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Question Posted Wednesday November 29 2006, 2:07 pm

i mer up with my boyfriend a few days after my period and we ended up aving sex. well the condom broke while we were making out and his pants were down.. [[i dunno how]] so i told hm we ccoodnt have sex. well he asked if he coodplz stick it in for like a min so i let him for like 10 SECONDS and he didnt cum until like 25 minutes later after i gave him oral... wat r the chanced im pregnant. plus hes never gotten a girl pregnant before and hes had ALOT of sex. [[ he was already tested and doesnt have anything so dont trip]] and he told me nothing came out.. so yea...

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B00TSZ answered Thursday November 30 2006, 11:52 pm:
your probably fine..just dont worry and if your period doesnt come on time then get your self checked

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alisonmarie answered Thursday November 30 2006, 6:06 pm:
As soon as the penis becomes erect, it starts leaking a small amount of fluid called pre-cum. This fluid carries thousands of sperm in it - it's possible to get pregnant from this fluid.

While this depends on where in your menstrual cycle you are, it is best to be aware there is always a chance. To play safe, use condoms each and every time his penis goes in or near your vagina.

He's been lucky to not get someone pregnant this far - you don't want to be there when his luck runs out. Also be aware that some STDs/STIs can take a few months to show up when tested, so it's best if both of you are regularly tested - particularly if he's been very sexually active in his past.

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sizzlinmandolin answered Wednesday November 29 2006, 4:47 pm:
I wouldn't worry about pregnancy, but if it anything like this happens again consider getting a day after pill. The chance you are pregnant is very slim. Not because of how how long you did it, but because of where you are in your cycle. The length of time a guy is in you doesn't matter one bit. It could be 1 second or 1 hour. You can get pregnant just the same. NEVER EVER have unprotected sex unless you are trying to get pregnant. Stand strong and stick to your gut instinct. Next time, 10 seconds could turn to longer and guys don't have as much control over themselves as they believe. Don't ever do this again. It just isn't worth it. No matter how much he begs. He should be more sensible than he is about everything. He wasn't thinking with the right head if you know what I mean. If he's going to be like that you're going to have to take responsibility from here on out. You know what the right decision is. Don't let your boyfriend cloud your judgement! I think you should have a talk with him about this. Let him know that from here on out, the answer to unprotected sex will always be NO! Good luck.

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fatalxheart answered Wednesday November 29 2006, 3:28 pm:
there is always the chance with pre-cum.
be safe and go get a pregnancy test, just in case.

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Xo_Blondii_oX answered Wednesday November 29 2006, 2:17 pm:
If he didnt come while inside of you then you more than likely arent pregnant. But if you still are uncertain get a pregnancy test from a CVS store or something and take it. But id say your not pregnant. Hope i helped!

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