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Hey dudes & dudettes ,
Im going out with a guy that I really like what kind of stuff should I talk to him about so he would be interested in me more... how do I know if he will dump me ??
thankx
Dianna
Talk about what you guys both like. When you pass him in the hallway, give him a smile and maybe a little wave, that should do it. =]
hope i helped
emily
ok for some reason i have this problem, i eat and eat and eat and i like never stop! I can't control it and i don't know why. and the weird thing is, i never gain a pound because i have a REALLY fast metabolism. I'm 13 years old, 5'4, and i only weigh 94 pounds. When im bored and not doing anything (wich i am never doing ANYTHING most of the time) i will just stuff my face with food. ive tried to stop, but i just cant. someone please help!
That happens to me. I dont gain a pound either. But, as i have heard, you obviously need all that food. You might have a big stomach and digest thing faster.
=]
hope i helpedd
emily
OKAY, so..This saturday I'm going to go hangout with the boy I have a crush on. He has a crush on me too. There are going to be other people with us 'cause we are going to a local concert. Well, I really want to kiss him, and impress him by doing this. I just don't know how to approach this. Where should I do it? How should I go in for the kiss? What should I do? I know that if I did it infront of friends they would be stunned, and I really don't want them to see. But, I REALLY want to do this. Can anyone help? I'd appriciate any answers. =) THANK YOU SO MUCH! ♥
well in my opinion, i think you should wait until you guys are going out before you kiss him. You can ask him out when you guys hangout on saturday. Then, maybe you can give him a little kiss on the cheek. But nothing serious yet.
how can i make the girls for crazy for me i would really like it im not the kind of person to go for lots but theres just this one .. that drives me crazy .. i think about her at the most unexpected times. at the store, the other week when i almost got in a car acident alls i could think about is her.. and in p.e. for school when i run.. its a hard run about a 15km so i think if i run the whole thing she will be there at the end and be proud of me so it keeps me going .. well i might be crazy but its only for her .. please help ive liked her for 4 years now .. an on and off relationship from going out to friends .. she says i get attachted to fast.. what can i do ?
15/M
well, you can tell her your feelings. You'll be surprised what a difference it can make. She might even have the same feelings as you. Try talking to her friends. Maybe sit with her at lunch, flirt with her, maybe ask her to hang out. That way, you guys can get closer.
=]
hope i helped
emily
i know this sounds really weird but i really need to lose weight fast. a lot of people have probably had these diseases but which one works better, anorexia or bulimea? i need one of them and i just cant say why but please just tell me which is better
are you serious? You cant just say you are going to go on a eating disorder. You don't need to have a eating disorder to loose weight. Just excercise everyday maybe lift a few weights. Maybe a workout video here and there. That should do it. There is reall no way to loose weight FAST. Thats almost impossible.
=]
i hope i helped
emily
My parents are unbelievably overprotective.They will not let me go for movies with my 21 year old brother and 17 year old cousin.I am almost 14 and I'm not allowd to cross the street.I cross 10 timnes more caarefull than the average person(okay sometimes I can cross).My mom's not as bad as my dad.My dad will not let me go to this place just outside my building.I do not even have to cross the street to get there.WHy do they have these irrational phobias?what can I do about it?
You can ask them why they always have to be so overprotected. My parents were like that too. If you talk to them about it then I'm sure everything will work out fine.
=]
hope i helpedd
emily
Ok, ive asked this question to other people and I just wanted to see what you thought about it. Ok as a 13-year old popularity is kinda a big issue. I am in the top 10 or so like 7 but this girl who is like 2 hates me. She says im a "browner" and now shes making other people hate me. Lately shes given me the nickname "Boy Toy". I hate it! She says its becasue I like to flirt with the guys becasue for some odd reason if you talk to a guy for more than 15 minutes straight in our school its considered flirting. Now I have many guy friends and I talk to guys non-stop. I trust them more and I always ask for their advice. Im always with a guy and now people are calling me Boy Toy all the time. One time she got everyone to ifnore me for one whole day. It was torture! What should I do? I dont like to fight back (like verbally) so I kinda just take it all. Should I or what really should I do?
ok, u should tak to this snotty girl and tell her off. Its great that you have a lot of guy friends. Thats not a big deal. Obviously, she is jealous or is just snotty. Talk to her about it.
hope i helped =]
drop me one anytime!
Ok I have really liked this guy. Im 13/F like you and have never had a boyfriend before. We are kinda like really good friends now and my friends think he likes me (he usually tells me who but not this time) Like Ill say simple things and theyll be like thats a good sign and Id be confused. Like, everytime I wait outside his class (cause we are in practically the same classes and all my classes are right after his so im always standing there outside the doors) hed spot me and give me this huge smile and playfully stick out his toungue and id act all shocked and he'd laugh a little. Whenever hes around us during recess we always talk and stuff privatley also we always like joke around. Hes put his arm around me a few times and defends me whenever someone calls me a flirt or a looser. We email eachother and stuff. ummmm I played volleyball with him and the other 2 guys (my bff's bf and his bff) always kinda joked around saying how could u mess up and when i do good they say nothing but he always like tells me I did a really good try and when I do good he'll give me a huge smile and tell me I did awesome. He has a killer accent (me and him are the only foriegn people in our school) and i dont know we just are always together. Do you think her likes me?? I have no idea!
Well from what u have told me I can sense he likes you. He does all the flirting type of stuff. It seems like he really likes you. Ask him to hang out sometime, maybe he'll admit to you that he likes you.
I hope i helped =]
thanks for droppin one, drop me one anytimee!
I am most likely getting an iPod nano for christmas. I might be getting the one that holds a 1000 songs, but my question is can you put songs on it like from limewire for free?
haha yehh thats what i do. =] its wicked awesome. iTunes holds stuff for MP3's too, so thats why it works =]
hope i helped!
is this: http://www.claires.com/product.asp?name=prod&color=black&rcid=21&id=2733&scid=24 supposed to be a coach wallet? i know its not real but is it made to imitate coach? thanks
yeh but heres the catch. On fake coach purses they are G's not C's. So yes, it is imitating a coach purse its just not real =]
i hope i helpedd =]
in what grade do you have the class sex ed?
You start learning about sex ed usually between grades 8-10. Thats when you start getting in detail. But also, some schols are different.
=]
Here's my story..
I like this boy and at one point I think he liked me too.Now,I can't even get him to look at me.I really like him.I don't know much about him.But,I do know that I really like him.What should I do to get him to notice me? I try everything to get him to notice me.But,it fails evertime....HOW DO I GET HIM TO NOTICE ME? WHAT?? HELP ME!!
Oh i get these ?'s a lot. Well, you can ask your friends to tell him to talk to you...but thats not a very good idea. Just talk to him, get more aquainted with him
If you spend more time with him, hell notice that you like him and that you realy want him to notics you.
It will work out!
hope i helped!
thx for droppin one!
=]
okay, so my friend just broke up with her [ex]boyfriend after 10 months of them going out. she said she doesnt like him like that any more and just sees him as a friend and wouldnt ever go out with him again. she even told me that if any of her friends were to go out with him after this, she would want it to be me. and recently ive really started to like him and so i flirt with him every once in a while. i know he is really bummed about them breaking up, but he is such a nice guy, and has every perfect quality, and i just cant help but to be attracted to him. am i a bad friend for this?? what should i do?!
no waay! if she told you that she wanted you to go out eith him if any her friends were to go out with him, then she obviously wants you to
No worries...happened to me before!
hope i helped =]
emily
this might sound dumb but im not from the US so dont know what a freshman or somophore is...can anyone help me out!!?? do you have any other names also?
many thanks
freshman is either first year in high school or college, and sophmore is second year.
my cell phone wont let me download rongtones from the apps, so i was thinking getting one on the computer but what is a website you can buy single ringtones not like a 9.99 subscription
www.jamster.com they have tons of free ringtones to choose from!
Emily
i kno girls arent nsupposed to ask guys out, but i like this guy and im almost positive he likes me back- im gonna see him friday night i think so what do i say to him?
Its not against the law to ask guys out. Ive asked lots of guys out. If you like him, then go for it! You'll be happy in the outcome. But yes, basically what everyone said below is true.
Good Luck :]
Hope i helped
xoxo emily xoxo
I'm concerned about a couple of friends I have...I was wondering what age is appropriate to have sex...12?...14?...16?...18?...older?...they say they love the guy but come on...what's too young?
WOW. ok, 12 and 14 are deffinetly too young. If your friends feel comfortabgle doing it at this age, then let them go for it. 16 and 18 are better ages, Im not saying they should have sex, but it a better age then 12 and 14. I wouldn't worry about it. Its not your life, its theirs.
:-)
hope i helpeddd
emily
my brest are" saggy" if I sleep with a certain bra would it help me any?
There is nothing you can really do about "sagging" breats. You might want o buy some etra padded bras. That keeps your breats up. Try that.
there's this gurl her name is amanda and she keeps harassing my friend samantha on myspace... there families don't like eachother and fight with eacother... and she gave smatha a bruise on her arm... i told this gurl to stop bothering her but now she started cussing at me and stuff and i don't want to have to tell my mom i have a myspace so don't give me advice telling me i should tell my mom... so what should we do?
I would report it to Tom.
Thats the best thing to do. Try to have her kicked off myspace. I've been in this situation before too... so trust me, report it to tom immedietly.
ok, so there is this guy. i went to church the other night and could have sworn i knew him from somewhere. i walked up to him and started talking to him to see if he remembered me. he didnt. well the next night, yesterday, i saw him again trick or treating downtown. we talked a little more. ok well tonight i went to the football game. he was there. me and my friends were joking around and one told him i thought he was hot. he blushed. i do think hes hot, but ive only seen him a few times. he likes me, or so everyone says. i met him three days ago and have seen him everyday since. i like him and he likes me. ill probly see him soon if things keep going the way they are. first question, would it be too akward to go out with him? second, would you consider it destiny? third, would it be worth giving up a three month relationship? plz help. im a little freaked out about it. i dont know anything about him or his name. but he keeps showing up where i am. colud this be dangerous? thank you
Well, if you have been going out with another guy for 3 months, thats a tight relationship. You shouldn't let that go. Maybe if u feel closer to the other guy and ur losing the one your going out with now, maybe you can consider it. But now, its not the time to break up with a guy you really love.