Question Posted Wednesday January 31 2007, 4:50 pm
ok! im moving at the end of the mounth and i really like this guy that i have been goin out with for 2 years off and on i want to get back together but im moveing and this could really be bad! i really like him alot but im afraid not to ask him b/c of the moveing thing and im afraid of him saying no b/c of the moving thing! any help will be greatfully appreciated.
chrissabelle37 answered Wednesday January 31 2007, 5:08 pm: Hey. If you guys have been dating on and off it sounds like it's been a pretty rocky relationship. Think about if you Really like this guy or if you just want a boyfriend (please don't take this offensively, everyone does this at one point =)). Think about the reasons why you've broke up those few times and if it's really worth it or if you just want to tell him how much you've enjoyed his company before you move away. If you really do like him than it may be hard to tell him in person. I would write him a letter telling him you're moving and how you feel and that you think you guys can really make it work. I think he'll really appreciate that a girl feels this way about him and he may feel the same way about you too! If he says no it may be because of the "long distance" relationship and he may be afraid of commitment. A lot of guys are like this although I don't know him and he could be the nicest guy ever. You'll find soo many new guys where you're moving too. But he may really like you and say yes too so I would definitely work up the confidence to tell him how you feel. If you feel a letter is impersonal just tell him in person and realize that he's a person just like the billions of others out there and this is Just a conversation so you don't have to be nervous. He'll be understanding I'm sure =). I really hope this helped and good luck! =) [ chrissabelle37's advice column | Ask chrissabelle37 A Question ]
HotChickx3 answered Wednesday January 31 2007, 4:57 pm: hey i hear ya. I moved a while ago while still in a relationship. And here's the way i saw it. I really liked my boyfriend so i didn't break up with him right away. When i started to meet new guyz and i never rarely saw him i broke up with him. Shortly after that i found out that he was cheating on me !! So that's the problem if you keep up the relationship with him he might cheat. But if you really like him then stay with him !! But make sure you can trust him to be faithful if your not around.
hope this helps !!
x3 kaylee [ HotChickx3's advice column | Ask HotChickx3 A Question ]
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