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ok well ive liked this one guy for awhile. i did tell him i liked him and he said he likes me too. but i dont know if i should go out with him, bcuz everyone says hes a player. should i or shouldnt i? thx

I think that you should do what your heart tells you to do i mean yeah your risking the fact that he might be a playa and everything but i mean you never really know until things happen you know what im tryin to say....Just go with what your heart tells you.
-Cass-

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my friend is here and she had a fever a couple of hours ago and there is a movie in the park that i really want to go to and I'm not sure if she wants to go but I REALLY want to go and I think that she s well enough (she had a fever a long while ago and she was well enough to come over to my house what should I say/do?

i think that you should just say home with her make her feel comfortable i mean she did come over to your house not feeling well didnt she just make her feel at home and everything take care of her and all that good stuff i mean what if its something more serious and everything just dont go you will have other times i mean whats more important your friend or the movie?
-Cass-

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What is the best way to visually tease a guy? I don't mean like taking off your clothes... I mean like seduce.(I know this is a weird question, but I want to see what people say.)

Use your eyes and your hands like just the way you can look at him and just touch your body and the way you can move that might work...
-Cass-

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how far should you go with a guy at age 13...and don't say "however far you wanna go"--thanks

Just dont get yourself carried away with nething too serious i mean yeah people tend to experiment and everything but for you i would say things can be optional just dont have sex witht the guy ey just dont do nething that your not ready to do!
-Cass-

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Hey.. well i fell in love with my best friend.. and we went out and before we went out I told him that i really wasnt sure about going out with him cuz i didnt want to jeperdize the friendship, and he promised me that he would always talk to me if/when we break up, cuz i used to talk to him ALL the time 24/7 litterally.. i fell asleep on the phone wit him once.. well we both did.. and i tell him EVERYTHING.. and still do.. and so then i believed him and i trusted him, and we went out for about a month it would b 2 next week.. and i went on for a vacation last week for 1 week and i got back this saturday (aug 1st or something) and we were at the highest point in the relationship.. and on monday we broke up.. he dumped me.. because he started liking the Amanda girl... and i really dont get it, if he LIKES her.. but he LOVES me.. shouldnt he b wit me? i dont get it... and now we BARLY talk.. and if we do its just like the normal convo.. or we fight... and i really dont want to.. i just end up telling him how i feel about him, me, or us.. and now he either ignores me, my messages (for aim), my texts, or my phonecalls... i really dont know what to do.. cuz i still reallly* like him.. and im all confuesed on how i like him.. like i know hes a free person and he should like who he wants and that there was 2 ppl in the relationship not just me and i cant get everything i want, soo please help me.. ill rate ne1! Sry that its sooo long.. Thank you..

Yeah it does sound like he cant make up his mind like his heart is telling him different things i think that you should just go over to his house one day and totally confront him and tell him out you feel cause by just reading this your head over heels for him...GooD luck
-Cass-

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my neighbor fingered me but i didnt get an orgasm. did he do something wrong?

No, sometimes its normal not to get an orgasm like that and everything and there could be so many reasons y you didnt
-Cass-

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Alright, my ex boyfriend "Jim" and I haven't talked since he's broken up with me about 2 months ago. We've dated a couple of times before, but he was always the one to break up with me, even though we loved eachother very much. Well, after 2 months of me not talking to him, he's started calling me again, and wanting to see me. I know his intentions are good, and I know that he loves me, because he actually cries over me, and writes songs about me and such. But I'm just not sure if I should try it with him again, because I don't want him to break my heart again, but I do want to be with him. So much, I would take a bullet for this guy. Also, my best friend hates him, because he's broken up with me so many times before. And she doesn't hate a lot of people. I know it would be wrong to date him if my best friend hated him, but you have no idea how much I want to be with this guy. I don't want to fuck up mine and my best friend's relationship, but I'm also terribly in love with this guy, and vise versa. Can you help me please?

I've been there sweetie...But see for me things went different im still with the guy that totaly broke my heart but sweetie if this is a thing that just keeps happening you to what makes you think that it wont again i mean yeah the guy will still have feelings for you and everything but i mean is it worth a broken heart time and time again is it worth it? Cause that just means if you go back to him what if he does this again to you can your heart really take it? You need to think about this one sweete!

-Cass-

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I have had a couple of boyfriends and i really liked all of them. but none of them last for a long time because when i really like someone just all of a sudden i wake up one morning saying, ok well i dont really like this person anymore or i like someone else. Do u think that i should wait to have a boyfriend for awhile? or if i start to like a guy i should be his friend for awhile and then see what happens?? please answer my question!! i need some advise!! thanks!
(Im 14)

This happends when you're around this age and everything i did the same thing when i was your age i went out with alot of guys but when i got to my freshman year and everything i found the perfect guy and i have been with him ever since things just take time your time will come just try and get to know them maybe a bit more before plunging in...
-Cass-

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does anybody know a good website for QUOTES????


thanks

Angelfire

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About two months ago, my boyfriend of 8 months bought me a beautiful diamond promise ring and about a week ago, I lost it... I just woke up one morning and found it missing from my finger. I searched my entire house, top to bottom. I even rented a metal detector to try and find it. I feel terrible about losing it. I know it must have cost him a fortune. I haven't told him that I've lost it yet. He just noticed I wasn't wearing it yesterday and asked me where it was. I didn't know how to tell him so I said I was cleaning it. My question for you guys is: how should I go about telling him that I lost it? I know he'll be upset with me no matter how I word it but any advice/suggestions would be helpful.

I know how you feel i have a promise ring myself and everything and it doesnt come off my finger...But you're going to have to tell him sooner or later cause you cant just keep telling him oh im cleaning it...I had this necklace that my bf of 4 years got me and i lost it but the chain broke your ring might have been too big or something and slid off your finger we just all hope...just tell him he needs to understand i mean its not like you took it off or something these things happen...I have a question for you does it have like a warantee on it or something like if something happends to it the place can replace that? look into that but you still need to tell him if you ask me
*Cassi*

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16/f

k i have this guy friend who im really close with named "JoE".."joe" tells me ALOT of his personal shit, and if he ever cheated on a girl, id be tha only person he would tell..but im starting to like him more than a friend and his other best guy friend told my other best guy friend that he liked me too. the problem is he seriously is SUCH a HUGE FLIRT..like hes all over every girl he knows even if he doesnt like them..but hes not like that with me ofcourse cause we are 2 close for that and i dont fall for that shit..he has a reputation of being a player, etc..im scared ill be his next "victim"..what should i dO

I think that if you like him then you should honestly tell him how you feel and everything cause the more he tells you and the more that you guys become close the more that you your feelings go for him and everythign so just tell him how you feel and go from there
Cassi

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i like this guy...but i have a bf n everytime i talk to this dude i feel so guilty...im so confused on what to do..should i tell this guy to go away...or what? cuz i love mah bf so much yet this guy gives me the attention i need at times when my bf dont? PLZ HELP!

You can always be frieds with this guy and everything just dont take it to another level with im and everything i know what you mean with the more attention thing but trust me its not worth losing your bf over stay with him just be friends with the other guy!
Cassi

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Help! I think im loosing my best friend. it seems like all she cares about is her boyfriend. when i invite her somewhere she says oh sry im doing something with my boyfriend. and when shes not with him thats all she talks about. when i invite her over to my house all she dose is talk on the phone with him! how rude! even my bf thinks shes needs to cool it. what should i do and say to her?

Okay i have been dating the same guy for like 4 years now and everything and im not that obsessive over him and everything she does need to tone it down a bit but you have to tell her in a manner that it wont upset her in the long run be like i understand that you have all these feelings and everything for your bf but i dont need to hear about him 24/7 and i would like to see you more often and just have like girl times and not talk about him or talk to him the heart does grow fonder when apart i have learned that one myself yah you may miss him more and everything and want to just be with more and everything but that doesnt mean your heart has grown away from the person at all ...Im still madly in love with my bf but i dont need to spend every waking moment wiht him yeah i talk to him off and on and everything but i love to just hang with my friends i dont need to be with him all the time and you just need to talk to your friend and just explain that you miss hanging out with her and everything and that when you want to be with her shes talking about or talking to her bf just tell her that you miss her and everything just be cool about it

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my friend has been dating this guy for almost a month now.. and I'm some what friends with him too.. but today online he told me he didn't want to go out with my friend anymore.. and told me to dump her for him.. and then he signed off.. What am I sapose to do?? I don't want to hurt my friends feelings.. but if she found out I knew she would get really pissed.. please help!!!

x0x0 too confused girly

i wouldnt do that if i were you thats his business to do that stuff not yours and everything i would show ne signs of knowing that you know about this situation... If i were you i wouldnt say nething

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I really like this guy (im 15/f) like i think it might be love.. but he has a girlfriend.. me n him always chill n like make out n stuff.. and he always tells me he loves me.. but why is he with her?

Some guys do this because their feelings for someone else tend to change alot depending on how long they have been together i mean how long have you been hanging with him and everything cause if its not that long how can he already fall in love with you Hunny im 17 i feel in love and have been with the same person since my freshman year of high school and im still in love with him....but if its only been a few weeks or whatever tehn maybe its just a fling and hes looking for something more in a relationship that hes just not getting from him but if he wants to be with you then he needs to be with you and not her just dont get your heart broke sweetie!

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my boyfriend and my best friend have been fightin alot latly and now there r not friends n im stuck in tha middle wut should i do?? i dont wanna loose either 1 of them

I have been here in this situation and its not fun trust me...I mean it all depends on your feelings and everything i mean you never told them to be friends and everything...I mean you can still hang with either one of them just not at the same time and just tell them that they cant down grade the other in front of you let alone talk about them if that dont work then i dont know sweetie i hope it works...

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