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k i have this guy friend who im really close with named "JoE".."joe" tells me ALOT of his personal shit, and if he ever cheated on a girl, id be tha only person he would tell..but im starting to like him more than a friend and his other best guy friend told my other best guy friend that he liked me too. the problem is he seriously is SUCH a HUGE FLIRT..like hes all over every girl he knows even if he doesnt like them..but hes not like that with me ofcourse cause we are 2 close for that and i dont fall for that shit..he has a reputation of being a player, etc..im scared ill be his next "victim"..what should i dO
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Stay clear. This is a major bomb shell. I wouldn't pursue this relationship unless you're not the jealous type. If you're the knid of person who is quick to jealousy then this isn't the guy for you. You'll be miserable, because he's going to keep flirting. But that's all it is, and you're not the jealous type then you're good to go. But be careful, because if you're so close to each other, you may not want to jeopardize that. You're still in high school, and high school relationships rarely last. And if you're planning on going to college, chances are, that if your relationship last until graduation it will die by second semester of college. Good luck, I hope my advice helped you.
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if you don't want to be his victim then don't go for him.
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when he's talking to you about his personal stuff, drop a comment or two, or more, about how a girl would like him more if he wasn't such a huge flirt. you have a lot of oppertuinites to talk to him so take advantage of that!
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Don't go out with him. I was in a very similar- almost identical, actually- situation and got burned. It isn't worth it.
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Don't let yourself be his "Next Victim". It sounds like he really confides in you and respects your friendship. I know sometimes it can be hard to be friends with a guy and not start to develop feelings but when you find yourself in this situation, you have a few choices. One, just continue being his friend, and if he likes you more than that, let HIM tell YOU. two, you can be honest and open. Tell him how you feel. besides, you are really good friends. Or you can just push aside all these negative feelings and go for it. It might be the best decision you ever make!
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tell him how u feel about what he does.. and if u like him.. you cant tell your heart that you dont.. yer heart goes for whoever it wants and you dont know when and how u can stop it.. just tell talk to him! =)
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tell the guy how ya feel and if he wants to hook up let him know its not gonna happen if dosnt chill down on the flirting, and if he is really into you then he shold understand and be cool with it, if he freaks out and says forget it, well than you know hes just not worth it yet but keep workin with him (with out gettin on his nerves and pissin him off) and maybe you'll soon b together
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I think that if you like him then you should honestly tell him how you feel and everything cause the more he tells you and the more that you guys become close the more that you your feelings go for him and everythign so just tell him how you feel and go from there
Cassi
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Try talking to him and telling him how you feel. There may be a chance he wont do that to you (the flirting with every girl) because you two are so close and he wouldn't want to hurt you. But, if I was you I would talk to him and just be like "I know we're really close and everything and you tell me everything, but I'm starting to like you and I just want to know how you feel about me." say something like that and then be like "But, you flirt with a lot of girls and you do have a reputation of being a "player" and I don't want to be your next victim or whatever because I really do like you and I don't want to get hurt..." Just say something like that and how you feel about it all. If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox. Good luck hun tell me how it goes. Hope this helps.
xoxo Kourtney
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