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hes a manwhore. lol
13/f, a boy a year older than me reallly likes me ALOT. i like him too but we go to different schools like 45 min away.now he wants to hookup with me and stuff, but he said if i don't want to its fine, but i want to. i know he has hookuped tons of times and said he had a lot of girlfiends but 'doesn't like commitments'. i saw his myspace/facebook and he has a million friends that are girls and they all comment saying 'i love youu!' or 'the movies were so much fun' and like i think hes a player or a manwhore.
but i really like him, so what should i do? just let him go? is he worth it?
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I think you would be much better off finding someone
closer to home.
Even if he wasn't a little man whore, he lives 45 minutes away and probably doesn't even have a drivers license. You'd not see him much...only be a name on his little love list on myspace. :)
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Ask yourself: Do you want to have just a little bit of fun, knowing that you'll get hurt? It seems a waste of time to go into a "relationship" that has no future other than you getting hurt when this boy finds someone new. Don't put yourself through that.
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He doesn't seem worth it because in the end you're going to get hurt. You even said he doesn't like commitments and if he's hanging with other girls, then he will cheat. (Goes back to the whole commitment thing) He may think it's just a "hook up"/date... not offical going out thing. So yeah. He seems like a big flirt so just let him go. He's like an hour away and it will be hard to see him. Distance can be a problem too.
If he had a lot of girlfriends, you'll just be another one to add onto the list, you know?
Wait for someone nice and willing to commitment!
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hey babe hate to brake it to ya ut hes too far away and hs a player.he may say he really likes you,but your just another girl to add to hs collection.plus long distance relatonships suck !!!!!!!!!trust me your better of wth someone who can settle down and love you.
lt me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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you should leave himm. hes obviouslt a player. I think since you go to a different school, it's okay and that you won't know all the stuff that happens at his. youre gonna end up getting hurt. i think it's fine to be friends with him, but going too far might hurt your feelings. He might just want more girls to hang around withh :] hope i helped
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It really is your decision, based on your emotions and everything... but I'd say, "I'm sorry, but no." It probably won't affect him much, because he has a lot of other options.
Think:
If he goes to another school, he'll probably be going out with somebody there, while he's hitting on you there.
If he's a year older than you, more reasons to say NO. He's probably interested in girls his age, so he's probably playing around with you.
I'm not sure of how your relationship would work out... but I'm sure of one thing: he will not be worth it. If you go out with him, and if he breaks up with you or cheats on you, don't break your heart over him. You're better than him, because you're not a slut that goes around with tons of girlfriends. You're a girl that cares about people, who'll probably get much better guys than that player. Remember that.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny
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Think of it this way. Hes a got all of those girls commenting him and stuff, he goes to a different school. Hes bound to cheat on you or dump you or pretty much just use you. Its not worth it because in the end you'll end up hurt. I'd say just let him go.
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