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Help! I think im loosing my best friend. it seems like all she cares about is her boyfriend. when i invite her somewhere she says oh sry im doing something with my boyfriend. and when shes not with him thats all she talks about. when i invite her over to my house all she dose is talk on the phone with him! how rude! even my bf thinks shes needs to cool it. what should i do and say to her?
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Tell her how u feel and how angery and upset u may get sometimes.
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Remember - friends usually last forever, and boyfriends usually don't - so while you're friends obsessing, just hang out iwth your other friends. Try to change the subject on the fone, but if she's rambling about this guy, Just tell her you hafta go. Do things with your other friends, but don't stop being friends with her, and if she keeps obsessing, let her know (but without being mean) that this guy is taking over her life, and you miss hanging out with her. Hope I helped.
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tell her how you feel.. you're suppost to tell each other everything right?
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Okay i have been dating the same guy for like 4 years now and everything and im not that obsessive over him and everything she does need to tone it down a bit but you have to tell her in a manner that it wont upset her in the long run be like i understand that you have all these feelings and everything for your bf but i dont need to hear about him 24/7 and i would like to see you more often and just have like girl times and not talk about him or talk to him the heart does grow fonder when apart i have learned that one myself yah you may miss him more and everything and want to just be with more and everything but that doesnt mean your heart has grown away from the person at all ...Im still madly in love with my bf but i dont need to spend every waking moment wiht him yeah i talk to him off and on and everything but i love to just hang with my friends i dont need to be with him all the time and you just need to talk to your friend and just explain that you miss hanging out with her and everything and that when you want to be with her shes talking about or talking to her bf just tell her that you miss her and everything just be cool about it
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This is not a fun position to be in, turst me i know....BUT boys come and go. So eventually they will break up and she will come back to you. It's at this point that you have to talk to her and tell her how you feel.
Alina
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i am in the same position with one of my best friends only she is ditching me for her other friend so when u find out what to do email me
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i think you should talk to her about how you are feeling in this whole situation. it's not fair to you to keep trying to compete with her boyfriend because it's not going to work if you keep trying it. talk to her and if she doesn't listen to you then she's not a good friend. good luck and i hope i helped.
*~*shan*~*
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i think you should slap her. that will work.
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I think maybe you should phone her and tell her how you are feeling. Say how you are feeling negleted and her boyfriend is ruling her life. If that doesn't work just give her some space. Remeber everyone changes and you can't change them back.
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