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Arguing parents and it's my fault!
My parents are both very picky and will argue about anything!!! Yesterday i was bathing my hamster in the sink and he got away! I had to up all the doors with towels and the whole place was a mess. And he was scared so he left behind droppings! And this was in my parents bathroom too. So, i cleaned it all up and now i see that my parents are fighting so, i take my hamster back to his cage and i had already cleaned up the droppings but i didn't put all the towels and soaps and washcloths away. My mom walks into the bathroom... and then she blames my dad for the mess. I have caused a huge problem. And i can't even try to tell her it was me cause they locked themselves in their room and they sitting there yelling and bickering at each other. I feel terrible because it was not my dad's fault and he is getting the blame! Help!!!
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wow.. i can relate so much to this... my parents are divorced and well the are still friends so the still have those fights and i have to tell myself its not my fault cause its not like you choose how they react to things... trust me here u did one thing but other things happened before that... IT'S NOT UR FAULT! trust me
-Salle Nicole
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There's more to their arguing than this hampster. There's something deeper here,like money problems,one of them having an affair,their parental differences,or anything married couples fight about. Ask them why they're fightig and it upsets you when they're constantly at each other's throats. You may get a "It's none of your business."
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I'm sorry this is happening. You should try to, like, knock on the door really loud. If they answer, tell them the truth. If they don't then maybe you could try calling their phone and talking to them. Other than that, I'm afraid there's nothing else you can do. Maybe they are just thinking up ways to get into a fight. It's not a good thing, but maybe they are better off in seperate places for a little while...to cool off a little bit. Hope you and your parents settle this. Good Luck
xox->casey
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Many parents argue and it is normal. Maybe arguing is their way of communication. Arguing is better than not taking at all. If it really bothers you, tell them that you can't stand them arguing about every little thing. Maybe they will consider going to counseling. But as soon as your mom cools off, tell her that you were the one who made the mess and not your dad. She might still get mad at you, but then she'll say,"At least you said the truth." Hope it all works out!! My fingers are crossed!!
**[Ania]**
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*When your mother calms down, tell her you were the one that left the towels everywhere.*
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i think that you should talk to your mother when everyone is calm, i'm sure that she will understand if you explain everything to her. good luck and i hope i helped.
*~*shan*~*
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Don't feel bad. When they get out, tell them it was you and that you are sorry. They may just have needed to vent. Sometimes its not about what is really happening, but all of the stuff they had been carrying around all day or longer. Arguing isn't always bad. They still care about each other. I wouldn't worry too much unless they are throwing things at each other or calling each other horrible things. It will blow over.
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yell to them that it was yours. u shouldn't have gave him a bath in your parents bathroom.
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It is not your falt that they are aguing, so don't blame yourself. It is obvious that there are bigger problems your parents have if they can get into a heated argument over a few towels on the floor.
Maybe once they have calmed down you can explain that is was you that left the towles on the floor, and that you are very sorry. But also let them know what you are feeling when they fight. Maybe it will help them see that they need to grow up a bit, and not agure over the little things.
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I think you should try to talk to your mom...knock on her door telling her that you would like to talk for a minute. Hopefully she will let you in. If not try telling her from outside the door. If that doesn't seem to work just clean up the bathroom and wait until things calm down, good luck.
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