Hey my names Chrissabelle and I love giving advice. I always have. Most of my friends call me Chrissie but really like to be called anything. Well... :p I really would like to be a psycologist when I get older. I love listening to other people, I've always been a good listener and I love to help people to the best of my abilities. I love being with family, hanging out with friends, ice skating, and tennis. I also love to laugh and have fun. Who doesn't? Honestly I just am a really happy person although I can come off really serious to people who don't know me which really sucks. I haven't been answering advice for a few weeks because of numerous reasons but now I'm back and so glad to be able to help everyone again. I really hope I can guys =) That's about it so ask me anything, anytime you need advice and I'll try to help you as best I can!
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I have straight, long, and layered hair. I have no bangs. Can someone give me ideas on what to do with my hair, like a different style for each day of the week. Thanks! But don't suggest scrunching unless you have good tips because my hair is too straight to be scrunched, it would only stay scrunched for like an hour. (link)
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Hey. I have the same problem with my hair and scrunching unfortunately =(. Anyways, you can put it in a pony tail, put it half up half down, put it in a bun, put it in a half up half down bun, curl your hair, braid your hair, wear two braids, low pigtails, you can curl your hair and put the curls in a half-up half down bun (with the bun being curled), you can wear it down, you can braid your whole head, or you can put it in a high pony-tail (or low), a high bun, or low. I really hope this helped! =)
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does anyone have any tips on " moving on " or possibly " winning your bf back" ahha thanks (link)
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Hey. As for moving on just get out into the world and have fun. Find other guys who you can go out with and would really like. This will keep your mind off the person you're trying to "move on" from. As for winning your boyfriend back, going out with someone else will definitely be a plus since it will make him jealous or upset he lost you. Or you can talk to him and try to work things out or write to him about how you feel. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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I really dont think im depressed.
I'm a really happy cheery person
I'm basicly like a cheerleader that doesnt cheer lead. I have a million friends and a wonderful boyfriend. However, i have anger problems... i get angry at tiny tiny things but i dont let anyone know im angry it just eats me up inside untill i get home and can cry it out. I hate being like this because i pretend everythings okay, so that if people ask me whats wrong i dont have to say the dumb thing. Sometimes I just want to break down and cry. I really dont think it's PMS beacuse its way worse than that.
xox. thanks (link)
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Hey. You sound a lot like me. I really act all goofy and happy all the time and I feel that it will look bad if I get upset over things in front of people so when I get home I'm more upset. I've stopped this though because I learned that when you're hurt about something you have to talk nicely to it the people who have upset you and you will feel so much better. It Will eat you up inside and you Will become depressed. It's not healthy and one day you'll blow your top (sorry for the corney saying =)). To calm yourself down before becoming angry picture the person you're mad at (if it's a person who's frustrating you) doing a little dance on a table in a top hat and bow tie outfit. It will lessen your anger and it's funny because they have no idea what you're thinking. Now I'm not saying to secretly make fun of the person you're mad at but it will help you cope and not become as angry. This way, you'll be able to talk to them calmy if something they said upset you and you'll be able to work things out. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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plz help i dont want to lose my best guy friend we're both 16, except im a girl. he is mkaing my life a living hell right now but i know its justa phase and i want to let him know hes hurting me without losing him please help!! (link)
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Hey. If he is making your life a living hell right now you have to tell him how hurt you are (as you already know =)). I would write him a letter telling him how much he's hurting you and telling him you really don't want to loose your friendship but he's not treating you right. I suggest a letter because they're much easier to let out your feelings and if you speak to him in person it will be harder to get everything out. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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I really want to empress people because i have the personality but my family doesnt have alot of money to buy me new cloths. how can i put an outfit//hairstyle//makeup together to make me look like a million bucks? =] (link)
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Hey. It's the person who's inside that counts and if people can't see that than they're not very nice. If you have the personality than people probably really like you and don't care about how you look =). But I love bargain hunting which is always fun so just try to find outfits You like and have fun! People will like you just for this =). I really hope this helped! =)
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heyy i need cute quotes for my aim profile !! expecially somthing that will sraw the attention of this guy i like
plzzz helpp!! (link)
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Hey. This website seems to have some cute ones =) http://av-layouts.nuclearcentury.com/aim-profiles-love/ or these http://av-layouts.nuclearcentury.com/aim-profiles-friends/ or http://av-layouts.nuclearcentury.com/aim-profiles-miscellaneous/ or also http://av-layouts.nuclearcentury.com/aim-profiles-heartbreak/ I think they are all really cute and I really hope this helped! =)
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My boyfriend calls me names and tells me I am all sorts of horrible things. I don't think that is acceptable in the slightest, but I guess I DO, because I'm still with him, right? I have this state of mind that I am not all of the bad things he tells me I am, unless I stay with him... then I feel as if I have become those awful things. Which makes me feel like I deserve to hear everything he has to dish out. Afterall, why should he respect me when I don't even respect myself? Isn't that true?
Thing is, I wouldn't stand for this behavior from anyone but him, and that is a fact I am sure of! I have never taken poor treatment of any degree in the past, and I come from what someone would call the "perfect" family whose parents have the "perfect" marriage. I was raised right. I was taught manners, and I know the importance of respect. So why am I still with him?
He really just has a poor attitude. He is only mean to me when he loses his cool, but he is everything I've ever dreamed of when his temper is straight. So our goods outweight our bads. But does that make his act okay? We are both in our early 20's, and we do not live together. We've been a couple for years, but he hasn't always been this way. I'm not afraid of him physically hurting me or my loved ones, but yet I still can't find the strength to leave. I feel like the most disgusting, pathetic excuse for a human being for admitting this, but..... I feel like I have nothing better to run to. I've grown up a lot over the past few years, and he's been there through everything. He is such a part of my life, that I feel too scared and flat out lazy to lose him only to take a step backwards.
Do you think I deserve this treatment for having not yet left? I feel like I have brought this all on myself. I have, haven't I? Because I am the only one who can stop it, and I haven't, correct? Can anybody help me with finding a train of thought to help myself gain the courage and self-respect it would take to break away from him? And stay away? (link)
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Hey. First of all I would like you to know that you DO NOT deserve any of this treatment and you did NOT do it to yourself! Your boyfriend is mentally abusing you when he's angry and you've fallen into his trap. Not your fault at all because you've become dependent on him since he has such a prominent personality and now you're afraid that you won't know what to do when you leave him. You're afraid that you will be lost and hurt and helpless.
This is not healthy because you are a wonderful person and I can tell from what you've described that your family loves you more than anything. No one deserves to be called these names, No one no matter what! Your boyfriend Is mentally abusing you and he probably did it to the girl before you and he'll continue to do it because he's not very nice at all and he needs help. When people get this angry this easily and already mentally abuse people it Can turn physical whether you want to believe it or not. Believe me, eventually if he gets to a real boiling point (not your fault of course :)) he may turn physical and it will be too late because it will be even harder to get out.
Your family loves you so much and they would be so hurt if they knew about this so you have to do this for them. If you're afraid to do it in person I would write him a letter explaining that you really want to explore your life and you need some time to figure things out (or whatever excuse you want). Or when you do it make sure you're surrounded by people so that if he becomes very angry (which is Horrible someone can get this way) you will have back-up. You have to break this off or you will go into a deep depression just because of this man. And don't feel bad about yourself for not breaking it off because guys like these would hook in millions of girls if they could. You're a wonderful person and you know that your life has been to meaningful with so many events (just look back at the pictures) and I Know you don't deserve to be treated this way. I really hope this helped and please feel free to message me if you need more advice! =)
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i really need to think of something to get my boyfriend for valentines day
im no good at thinking of things to get him on my own
so any help would be greatly appreciated =] (link)
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Hey. You can make him a cd with your favorite songs, you can get him Anything personalized with your names both on it, you can get him a dvd, you can get him cologne, you can get him a giant teddy bear, you can make him a fake coupon saying one free movie (so you can both go together), you can get him a photo album with pictures of you guys in it, or leave it blank and say you figured you could add pictures, you can get him jewlery (guys jewlery, obviously =)), you can get him a gift card for somewhere, you can get him a shirt, you can get him a video game he likes (not sure how old he is) or you can get him a dog tag with both of your names on it and the date you started going out (sort of like the personalized idea). I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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I really want to lose weight but i'm just way too lazy to do anything and i don't know if i could really commit if i start. So how do i get my lazy butt of this computer chair and start toning up? And does anyone have some exercise tips like say do 10 push ups today and add 10 more the next day? Thanks! (link)
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Hey. Yeah you sound like me and more than half of the people out there. It's so hard to commit to a diet when the food all looks so good =). But anyways, what I try to do is make it fun for myself and make a diet and excercise plan. I write down a schedule for myself to do every day and try to stick with it. Diets aren't really about eating less but more of eating Right. Just push yourself to stick with eating salads, or soup and potatoes with sliced meatloaf. Set a time amount for yourself (such as one month, 3 months, less, or longer) and write this on your schedule too. If you have a tredmill you can run on it for 20 or 30 minutes per day too. If you don't and don't want to use equipment you can do a certain amount of jumping jacks per day, push-ups, sit-ups, crunches etc. The pyramiding (adding on to the amount of excercises each day)sounds good and I would stick with that. As long as you have an organized schedule you can do it! I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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ok! im moving at the end of the mounth and i really like this guy that i have been goin out with for 2 years off and on i want to get back together but im moveing and this could really be bad! i really like him alot but im afraid not to ask him b/c of the moveing thing and im afraid of him saying no b/c of the moving thing! any help will be greatfully appreciated. (link)
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Hey. If you guys have been dating on and off it sounds like it's been a pretty rocky relationship. Think about if you Really like this guy or if you just want a boyfriend (please don't take this offensively, everyone does this at one point =)). Think about the reasons why you've broke up those few times and if it's really worth it or if you just want to tell him how much you've enjoyed his company before you move away. If you really do like him than it may be hard to tell him in person. I would write him a letter telling him you're moving and how you feel and that you think you guys can really make it work. I think he'll really appreciate that a girl feels this way about him and he may feel the same way about you too! If he says no it may be because of the "long distance" relationship and he may be afraid of commitment. A lot of guys are like this although I don't know him and he could be the nicest guy ever. You'll find soo many new guys where you're moving too. But he may really like you and say yes too so I would definitely work up the confidence to tell him how you feel. If you feel a letter is impersonal just tell him in person and realize that he's a person just like the billions of others out there and this is Just a conversation so you don't have to be nervous. He'll be understanding I'm sure =). I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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14 FEMALE this is long but please take time to read and answer it!!
So last dance was HOMECOMING and I didn't have a date but I went with friends and it was really really fun...it didn't bother me as much that I didn't have a date because I still had one dance to fall back on and have a date. I know it isn't everything but I really wanted a date for the dance. Sometimes I get really mad because I don't and just have to cry.
I asked a question earlier on how to be outgoing and talk to guys and make other friends. I know that's why I don't have a date, I'm way too shy.
But still doesn't anyone notice me??
I know I know...put yourself out there...BUT I DON"T KNOW HOW!
Why can't I get a date?? I have only had 1 actual boyfriend he asked me, I was in 8th grade he was in 6th... I know pethetic right? But I was really happy, but that fadded and I broke it off.
Anyone give me advice on how to make myself feel beter??
I think I'm depressed about not having a date (I feel worthless)
Not having started my period (therefore I'm flat and it is hard find things for dances that don't show that I'm flat)
I feel left out
I DON'T KNOW WHAT'S WRONG!
HELP ME GET A DATE FOR NEXT YEAR (even though it is a while away)
Help me get my self esteem up about not starting my period so therefore I'm flat (I feel like that is sometimes why guys don't like me) {im not totally flat i just feel that way i do have some cush} [i have not but either so it makes it hard to find clothes] (im really really small...people tell and ask if im annorexic...IM NOT...rumors get passed around like that all the time)
SELF ESTEEM IS ON EMPTY!!!
HELP (link)
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Hey. I'm the same age as you and I just got my period about six months ago so I wouldn't feel bad. My best friend is 14 and just got hers about a week ago. I have another friend who still doesn't have it. So DON'T feel bad about that!
You should be happy you're free and you don't have it yet and as for flatness most teens at fourteen aren't chesty yet. It's not your fault you're super skinny (which is great!) and people are probably just jealous so don't feel bad. Everyone wishes they could be that way without having to diet and excercise all the time so you are so lucky in two ways now. You have low self esteem because you're doing this to yourself. It's not that other people don't like you, it's that you don't have enough confidence in yourself.
You're not happy with who you are and I Know you're an amazing person. You said you went with friends to homecoming which is great! Some kids don't even have friends to go with =( especially dates! The girls who get dates really want that and they push for it which is why they have dates. Don't concentrate on getting a date for next year but just try to be as friendly and fun as possible and what you deserve will come to you on its own.
I know about of about 15 girls our age who have never had dates and they're some friends of mine. There are probably tons more. If you want to up your self-esteem just try looking at old pictures or vidoes of yourself throughout the years and if it helps listen to music. Think about what a great and meaningful life you've had. I do this whenever I'm down.
If you don't have pictures or vidoes just think of things from memories. As long as you're friendly, fun and nice at all times possible you will find someone you really deserve rather than pushing for a date for next year. Don't worry about it. You have so many people that love you I'm sure and who knows? There could be a guy who secretly likes you. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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hi~~ i got a friend we been best friend for almost 6 years we both know we always will got each other back! but the thing is she like some one i knew that is a dumb ass and totally horriable~~~ i know that he tread her nice just because he want some thing from her. i done ever thing i could to explain to her how relistic is it but she seems to ignore all my opionin and still like him!! i asked her why she like him she told me everthing but he is shorter than her and he got physical abnormal problems i just dont konw what can i do to let her relizes this like is not truethful and she desirve so much better????? pllzzz help me i need her back to normal!!! (link)
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Hey. Well it sounds like you really don't kike his physical appearance. He could be the nicest guy inside and you might never know. But, if you know he's mean to you this may be because you both prejudged eachother. He could be the nicest guy to your best friend. Your best friend isn't going to listen to you keep urging her to stop going out with him. She's just going to think you're jealous and this will make her want to go out with him more. You just have to talk to her and tell her that you're sorry for telling her to stop going out with someone because he could be the nicest guy. Just tell her that since she's your best friend you got worried for her but it was a pre-judgement. Then tell her that if he ever tries to do something with her you'll always have her back but you understand that he may be the nicest guy. If you know he's not just tell her that you were hurt because of some things he said to you and you just wanted what was best for her but you understand and will respect her opinion. This way, if you tell her this she won't think you're jealous and she'll be happy that you respect her decision. This way she can figure out how this guy is on her own which will work out good for you too. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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sdorry didnt know what catogory to put it in
well last year theres this boy lets call him "DANIl" well we have never talked never but ever since last year term 4 we would always look at eachother and turn around adn keep doiing it i dont know then we had our school hloidays i forgot bout it tehn we started again today and same thing we keep looking at eachother and turning around can saome one tell me why i mean everytime i find him looking at me i want to know why does he hate me or something adn kinda smiles i just dont know please help (link)
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Hey. If he keeps turning around and smiling than he definitely doesn't hate you at all! He really likes you and since you keep doing it back he's not embarressed to do it. Since you've never really talked he's probably embarressed to ask you out but the turning around definitely means he likes you. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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okay theres this guy, and we both really like each other right, and the thing is he liked me a lot last year and i didnt like him like that and i went out with this other guy, and that hurt him and we werent friends anymore (were like bestest friends) but now things are back to the way they were like were really good friends..like best friends, but i KNOW he still likes me, and the thing is i like him too and i think he knows that its just i dont think neither of us wants to do anything about it. i mean we like the way things are going i mean its just easier. but i think he may want to make it 'official' but i dont want to yet. he can tell this is what im feeling and hes taking it really well. i mean we flirt non stop and people can tell theres something going on but im just in denial. i think i have major commitment issues. PLUS i really like him and everything its just i cant imagine myself kissing him. other than that i definately see myself with him. what do you guys think? (link)
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Hey. It sounds like what you guys have going right now is going great. But, you may just continue like this for a Long time and you won't be able to move on. If you both really like eachother I would take the first step but start things off slowly. If you can't see yourself kissing him it's probably because you've been best friends for so long now. You don't have to kiss him just yet. Just start things off slowly by inviting him to do something and asking him out. Then, if you really start to like him you may even go for that kiss. You never know. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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It all started a few years ago, when this boy moved here.
He lived maybe 5 houses down the road, so i saw him all the time.
He was cute, but i didnt like him.
I started liking him after I got to know him.
Then got over him and that was that.
Just last year, i had my bestfriend come over all the time and apparently they were goood friends so we hung out with him all the time.
I started to like him, but not alot alot.
All of that hanging out led to sex and whatnot,no we werent going out and i should have respected myself more.
[we both we virgins]
After that , i just love him.I Became attatched i guess.I knew he didnt like me, but i liked him.
Then bad news came along,and i moved away.He still goes to my school but its not the same. And my friend had told someone about the sex thing,so he got mad and hated me.I still liked him,then after a while he told me he didnt hate me, so i was happy.
Then maybe 3 weeks ago, he started acting mean again and stopped talking to me as much. Something happened the other day where he thought I said that I wasnt ever gonna talk to him again but i said something else, it was just loud so he thought i said that I wasnt gonna talk to him, and he said he doesnt care if i talk to him,but i didnt say that. My friend told him I didnt say that, i think.
I dont know what to do and he isnt the type of person who I can have a serious conversation with and we arent that close anymore So its hard.
I also am way to nice and i think im to easy , I want to be harder.
Sorry this was long, I just need help.
Im always sad, and I cant really tell the boy how I feel, he just isnt the type, you know?
thanks 15/f/oh (link)
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Hey. It sounds as if you both acted upon sudden instinct and now you're both realizing you may not be right for eachother especially when you moved away so things got awkward. You may still have feelings for him but he was probably just upset about what you guys did too (even though he's a male) and it made him even more upset when you moved. Him acting mad at you may just be his way of wanting to end things no matter what you did. You probably didn't do anything and he knows this but this is his way of ending things. I would write him a letter about how you still may feel about him and how sad you feel about what happened between you guys. Tell him that you really don't want him to be mad at you because you didn't do anything to deserve it and you may still have feelings for him (if you want to go this way). Tell him that if not can you still be friends or at least have closure on good terms so you'll both feel like there's well, closure. I suggested the letter since you said it's hard to talk to him like this. Just give it to him in school and I think it might touch him and things will be repaired between you guys. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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I'm a 17/f and my senior year is just whizzing by. I'm already getting prepared for college in the fall. I have a boyfriend, 21/m, that I have been seeing for nearly a year and a half now. It's pretty serious. When I leave for college in the fall, what are some ways I can still show that I love him and keep our bond as strong as it is? Is there anything I can do besides drive back home to see him every weekend? (link)
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Hey. Well if you two seriously think you're in love first of all congrats =). But anyways if you seriously think you're in love you can do several things that will show him you're still thinking about him. You can call him whenever you get the chance, if he has e-mail e-mail him, or instant message (whatever for of communication), you can call him whenever you think of it and tell him how much you miss him, you can send him little notes or letters saying "I miss you" or "thinking about you" or "I can't wait to see you". Also, you can send him a whole letter too. You can try to both pick days where you can each get together and do something. Try calling him unexpectantly and setting up a day to see him and doing something Big. Things such as going to a play and sleeping over somewhere with him or going into the biggest city near you. You can also show up unexpectantly to surprise him which will show him how much you care too. He will see what an effort you're making as I'm sure he'll make one too and your bond will stay as strong as ever, maybe stronger. I really hope this helped! =)
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what are some similar artists like regina spektor? (preferribly that no one knows about) i know there arent a lot out there like her,but i mean the type of music,or that same kind of type at least. thanks! (link)
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Hey. If you like Regina Spektor you might also like Rilo Kiley, Sufjan Stevens, Fiona Apple, Lily Allen, Amy Winehouse, Tina Dico, or Missy Higgins. I really hope this helped! =)
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when i wear tight jeans you can see my back fat. is there any way i can get rid of it? (link)
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Hey. Well just wear jeans that aren't that tight because that would happen to anyone if their jeans were too tight for them =). It may be easier to just loose all your weight all together rather than just your back fat so just eat healthy, excercise, and that's pretty much it. Although, I did find this website that tells you how to loose back fat so here it is http://diet.ivillage.com/tone/tback/0,,8lmrg0zx,00.html After you've finished reading the first page just scroll down and hit next where it has the 1, 2, 3, 4. I guess that webpage could help us all so I'm gonna go continue reading, lol. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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what do you get a guy you've been dating for about a month and have so far only made out with for valentines day?
heres whats a no:
-flowers
-teddy bear
-chocolates
-heart shaped chocolates
i would like an original idea...
k thanks
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Hey. Make him a fake coupon for one free movie ticket so you guys can go together. Or you can get him a dvd which is what my friend gave her boyfriend in the same situation as you. You can give him cologne or a guy necklace or bracelet that's not too expensive. You can get him a giant card with a poem written inside or with a gift certificate taped to it. You can make him a cd. Or you can get him a photo album and tell him you guys can put pictures of yourselves in there. Like a manly album. Or if you guys already have pictures of yourselves you can put those in there. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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This is gonna be long. Sorry. =[
Thanks in advance, though.
Mk, I have been BEST friends with this girl, Madison since I was eight. We're in eighth grade now and I seriously can't take her much longer. SHE GETS MAD OVER EVERY SINGLE THING! Anytime I get mad about something, she turns the whole thing around and starts cussing at me. She didn't do it this time but, she invited like eight girls over right in front of my face and didn't even invite me. Obviously, that pissed me off so I just hung out with my other friends the rest of the day cause every time I went over near her she'd start talking about Friday and what she's doing with everyone but me. Whenever I came home from school she IMed me and was like, "are you mad at me?" and then obviously she was talking about me cause some girl who I never even see at school was like, "are you mad at madison?" i just said sort of and then they were like, "oh, well it seemed like it." and then I told them why and Madison got all pissed off at me. She was saying, "I DON'T HAVE TO DO EVERY SINGLE THING WITH YOU! YOU INVITE YOURSELF OVER EVERY SINGLE DAY!" First of all, I know that. She doesn't have to invite people over in front of my face...I don't ever do that to her. Second of all, what the heck? NO I DON'T. She invites me over AND it isn't every day. It's like once a week. The only time I do is cause my dad is abusive and she the only one who I've told -- I only do that about once a month though. Then today I was talking to her about my profile on IM and she's like, "Well, you practically copied mine. I mean all the screen names are bolded and it's in black and white. So thanks?" I wanted to say, "OKAY! WHAT THE CRAP!? Every single person bolds the screen name like that or the name if they have conversations in their profile. Second of all, you copied Jordan's(This other girl who she acts like it's her best friend and then she tells me that she's a bitch. She's not a bitch. At least she doesn't get mad for no reason). Third of all, mine are ALWAYS black and white. I wasn't even trying to copy you. Why are you even making such a big deal about it!? It's a freaking profile." But instead I just said, "Oh sorry, I didn't mean to." and she didn't say anything. For about two weeks, anytime I say anything when she's around someone she just glares at me and says something rude or sarcastic back. I've become really good friends with some of the people who she says are her friends, so I don't know if she's just jealous about that or what. Gah, what should I do? If I talk to her about it, she'll freak out. (link)
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Hey. Wow, this sounds very similair to a situation I've been in. It sounds like you guys have just gotten waay to close. Now you're getting on each others nerves really badly no matter whose fault it is. When people get too close (they could be the nicest person ever or have some slight annoyances) this always happens.
You discover the slightest annoyances a person may have and they just keep building on and on until you feel as if you're gonna blow. Now don't think I'm blaming you or anything =) because Madison sounds like a real pain. She's definitely Not a best friend if she invited 8 whole girls over in front of you and not her own best friend. Especially the fact that she did it in front of you shows that she did it to purposely hurt you which is not a friend, especially a best friend. For people to come up and ask you if you're mad at her it sounds as if she's been telling them things about you that are untrue which is a horrible friend.
Also, with the copy cat thing she seems like she just wants to start trouble with you now. I would stay far away from her for a really long time so she will see how much she needs you and how mean she was. If you stay away without saying anything to her it will show that you're the mature one. It may be hard at first since you guys have been so close (or maybe not hard at all) but you said you have other friends so hang out with them in the meantime.
Invite them over. I'm sure they're a lot nicer and you will realize what a true best friend really is. Not someone who invites people over in front of your face to hurt you. Don't even talk about her just forget about her and if she starts trouble just be the mature one and people will realize who's really nice. She sounds like she likes to start trouble too. Maybe in time she'll realize what a great friend she lost because you sound like you've put up with a lot. I really hope this helped and good luck! I completely understand where you're coming from =)
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