tell a teacher at school, a counselor, an aunt or uncle, or somebody. I wouldn't tell your mom because she'll likely be in denial about the whole thing and it'll be buried under the rug. One way or another, the police have to know about this. They will know what to do. You can't be afraid to tell people about this. If you don't say anything about this, it's going to continue. It will lead to problems in the future with men and a guilt complex to where you'll believe this whole thing was your fault. Tell someone. Now.
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Is it really true that if you take a cold shower, your body will burn calories trying to get warm? If so, how many?
Curosity strikes :) (link)
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No, this is not true.
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Guys and girls if you can answer this. What is your favorite kind of underwear on a girl and why? (link)
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As long as it comes off, I don't care.
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I was at this dance last night and all of a sudden there were like five guys staring at my ass, and trying to look up my skirt. They were also touching my butt. What does this mean? What do they want? Do they like me? (link)
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They're guys, this behavior should be expected. They were just trying to get a peek at your goods. I'd prolly do it too. No, they don't really like you, they just want to bang you.
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I want everything in life. I want to grow maximize my career to the fulliest.
But i feel like im doing enough to, to show how smart i really iam. Im 13/f. My last report card was bad..I got straight C'S (which isnt really bad for a few grades but in every class, bad.) any suggestions on how to improve my grades, and all?
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Maximize your career? You're 13. Take it slow. It doesn't matter what you get in junior high. Have fun, life only gets worse from here.
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how many oz of water are we suppost to drink every day (link)
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Drink when you feel thirsty, unless working in the heat, then drink regularly. The whole 8 glasses of water a day thing is urban legend.
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Omg. I just saw this huge flock of birds in my backyard. I can't tell what they are. The are bigger than ducks but smaller than turkeys. They are brown, have flaps of skin on their chins, and iridescent wings and tails. They fly. What could these be? (link)
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My guess is it's a pelican.
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What causes guys to get boners? What are they thinking about also? (obviously sex but like what else?) (link)
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Blow jobs, fingering,other hot girls. And sex.
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so i have been with this team for about 6 years and i work hard each summer and i'm still benched a lot throughout the whole season. I'm not very good friends with the people on the team and sometimes i think that i'm not that good. i'm torn between quitting when the season ends or sticking witht the team. it would only be one more year of it and then i'd be done. should i go through being benched a whole year again, and keep trying to improve, or should i just quit and let the stress and other drama be gone? help! (link)
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Which one do you feel like you'd feel better about doing? Releasing the drama of bullshit or staying on the team? I'd stay on, but that's just me. Just to say I finished out.
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There's a new kid at my school who I think is really cute and I think that we would have alot in common as far as music and style goes. I finally took some of my previous advice from you guys to talk to him. I went up to him and said, "Hi, I'm Johanna." And he said "Uhhh...." and fled away. Girls or guys, can you tell me what you think he means?
Some people say I was maybe too perky around him, some people say he doesn't like me, and some people say he was really nervous to talk to me.
Any ideas? (link)
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He's just an asshole if he didn't respond when you were talking to him. The least he could've said was "Hey I'm......" and been polite. Just be kool to him, not too nice but not mean, and talk to him. If he blows you off again, fuck him.
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Generally, when a guy says that he "doesn't date anymore" or is "putting off dating for a while", if he meets a girl that he likes, will he go for it or not?
He said that the reason for that is his last girlfriend screwed him over big time and most girls that live around here think they have to spread their legs to get attention and he isn't into that. He's 17
I'd prefer a guy's opinion. (link)
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He means it. Women are a big pain in the ass. Period. His last girlfriend probably did screw him over big time and he's tired of girl's bullshit. And yeah he's into it when girls spread their legs. All straight guys are. But yeah, why not? Ask him out.
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