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boy toy
Ok, ive asked this question to other people and I just wanted to see what you thought about it. Ok as a 13-year old popularity is kinda a big issue. I am in the top 10 or so like 7 but this girl who is like 2 hates me. She says im a "browner" and now shes making other people hate me. Lately shes given me the nickname "Boy Toy". I hate it! She says its becasue I like to flirt with the guys becasue for some odd reason if you talk to a guy for more than 15 minutes straight in our school its considered flirting. Now I have many guy friends and I talk to guys non-stop. I trust them more and I always ask for their advice. Im always with a guy and now people are calling me Boy Toy all the time. One time she got everyone to ifnore me for one whole day. It was torture! What should I do? I dont like to fight back (like verbally) so I kinda just take it all. Should I or what really should I do?
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get your guy friends to defend you or you can handle this battle by your self. if their your friends they should supposrt you. just so you know the boy to thing doesnt make any sense so dont pay attention to it. she doesnt know what she is talking about. "Boy toy" is a term for a MALE who is the sexual play toy of a woman. A female can NOT be a boy toy! and if your not comfortable to do that then i wouldnt recomend it. She is showing just how ignorant she is when she calls you one. just forget them, get some new friends, you don't need friends that ignore you for no reason or call you something stupid.Just ignore the ignorance. You shouldnt let anyone bother you especially some jealous stuck up snobby girl. Go about your buisness,,get good grades and dont worry about her or other people who are just JEALOUS of you. You are in school to learn,,,its not a popularity contest. You are bigger than them if you just ignore them type of people. and i know you tried that but keep doing it.dont respond and play her game youre too smart always say good things about her and your friends will see though her. also just make sure you talk to your friends like why they are laughing and tell them how you feel. The girl who told you that you are a boy toy is just jealous because you get more attention from the boys and she is jealous of you too. If you think about she is probly only teasing you because you let her. You need to step to her and let her know that you are not going to take anymore stuff off of her. keep flirting. no one can tell you who you are or anything and she doesnt have the right to say that. continue hanging with guys.I know that sometimes they can be better friends then girls, at least they don't fight with each other for their girlfriends like girls do for their boyfriends! well i hope i helped and good luck at school tomorrow since its Mon. and im sry i goy to ur question late. i have been so mbusy its not even funny. its too long to explain. i hope i helped u and good luck!!
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ok, u should tak to this snotty girl and tell her off. Its great that you have a lot of guy friends. Thats not a big deal. Obviously, she is jealous or is just snotty. Talk to her about it.
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