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Ok, so I have a boyfriend and I really, really like him. There's only one problem...I'm not allowed to date until I'm 16. I'm not really sure if just haning out at school is considered dating or not. Plus, I always feel embarrassed having a boyfirend, or guilty because I'm not supposed to. I really don't know what to do. My mom knows we're "going out" if you could call it that since we don't really do anything together since, well, I can't date. My sister doesn't have a problem "dating" a guy before 16 but I do. What should I do? (link)
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hmm well i dont wanna be the bad guy here and tell you to lie to your parents or..go against their will but i'll give you advice based on what i would do (which is go behind their backs :-X)
so for me..i'm in a long distance relationship, for over a year actually and its going GREAT! its the best reltionship i've ever been in. because of the whole..distance thing, we obviously cant go out on dates either but you dont need to DATE to have a relationship with him. if you really like this guy and want to be with him, just hang out with him at school or in groups with friends and talk to him on the phone or something at night. i know its hard but it could be worth it and you can make it work. i have :]
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How do you know if you are in love? Are there any signs? I know that it sounds like a stupid question, but i want to be sure before I do anything stupid. (link)
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i'm sure you've heard the phrase "when you are, you'll just know" its crazyyyy how true it is. i'm in love right now and before i knew i would question it all the time and get really stressed out because i couldnt understand my feelings. one week it hit me. that i was totallyyyyyy in love! it really is just one of those things. when you are, you wont have to question it but heres a poem thing i saved a long time ago. it maybe gives you hints to the small little things of love? i dono but i know what its like, i've definitly been in your shoes and its frustrating! good luck girl, i hope i helped :]
If you catch yourself sitting there thinking about him* and genuinly smiling, full of joy.
chances are, you're in love..
if you catch yourself up early or way up late to see if he will sign online
chances are, you're in love..
if you catch yourself saving text messages hes sent to you..
chances are, you're in love..
if you catch yourself listening to the voicemails on your phone over and over again just to hear his* voice
chances are, you're in love..
if you catch yourself sitting there hoping you might get lucky and he'll call..
chances are, you're in love
if you catch yourself listening to his* favorite song over and over...
chances are, you're in love..
if you catch yourself saving IM conversations..
chances are, you're in love..
if you catch yourself looking at pictures of him after a HORRIBLE day but are instantly better..
chances are, you're in love..
if you catch the stomach butterflies flyin around like crazy when you hear his voice..
chances are, you're in love..
if you cant catch your breath when you think of you and him together...
chances are, you're in love..
if you caught yourself thinking about that one special guy* while reading all this..
chances are..you're in love.
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ok i've had this friend for a long time i guess you can say. i met her in 2nd grade & we were friends for awhile & in ms & now hs. i'm a sophmore right now, & so is she, & awhile ago we were talking about how my school has a lot of drama & gossip. she told me if i heard people talking about her, to tell her. well, i did. a few of my friends told me that she had oral sex. okayy maybe not a big deal, but this is a friend i've known since elem & played power rangers with when we were like 8!! plus she's really quiet & shy. it's juss weird to me. i'm almost positive they're not lying. i def don't think i should tell her this but i want to. it was with some guy, not really her bf but sort've & i don't think of her the same at all. we're not best friends er anything but she was still my friend. soo basically should i say something er not?? i heard it from a few people so it's not a big secret i guess.
thanks!! (link)
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the same thing happened to me! except we hadnt known each other as long..she was my best friend in ms but we shyed off a little in high school. we go to different schools and i had heard things about her giving head to one of her friends. it turned out to be a rumor thank GOD but i was still freaked out and didnt know if i should approach her about it. i did eventually which was when i found out the truth. i really dont think it would do any harm in asking. if it does, its her problem not yours. she shouldnt get all upset because you ask a simple question. but the only thing is..make sure you're calm and chill about it when you talk. it'll make things wayyyyy easier. just try to understand where shes coming from and why she did it? maybe she regrets it and knows people are talking..you'll never know unless you ask. good luck! i hope i helped :]
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Hi-
this is a serious situation: I have a great boyfriend, but my ex boyfriend is extremely dangerous and I wonder if I should give up my present relationship and move out of town so my present guy is safe and I will be safe.
The ex is absolutely nuts and he has attempted to hurt someone in this community--I spend most of my time hiding out.
Any answers?
Thanks,
musicfan (I'm 40 years old and female). (link)
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sorry. this is a bit repetative with the last answers but i really think you need to get the police involved. like eustachius said, dont let him alter your life. i know its a sticky situation and you would obviously not want your current boyfriend to get hurt so its a good thing to be concerned. letting go of the new guy and moving away will just make you more upset because your whole life will change. be rational about it, get help from the police. i'm sure it'll work out fine. just be careful
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I'm trying to upload a png file onto photobucket. It's about 400x550 px, and the size is about 200k. Photobucket keeps re-sizing it to 100k and it's really pissing me off! I've never had trouble with other files that size before, even one's bigger than that. It says that it will resize any picture that's over 1MB but this picture isn't even close to that! I converted it to gif and it kept the same size and was over 100k, but the quality wasn't near as good.
Why is it doing this and is there a way to get it to stop and show the picture full size in the png format? (link)
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sorry, i dont have a good answer for your question but YEAH! i have the same problem sometimes..i take all my pictures with a digital camera and then upload them to my computer but then they need to be resized cuz they're like 800K. i know it says that it'll automatically resize any picture thats over 1MB but thats a bunch of BS. it resizes any picture you put on there. except for maybe icons or banners..i dono what to tell you but it'll probably keep happening. its been that way for me for about a year. i just dont even bother putting already little photos up there :-/ if you find a solution to the problem , would you mind letting me know? it would be greatly appreciated :]
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Hi, i weight 116.5 pounds and im 5'6. my age is 14. i have a 8% body fat percentage rate. i run and workout every other day, and i play baseball. i think im fat, i dont no why, it takes over my life! please help me. do u think im fat? (link)
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k WOOOOOOO! first of all. lemme just point out a few things. 115 lbs is normal for a girl your age whos 5'3! and normal body fat % is about 20%! you are very very VERY not fat. if you do all that activity, you're in very good shape. please try to realize that and be happy with who you are (INCLUDINGGG what you look like) before it turns into a bigger problem. aka. eating disorder..trust me. i've experienced it first hand. its N O T fun
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Ok, this guy asked me to a school dance. But, he is fat, and he is a real nerd. He was the first to ask me. Im afraid that people will laugh at me for going with him. I really want to go because it will be fun and we get to go to six flags afterwards. What should I do? Go to the dance with the fat nerd... or stay home? (link)
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i'd say definitly go with him unless you're only going to spare his feelings. you said yourself hes really nice and it would be fun! thats what counts! if you go there, have a good time and act really excited before hand about who you're going with, peoples opinions will change. they might and probably will still talk. but seriously. who the hell cares? dont even pay attention to what people think. its all about you anyways :-)
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i have to take a poll for school. just answer honestly and NO personal info will be given out. okay are you guys either a. a republican or b. a democrat? if you answer one of those 2 you automatically get a 5. yay (link)
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uhm..more republican i suppose..
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Hello!!!! I was just going through random questions, and I noticed that you answered someones question about whether or not long distance relationships work. I thought it was really weird because I am a 16/f and I live in Parma, Ohio. I am in love with this kid who lives in Minnesota and hes 15 years old. I really wanna go out with him, but we've already discussed it and he's not ready for that. I already tried getting him to go out with me and that didn't work out too well, because now he likes me less than before. Anyway, we've been talking for about a year already you could say. I talk to him and his mom allllll the time. I talk to him on the internet every single day, and I used to talk on the phone with him every night. We'd stay up till 6:00 in the morning every night!! We haven't been talking on the phone much cuz his grades were dropping since he was always tired in school from talking to me. He says during the summer we'll have a lot more time to talk. I'm supposed to be going to visit him for a week or a little longer in July for the first time, and I'm really nervous. I really really want him to like me, so he thinks we can be more than friends soon. I don't want him to see me as just a friend. That would kill me, because even though I haven't met him, I feel like I know him from talking to him so much. I would love to be with this kid forever, and I'm always so worried he's gonna get a girlfriend someday. He's a virgin just like me, and he's told me he would save his virginity for me. I also told him the same. I was going to move to Minnesota if I liked it there when I turn 18 or wait just a little longer. It sucks being so far away from him, but we've been through so many arguments. I feel like we can get through anything because we've always fixed our problems. I'm a really negative person and always think bad things might happen, so I'd like to know how I can stay positive about all this? If I have to end up getting over him I have no clue what I'll do. It'll take me forever to get over him because I get so attached to people. I was hoping you could just tell me a bit about your relationship with the person from Ohio, so I could see how that's working out. Everyone tells me that long distance relationships cannot work out on matter what you do, and I've finally found someone on here who thinks they can. I've seen pictures of this kid before, and I think he's so gorgeous! I've also seen his brother and his mom. He hasn't seen any pics of me, but his mom has and she thinks I'm pretty. She is really looking forward to meeting me and I wanna make a great impression. I want them to want me to go there and visit them again. I'd be willing to go visit them every summer if they wanted, and I'd also visit them on some holidays. His mom has already told me if I were old enough she would let me move there now. It sucks I'm not :-( I just feel like this is the best guy I've ever met. He bought me a blankey from the disney store website over the internet for Christmas! It was so sweet, and it was a Finding Nemo one. He also sent me his hoodie that he wore every day, because I wanted something of his so I'd always remember him. His mom made me a scarf, and gave me a gift card to a book store. I sent him a video game he really wanted for Christmas, and I got his mom a candle and this air fresher thing. I also made them both cards myself. They loved their gifts. It's driving me crazy because I want this kid really bad, but I don't wanna rush him again. I want him to ask me out when he really wants me so I know he likes me a lot. I feel like if I rush into it it'll end quicker. I wanna be with him for a really long time. I'm just hoping you take the time to read all of this!! If you do I would really appreciate it. It probably is really confusing, but I'm trying to explain the best way I can. I'd like you to read this if you can, and tell me anything you'd like to about long distance relationships. I'm really depressed right now and I'd just like to try to make myself feel better. If you'd ever like to chat I would keep in touch with you, and I'll let you know what goes on with this. I'm really sorry this is so long! I haven't talked to anyone about this in so long, so I had to tell someone. I hope your not mad! :-) I really appreciate it! If you can, answer pretty soon. If I have any Sorry I didn't really make that shorter, and I also didn't ask many questions. I really need help here on everything. (link)
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hey kimmy i'm back :-) k before i get started, i need to make some stuff clear so this all makes sense. my name is emily as you know. i'm a sophomore..16 in july. i live in rochester and my boyfriend lives in aurora. his real name is michael but i NEVER call him that unless i'm mad at him. i call him whoami (whoa-me) but its a semi-long story as to why so i'll just leave it at that haha :-) so anyways...thats just a little bit of clarification on like..everything. oh hey. whats your guys name? and where does he live?
alright, so now heres my take on all this. first of all, you've got one thing i definitly DONT! and thats his moms approval! it sounds like she lovessssss you. NO! like MORE then loves! if she would honestly want you to move there to be closer to them, you KNOW its a big deal! and the fact that you got her a present is probably the CUTEST thing in the entire world! next to of course, you and him exchanging gifts! like that really makes me happy i'm not gonna lie :-) but wait a minute..why hasnt he seen a picture of you? my bf has seriously seen over 200 of me, plus video clips and stuff. whats the deal here? isnt he like BEGGING to see some?
another thing..i know what its like to want him as more than a friend. since probably the second week of ever talking to whoami, i fell for him. people accused me of it all the time, and him too but i denied it foreverrrrr. i had a LOT of feelings for him though, i just kept it all inside because i knew he liked other girls and i didnt want to be rejected. he went out with three girls by the time he admitted his feelings for me too. that was probably one of the hardest times in my life. i CONSTANTLY felt sick to my stomach knowing that he was all i ever thought about but she was all HE could think about. because of that, i felt reallyyyyy stupid for being only the friend so i started getting down on myself but like i kinda mentioned this morning... guys are more attracted to happy girls. when i was depressed, we didnt talk as much which made me even MORE upset. the best thing i can say is just try your HARDEST to have a good attitude about everything. i got lucky. i got my man. and we're gonna be together forever. i'm soooooooooo in love with him. like its seriously ridiculous. and i'm not some stupid naive little girl. i KNOW this is love. he's coming to see me this summer. our first time meeting too..i'm B E Y O N D excited!
i want to know more about what yor guys thinks about all this. he said he would save his virginity for you? because its hard to believe he would do that but yet, not want to go out with you. i was hesitant to start going out with whoami though, because of what my friends would think. it obviouslyyy sounds really bad like "yeah my boyfriend..i've never met him" so actually. only my 2 best friends know. and NO ONE else! i didnt even tell them until 8 months in! so that could be why he doesnt want to. hes just worried how it will come across to other people although deep down he has major feelings for you. also, its a big committment if you claim to be in love with him, or maybe hes in love with you and is just scared? remember..this is a GUY we're talking about. they dont usually make a whole lotta sense. so how bout you just talk to him. like a genuine talk. its a pretty serious topic. especially to you but try to make it calm and relaxed, kinda like you're just "bringing it up". find out exactly what he wants AND his reasons behind it. thats a big thing to understand... where hes coming from. after you do all that, talk to me again. i really do wanna know how everything goes. my sn is mlesweetie0316. talk to me ANYTIME and feel free to ask questions. i've been in your EXACT same position :-)
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Ive been going out with Jon for almost a year weve had are ups and downs around six months of going out one night he told me he didnt think i really loved him we had plans that night to go to a christmas party i was all ready to go but he just left me at home all night and hung out with his friends instead i was so upset i called my two bestfriends crying he just left me hanging they told me to break up with him or they wouldnt be my friend anyore so i dumped him the next morning my friends were always jealous that i didnt always hang out with them anymore but i made sure i hung out with them alot.My friends promised them would be there for me during the break up but they werent they became best friends and ditched me.jon is one of those guys most would call a player hes had alot of girlfriends done alot of things but this year everyone has told me hes so differant with me.He use to dump his girlfriends all the time but he hasnt dumped me yet.anyways onto my piont.One day we had gotten into a fight he told me i only think about myself that everything has to be about me.that i dont show him i love him i just say it.he said he didnt mean to get mad and that he loves me and doesnt know what he would do without me thats hes never felt this way about any girl before.Today was Patty Murphy Day(senior skip day)he skipped hes not a senior he said he had plans i said i didnt want to talk to him if he skipped ,my friend ashley brought me to a store today to pick up food before my game he happened to be outside i said hi walked away he got out of his car and said i told you youd talk to me i kissed him he said i love you tree times i didnt say anything back he drove off..It hurt to hear he doesnt think i care about him if i didnt i wouldnt be with him for a year how do i show him i care more what do i do?and as for the i love you thing i think i just shouldnt say it if he doesnt think i love him what about you?thanks so much (link)
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i dont have the energy to put all my time and thought into explaining exactly what i think about this situation but just to answer your last question. i REALLY think you need to keep saying i love you even though he doesnt think you mean it. i've been through the EXACT same thing but if you quit saying it, its just a HUGE reinforcement that he was right, and you really dont love him; or so he'll think. and as for the whole "not showing but only saying i love you" thing, thats the problem. actions speak louder then words hunny, show more say less. it'll kick in eventually.
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i know not another stupid boyfroend prob. but sorry it is. well you see my boyfriend is going to see his dad and he is leaving june 2. and i am really upset about that he came over today and asked if i we should take a break while he's gone. i told him he saying that so he can get laid while he's gone without feeling gulit.but thank god as soon as i said that my friend interupted so advice plez what should i do. (link)
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sure he could have asked for a break so he could fool around guilt free but definitly could have said it as to take some stress off of both of you while he's gone. it could be a nice break for both of you. instead of worrying about what hes doing, just realize that even if he IS fooling around, to him, you could be back home doing the exact same thing. just talk to him, and STAY CALM. try to get the best perspective on his point of view and when he comes back, you could take off right where you left off. taking a break can be a very healthy thing for a realtionhip.
good luck
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My exboyfriend and I never had sex, but the reason we broke up is because he had sex with another friend of his. I was mad and asked him how could he hurt me like that? I thought he loved me? He said he didn't know what love was. Obviously I dumped him and then tried ignoring him. I wanted to just forget everything. But we ended up in the same school club and I started really liking him again. We also both made friends with a girl named Monica, no we usually hang out in threes. (Monica has a long distance bf she would never cheat on, if that helps.) I can see my ex maturing, but he never has said sorry to me. We hang out one on one now sometimes. I've learned that his mom put him up for adoption for selfish reasons and the lady that adopted him kicked him out because he'd gotten in a fight with her nephew and made her brother hate her. But now in the club he really seems different. I once heard him telling Monica she's taught him a lot about people. And how he'd hated everyone. So now my ex & I are best friends but neither of us has said anything about our past relationship or a future one. What do I do? I want to be with him again; is that wrong? Can you forgive someone that never says they're sorry? (link)
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you can DEFINITLY forgive someone even if they've never said sorry. it's you moving on from the situation and putting it all behind you. if you continue to dwell on it, and hold a grudge, you havent forgiven him. but it seems like you're on your way or have gotten past that. i'm glad to hear your guys' relationship is improving and although what he did was extremelyyyy cruel, maybe it wouldnt hurt talking about it? it's all up to you but if you feel confident enough with talking to him again, i think you should try it. what do you have to lose? he's not your bf anymore..
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Haha, I need someone to analyze my behaviour a bit, cause I have no clue why I do the stupid things I do.
1) Whenever I like someone, I offer to hook one of my girlfriends up with him! Wtf? O_O
2)There's this guy I like, and we've been e-mailing this whole year (since he lives on the other side of the planet haha) so for some reason I told him my computer was being taken away, by my dad, and that I couldn't keep in touch anymore, WHAT? I LIKE THIS GUY! Why in the world would make up an excuse to NOT talk to him anymore?
Let's start with that and I'll ask you the deeper stuff if I thought your advice ont his was good =) hehe, thaank you people! AND good luck with yor future "shrink" careers ;)
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okay i think i might have an idea! for the first one..it could be that you just want him to think that you're cool. which is most likely what he'll think if you can somehow get him with another girl. like think about it. if you can almost garauntee him a hookup, he'll be like YES! this girl is so sweet! so without really trying to, thats what you end up doing because you get so caught up in liking him
and for the second one. first of all, lemme just say that i've been there. and its all for attention. i dont say that as a bad thing, although maybe it is? i dono BUT! if you tell him you wont be able to talk anymore, you're obviously hoping for a huge reaction from this guy. something along the lines of "WHAT! AH! NO! BEG YOUR DAD NOT TO TAKE IT! i'll miss you i wanna talk to you!" etc etc.
thats just what i'm thinking. i could be totallyyyy off and i'm sorry if i am but thats just what comes to me. hope i helped? &hearts
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okay so im 14/female... ive only had one REAL boyfriend, but we were together for 10 months and it was the bomb. but anyways. i was at this really decent party and there was this guy there named stephon and hes really cute!! so i was talkin to him and we were flirting and stuff so i was like lets go out front, so we did. and we were just talking( we hardly knew eachother but he was really nice) and somehow we started hooking up... so yeah after that we went back to the party and we just talked the whole time about whatever and we have soo much in common! he's amazing and hes really smart. but anyways we exchanged numbers and all and i walked him part of the way home and he kissed me bye.... and im just wondering, like i know he liked me and i want to go out with him but how can i keep him interested since we already hooked up? cuz hes really amazing
ill rate if youre good thank soo much! (link)
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you said.."how can i keep him interested since we already hooked up?"
well thats the first thing thats wrong. if he really matters, he shouldnt just want you for the hookup. i'm sure you already know that but make sure you reinforce it upon yourself.
just keep flirting with him, get to know more about each other but dont jump into things. you also said you want to go out with him. but i think if you JUST met him, its a little too soon. you dont want to scare him off. hang out with him a few more times, keep talking to him but make sure to take things slow but keep things interesting at the same time. if its worth it, he'll stay interested. good luck girl :]
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How do you know when a guy you're just hanging out with one night wants to kiss you? Like, when he wants to, but didn't/won't.
This guy and I were on the couch & he was laying behind me, & we were watching tv. He'd be like, "staring contest, go!" so I'd turn my head & we'd have one & our faces were like an inch away.. ok, well, maybe a little more than that but we were really close. He kept looking at my lips. That doesn't mean anything, right? He looked like he was really tired, lol, it was so cute. I don't know if he likes me or anything, though.
& I get kinda nervous so I suck at making eye contact. And when I do, I'll start laughing. Tips? (link)
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eye contact is seriously one of the best inventions known to man. if you can make strong eye contact with a guy you'll definitly pull him in. it'll make him more curious and want to know more about you. it'll let him know that your confident and and aware of your surroundings. everyones been nervous and done the whole, looking down and laughing deal. it takes practice i guess but you CAN do it. i dono what to say about him liking you or not. if its hard for you though, you can kinda work in some of your own initial reactions [giggling, looking away] into it. like make it a cute eye contact. look him straight into the eyes for just a second or two, smile and look away and start doing something else. he'll notice you for sure. after a while, it wont be so hard.
hope i helped
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So..I still love this boy..w/ everything I have..but I feel like me and him are drifting..and just now, he just asked me if I was loosing feelings, because after the first break up .. I stopped getting all flirty towards him and stuff..like stopped sending cute texts..
But..I feel like .. I am loosing feelings..but I still love him.
but..I want away from him
but I love being w/ him..do you guys understand?
Because frankly.. I don't. =/
When I am around him or talking to him, I feel like I want to be w/ him forever
Then, when I get to thinking about it, I don't want to..its like this boy has be around his finger..but he isn't like that. He's nice, and sweet, and funny..and almost perfect. But lately, when we're on the phone, we have nothing to talk about .. except what went on at school that day or something.
UGH. HELP.
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if you love him, you love him. first and foremost you both need to decide if you WANT to be with each other. like full on WANT. it sounds like you're totally not sure. if you're both ready to remake a committment, start getting yourself back to the way you used to be. is it so hard for you to send a cute next now and then? cant you flirt with him a little? i mean..he IS your boyfriend! this is SUCH a weird situation and oh my gosh. i have SOOOO been there. its hard to explain and especially hard to give advice on. i'm sorry i cant do any better. i really really am. i wish i could help more :-/
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Well theres a guy who I get on really well with. We talk at school and for hours on msn. A few months ago he asked me out, I turned him down I didnt want to ruin our friendship. Again a few weeks ago he asked me again, we have been chatting more and hanging out loads. I said I would think about it then the next day told him I didnt think it would work. So its been just over a month since he asked me and im starting to fal for him, he seems to have moved on but im not sure. We spoke on msn for 7 hours today, I mean before I knew he had msn I was only online around once a week. He is such a sweet guy and I regret saying no, I guess I never really noticed that side of him before. Now I need your help, Is it too late?? Should I ask him out?? Has anyone been in this situation before?? Im falling in love with a good good friend so I need amazing advice. I dont want to ruin what we have, but dont want to lose what we could have had. Thanks for reading this.
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i dont think its too late. you said yourself you werent sure if hes moved on. i've been in the same situation but the only reason why i'm with my current bf is because i took a chance. i know this might seem typical "blah" advice but you really do need to find out how he feels. he might just be embarassed that he still likes you when you said no so many times so hes trying to hide it. it sounds like you've liked him the whole time anyways..whether you want to admit it or not. if you spent SOOO much of your time talking to him, i have a feeling it was more then because he was such a cool guy. trust me. i know first hand what thats like. i completelyyy understand not wanting to lose him as a friend but the least you could do is talk to him about it. dont jump right into it and ask him out though. that would be the wrong thing to do. find out where he stands and maybe it would still be worth it after all is said and done. he also needs to realize how much you cherish his friendship regardless. besides, sometimes friends can be better then bf/gf anyways.
good luck girl. i hope i helped :]
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Any tips on how to make a long distance relationship work?
15/f He moved at the beginning of the month, and it's hard. But I really don't wanna give up. (link)
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okay heres the thing. i am POSITIVE long distance relationships can work. like 100000% positive. anyone who says they cant is HIGHLY mistaken. i lived in north dakota all my life until the summer after fifth grade. sadly however, i had to leave my boyfriend behind. we went out from oct of 5th grade-oct of 7th. seeing each other only twice after i moved. and now i'm in a relationship of over a year with a boy in ohio. i live in minnesota and as HORRIBLE as this sounds..we've never actually met each other. i wont go into details about how that came about to spare you the time but basically this is how it works..
1] we both WANT the committment. thats the most important thing
2] we trust each other completelyyyyyy & understand that its not gonna be easy
3] we talk EVERY chance we get and when i say every chance, i mean EVERY. SINGLE. CHANCE.
4] we occasionally send each other cute little things to keep surprise in the relationship as a reassurance that we still care
5] as unnecessary as this may sound, we ALWAYS know what each other is doing and where we are. it sounds excessive but it actually really helps because we feel like we're directly in the persons life doing the things right alongside them.
6] basically if i'm not talking to him on the computer, i always have a phone in my hand. you just hafta communicate
before trying too hard only to get hurt in the end, make sure keeping a relationship is what he REALLY wants. if he doesnt, dont necessarily take it as a diss towards you. the long-distance relationship is a whole new world for most people. i admit, its SUPER hard at times and you'll feel like giving up soooo often but if hes really where your heart is it, it'll be worth it in the end and you'll see each other eventually. you CAN make it work.
i hope i helped. good luck girl :]
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