My names Amanda im 17 years old! I live in a real small town--bracey,va. i live in an even smaller neighborhood type thing so its just me and my friends. Im single but im basically in LOVE with one of my best friends, yeahh that sucks. Ive been through it all..bad relationships, asshole boyfriends, backstabbing best friends you've been friends with all your life, alotttt of stuff. I can't exactly explain me in a paragraph but i can promise if you ask me anything i will do everything i can get give you the answer or the best advice that im capable of.
E-mail: mandyyx33@hotmail.com
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I just got my phone and I have Cingular. I heard after 7pm u get free unlimited minutes, then i heard sumthin about calling people from your same network is cheaper. Tell me please if any of this is tru, and if you no any other advatages that come with having Cingular. Thanks! (link)
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Talking to someone in your network is free anytime of the day its called mobile to mobile. After 7 its free to talk to anyone on any plan. So u can talk to someone with verizon, or tmobile, or anyone.
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What's the average no. of hrs of sleep I should get?
I'm a light sleeper and I get woken up easily by noises. What can I do to ensure uninterrupted sleep?
Any good advice will be much appreciated. (link)
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About 8 hours on average.
Try leaving your radio on. or earplugs.
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13/f, a boy a year older than me reallly likes me ALOT. i like him too but we go to different schools like 45 min away.now he wants to hookup with me and stuff, but he said if i don't want to its fine, but i want to. i know he has hookuped tons of times and said he had a lot of girlfiends but 'doesn't like commitments'. i saw his myspace/facebook and he has a million friends that are girls and they all comment saying 'i love youu!' or 'the movies were so much fun' and like i think hes a player or a manwhore.
but i really like him, so what should i do? just let him go? is he worth it? (link)
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Think of it this way. Hes a got all of those girls commenting him and stuff, he goes to a different school. Hes bound to cheat on you or dump you or pretty much just use you. Its not worth it because in the end you'll end up hurt. I'd say just let him go.
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i am very shy sometimes and i dont ever get hit on! but all my friends do when they are around me! now over xmas vacation i plan on changing my image! not because i want to get hit on or anything like that but because changing your image also gives you self confidence and that is something i definatly lack so should i go through with it? keep in mind im changing my image not my personality! (link)
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As long as its for yourself and not for other people. You should never change yourself for anyone but yourself. As long as your changing your image and not your personality its fine. A lot of people change their images every once in awhile.
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Okay, so I have a penpal in Germany. I live in Virginia, United States and this kid lives in Weismain, Germany I believe. Keyfact is that he lives in Germany.
Well I want to reply his letter but I don't know what stamps to put on there...do I put on a stamp that says Air Avion Air Mail on it along with stamps?
Could you give me the exact name of the stamp (like the Air (Par?) Avion Air Mail) and the amount of each stamp and how many of each amount? Thanks (link)
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I live in VA too and i sent mail to another country i used a regular stamp but you have to take it to the post office it cost like 60 some cents or something to send it. It may vary but your best bet is to take it to the post office they can help you out.
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My best friend's birthday in on December 16th. I would like to get her something very special because she almost died this year in a horrible drinking accident, they gave her 35minutes to live. Her life has been dimished to mearly nothing but me, so I want to get her something really great like a nice necklace engraved with her initails. Do you have any other ideas? (link)
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Wow! i went through that with my best friend in march! The necklace with her initials is great idea. Or you could ingrave her intials + your intials and write bff(best friends forever) underneath the intials.
The person belows idea is great too Make a scrapbook with all the memories you've had together.
You could have flowers and balloons sent to her the morning of her birthday and spend the day with her then take her out to dinner at a nice resturant.
Hope i helped. If you want more ideas leave one in my inbox
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Okay we know that it is alright for a black man and a white girl to date. But is it okay for a white man to date a black girl. If you are a white male, would you ever date a black girl. And if you are a black girl would you date a white man. If not,why? If yes, why?I am thinking about it, but I don't know. (link)
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Its perfectly fine for a white guy to date a black girl. The only reason it ever gets rude comments is because most people arent used to seeing a white guy with a black girl. But if you really like the person it shouldnt matter what they are because obviously your not liking them for the color of their skin your liking them for their personality,looks,etc. Id say go for it if you really like the person. If anyone says anything tell em to mind their own damn business.
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My fiance just received his orders and he will be heading for Iraq in early 2007.
I know it's probably nothing compared to what he's feeling, but I'm terrified. I've remained composed over the phone with him (he is currently stationed overseas) and tried to make him think that I'm okay and cheer him on. Make him feel like he'll be okay and he'll come back home to me just fine.
I absolutely cannot tell him how I'm really feeling inside. I can't cry to him because I don't want to worry him any more than he is already.
I've tried to talk to friends but no one understands. They all tell me "Well you knew it would happen!" Knowing it will happen doesn't make it any easier to take when it does.
I'm a nervous wreck. I cry all the time. And I don't know what to do. I don't know how to cope and he isn't even there yet!
I'd just really like a friend who understands. Does anyone know of an online support group for this kind of thing? Or has anyone here gone through it who could offer some encouraging words?
Thanks (link)
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First of all i'd like to say that i have so much respect for your husband and that hes a hero to me. And id like to say sorry that you have to go through this its a tough time. My really close cousin is over there, but thats not the same as having a husband over there. And thank you for supporting him that makes things a little easier on him.I looked online theres not really any support groups online except you could look on MSN or yahoo. You could join an FRG(family readiness group), every unit should have its own, your husband who is deploying should have this information if not contact his commanding officers wife, they are usually the ones who head up the FRG.
Talk to a really close friend or relative although they may not know what it is like they should atleast try to understand and help you. Also get out and do things, sitting around the house just makes you think about it even more. Write him letters and talk to him as much as you can. Just think good things like hes going to come back to me or hes not going to get hurt. Who knows they may even end up pulling the troops out before he even has to go over to Iraq. If you think positive things it should help. If you ever need someone to talk to you can leave one in my inbox or email me mandyyx33@hotmail.com
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i pierced my second and both my cartiliges before and i still have earings in them... i was just wondering if i pierced my tragus would that be more dangerous since its not part of the lobe? and if someone has pierced it themselves before, does it hurt alot? (link)
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DO NOT attempt to peirce your own tragus. my friend tried this and it got extremely infected and it hurt her so bad she didnt even get it all the way through.. Its not the same as peircing your cartlidges. The skin is thicker. you should get it done professioanly to be on the safe side.
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Is there any way to look at all of your old AIM conversations if you yourself didnt save them? (link)
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Where your AIM is saved on your computer theres a folder..it should show it..but if you've erased your history then all the files in the folder got erased.
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Do you know any stores that have clothes similar
to Delias and Forever 21? (link)
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Try Gap, American Eagle, Hollister, Debs..
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im 14 and im looking for a job, but i dont know where any ideas?? (link)
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Being 14 your going to have a hard time finding one. Most places only hire at 16. Try Giant, babysitting, walking dogs/taking care of neighborhood animals. Thats about the only things your going to be able to do till your about 16. I know giants will hire you at 14 because most are desperate for workers.
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i'm having a school problem, and not just the average ones.
Last year i stopped going to school all together for around three weeks, until my parents took action and sent me to a wilderness program in june until august. once i got home and had to start school once again (8th grade), i actually attended the first week of school more or less fine. Come second week, i told myself i plain couldn't do it anymore. For a fear of people or a fear of school.
So the school sat me in a room in the guidance office and basically left me to sit there until now. I had a really tough time even when i didn't have to go to my classes. I managed at least two specials a week (gym), but nothing else. Now i have to go to a class in which i have no friends and feel terrible.
It doesn't sound like much but i don't know what to do. I don't know how to handle this. If i don't go to class this week, i will either have to go to a catholic school, and if we can't find one that will take me now, a thereputic boarding school. I can't stand to be away frfom my family anymore, or my friends. I can't suck it up and just really go to school, because i'm too comfortable where i am and too afraid to go anywhere else.
i don't really know what i'm asking, just for any help. thanks. xx (link)
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I used to have this problem. Ever thought of homeschooling? Thats a better option than boarding school and all the others. That way you wont have to be away from your friends and your comfortable with your surroundings. Or you could just talk them into letting you stay where you are. They cant MAKE you do anything that you dont want to do. Talk to your parents and tell them how you feel, they should understand.
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i really like this kid, like alot. my friend tom said that hes gonna ask me out, but he doesnt know when. i really wanna go out with him, but everyone hates him and they say hes wierd and stuff. but i dont know, if he asks me out should i go out with him? (link)
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It shouldn't matter what everyone else thinks. If you like him then go for it! Don't go by what everyone else thinks/says. Your the one dating him. Id say go for it if you really like him.
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hey
i just got my bellybutton pierced about a week ago with the bananna barbell
i have been cleaning it twice a day with dial liguid soap
but now i woke up and its all red and hurts and white stuff is coming out
so now i am still cleaning it with dial soap but im also putting neosporin on it as well
my friend got it done with me and hers is fine
i dont know what to do because i like it so much and i dont want to take it out
any one ever expeirence this and have some suggestions?
thanks in advance =] (link)
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dial soap..is a big no! i just got mine done too and it got infected.. go buy SEA SALT you can get it at any grocery store and mix it with warm water.. theres no right temperature the water should be warm and comfortable so it doesnt burn you..then you clean your belly button with that. dont play with it or touch it too much unless your cleaning it. Give it time and it will heal.
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I just found out that my hubsand is cheating on me and he told me that it is over between him and the other woman I don't know if i should beleive him or just file for a divorce
i've been with my hubsand for 29 years and he just cheated on me with another woman 3 years ago and moved with her and i took him back after 8 months and now all over again
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"once a cheater, always a cheater"
i agree with the others leave him. It may be hard but in the end it'll be well worth it. Because all hes gonna do is bring you one heartache after another. Do your best not to take him back, he'll realize what that he's missing out on a real great person. Hope i helped!
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i mer up with my boyfriend a few days after my period and we ended up aving sex. well the condom broke while we were making out and his pants were down.. [[i dunno how]] so i told hm we ccoodnt have sex. well he asked if he coodplz stick it in for like a min so i let him for like 10 SECONDS and he didnt cum until like 25 minutes later after i gave him oral... wat r the chanced im pregnant. plus hes never gotten a girl pregnant before and hes had ALOT of sex. [[ he was already tested and doesnt have anything so dont trip]] and he told me nothing came out.. so yea... (link)
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If he didnt come while inside of you then you more than likely arent pregnant. But if you still are uncertain get a pregnancy test from a CVS store or something and take it. But id say your not pregnant. Hope i helped!
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I want to dye my hair blonde. Right now, I'm a brunette, and I am SOO scared that I won't like it!!
I was wondering --> If I dye it blonde, and I don't like it, can I just ask the hair dressers to dye it back, or would I have to pay more? (link)
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Ok this might sound weird and all but this is what my friend did. Go buy hairdye that you can wash out, get blonde and see how you like it that way you know for sure if you like it or not. If you go get it dyed and you dont like it, it will cost more (probably however much it cost to get it dyed) to get it switched back so you will end up paying double. Hope i helped.
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This is my 2nd pregnancy, I have a 3 yr odl, and with her I didn't start showing until I was like 6months, now I jsut found out I am pregnant, adn I am only 6to 7 weeks, but my tummy is already pudged out, is this normal? (link)
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Yeah thats normal. It may be a boy because they set differently in your stomach, so you could show earlier than you did with your daughter. Theres nothing to worry about.
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Ok my mother is forcing me to go for a medicals check up cause i havent had one in like years and for some reason she thinks i could have diebeties cause she sees me eating too many sweets (rolls eyes) i know its rediculose but now im freaking out cause i just relized there gonna check my urine, blood, ect.. and... im just wondering if they can see that i have marijuana in my system. I dont smoke it all the time just once in a while last time was like friday nov 17 my check up is on tuesday can find anything if there not looking for it? help anyone who knows cause if they can im just gonna stale untill maybe another month if i can
any advice will be greatly appreciated
Thanks!
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Ok well like the others said marijuana stays in your sister for about a month. Ive had this happen to a friend before so what she did was drink LOTS of water and cranberry juice, the cranberry juice helps clean you out.. Drink plenty of water and cranberry juice(if you hve it) monday and drink nothing but water on tuesday. she did this and her test came out clean.
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