its not good to drink a lot of it cus it has soo much sugar, but a lot of people drink it anyways. its not like water or anything, and its definetly not gonna help you lose weight. but cutting it out will help you get on the right track to lose weight but its not gona make you drop 10 pounds instantly. diet pop is "healthier" because it has artificial sweetner instead of regular having pure sugar. but young kids should not be having artificial sweetner so really the only plus of diet is that it doesnt have "real" sugar. hope that answers your q.

im sry to say i dont think you can stop it. its their decision and it may be for the best (even though it doesnt seem like that.) they just dont want to fight in front of you, or siblings. and it would make them happier probably, and it would help you/siblings by not having to see them argue or whatever they do. i hope everything works out between you and them. just be strong and brave and everything will work out for the best.

dont stop wearing them, its your personal choice what to wear. its not like people are gonna see them when you wear them. just tell her that your old enough and mature enough to wear them, because it shouldnt be a big deal. just later tell her that it was your thong. i dont think she would care if you were wearing them still, because youve been wearing them for a year. and plus you need to wear thongs if your wearing tight and white clothes, or sometimes things printed. hopefull your talk will work out.

if you dont want to go straight out and tell her, ask her to make a doctors appt. for you (just the reg. checkup doctor) mayb ask for a routine physical. usually in those your parents arent in the room, so you can say to the doctor that you didnt really want the physical (even though youll probably still get one), but talk to them about depression. reg. doctors can help too because they know about depression. and also your regular doctor can schedule a session with a therapist without you having to talk about it with your mom. but if you dont want to do that whole route, just tell your mom you want to talk about somethings goin on in your life right now to someone. and if she says you can talk to me (which she might), just say that i dont really want it to be anyone, so maybe i can go to a therapist. sry if tht all is really confusing...i just know that if you are depressed, its best to go see someone or talk to a really good friend. i hope it all turns out well.

well you kinda like other people too, so id try figure out your top 3, and if hes in it, try to get to know him better since you "kind of know him." i think you really need to get to know the person before you start dating them. get to know all the people you like before so you know what their about and how they will treat you, but leave some room to figure out stuff about them while your dating them. id give him a..."not right now i just need to figure some stuff out" answer. then this week figure out who you like. then if he still likes you and you figure out hes the one for you, tell him your ready. hope this all works for you!

im not trying to be rude but isnt valentines day in february? and isnt that really really far away? ill answer anyways...when anyone gives you a gift, especially all those love gifts. just act really thankful and say how much of a good friend they are. be responsive and dont act like its nothing because its a big deal to them. for clothes...id just say go with a skirt and a cute top. if its cold where you live, go with jeans and a flirty top with a cute jacket. hope all this helps!

DONT DONT DONT DONT DONT! seriously they could be an old dude and like want to rape you. NOT COOL! you probably shouldnt even be talking to him on myspace if you dont know him. listen to your mom (sry to say), shes right and dont meet up w/ him. not trying to be mean but you could get like kinapped or something bad could happen to you, it might now but theres always a slight possibility.

try to ditch the feelings sry to say...family is family nothing else. i think everyone finds some cuz attractive or like has a mini crush on them at one point in their life, but youll get over it soon as soon as you meet a really hott guy and get to know him. so just try to mellow those feelings down and go for a new guy! hope everything gets straightened out!

sure, why not?

omg this sounds like me right now. not gonna go into it but im in a sim. situation. i just try to call (if he has a cell), listen to music to keep busy, and keep busy in general. go to the gym, do sports, or keep busy and hang out with friends and that always helps take your mind off him being gone. think about when he gets back and how you can talk to him for a long long time and how you guys can hang out. hope it all works!

think about the good times and try to think that mayb you can do better next time...actually right now im kinda in a similar situation. i just try to think that i can score a better guy next time and how i learned things from this relationship.music helps soo much i cant even explain it. i listen to music constantly and it really takes my mind off stuff. just keep busy and you wont think about all your worries. i hope all this works!

things w/ fiber like carrots, light popcorn-crunchy things. also soup is like the number one filler i heard, and its pretty healthy especially if you ahev a cold!

legally: idk...id like to find that out too cus i have an ipod and it sucks that i have to pay $1 per song.
illagally: my friends use kazaa, limewire, i think its called mixpx? some stuff like that...idk if you want to do the whole illegal thing which isnt the best idea but its your music!

theyre called loofas, and change them around once a month or however much you want to. just keep it clean cus your using it to get the dirt of your body so try to change it somewhat often.

youve grown mostly by the time you get your period, then you may grow a couple inches more..depends. and your boobs will grow..you got time! good luck!

sry to say but id try to forget him cus thts a big age gap especially at your age. i mean tht can be considered sexual abuse cus hes older than 18 and your younger than 18 if you would for some odd reason report something. so try to date around your age group, hopefully 17 and younger. sry..i know its hard to stop liking a guy. and to tell him? yeah sure..but idk about an actual relationship, more like a crush or something. hope it all works out!

hes just using you to get laid.eh just try to stay friends. and your only 12 so thts kinda crazy to be thinking about actually doin it. you should be thinking about kissing, not sex. hope it all works out!

mayb shes just bipolar,or she has some pms problems. just tell her that shes being really moody and its gettin on some people nerves but in a nicer way: sry i couldnt find the right words. its not good for all her friends to bottle up their anger about her...just tell her slowly that people are gettin kinda annoyed. hope it works

ive had the same problem awhile ago...i just gave her reasons to trust me and how she should know that im not gonna do anything stupid while out. tell her you have good judgement and give you a couple chances the first time and if shes not comfortable maybe she can reconsider...hope that helps!

from what ive heard...heating pads, squatting, taking pills like midol or pamprin, try flexing your abb muscles. hope it works!

hey im here for anyone who wants good advice. i love giving advice to people-it comes naturally.i love sports!ive been through a lot so feel free to ask me anything.i love guys! i love hanging out with friends, shopping,reading, playing sports,and just being me. much love.

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