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whats going onnn
okay theres this guy, and we both really like each other right, and the thing is he liked me a lot last year and i didnt like him like that and i went out with this other guy, and that hurt him and we werent friends anymore (were like bestest friends) but now things are back to the way they were like were really good friends..like best friends, but i KNOW he still likes me, and the thing is i like him too and i think he knows that its just i dont think neither of us wants to do anything about it. i mean we like the way things are going i mean its just easier. but i think he may want to make it 'official' but i dont want to yet. he can tell this is what im feeling and hes taking it really well. i mean we flirt non stop and people can tell theres something going on but im just in denial. i think i have major commitment issues. PLUS i really like him and everything its just i cant imagine myself kissing him. other than that i definately see myself with him. what do you guys think?
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Hey. It sounds like what you guys have going right now is going great. But, you may just continue like this for a Long time and you won't be able to move on. If you both really like eachother I would take the first step but start things off slowly. If you can't see yourself kissing him it's probably because you've been best friends for so long now. You don't have to kiss him just yet. Just start things off slowly by inviting him to do something and asking him out. Then, if you really start to like him you may even go for that kiss. You never know. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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You know, just because you can't see yourself kissing him doesn't mean you can't go out with him. You like him, he likes you. If you go out with him you don't have to kiss him right away. take it step by step. Eventually you might see yourself kissing him.
If you don't want to go out with him yet, then don't. Keep doing what you're doin. You said it was easier how things are now. Just wait until you want to kiss him.
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21/f: From personal experience, I can tell you that it is very, very hard to get your friend back after you've been dating each other. What I mean to say is, only go into a relationship with him if you think it might last. Otherwise, you are just taking the long route (and it will be long, I tell ya!) toward kicking him out of your life - and that is clearly not what you want.
Sometimes it's nicer to flirt and enjoy each other's company than to try and complicate things with a relationship.
On the other hand, if you really do feel strongly about him in a romantic sense (not being able to picture yourself kissing him is not a good sign...), you should go for it - best friends make the best boyfriends :)
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