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Me and my boyfriend are having mjor problems
So..I still love this boy..w/ everything I have..but I feel like me and him are drifting..and just now, he just asked me if I was loosing feelings, because after the first break up .. I stopped getting all flirty towards him and stuff..like stopped sending cute texts..
But..I feel like .. I am loosing feelings..but I still love him.
but..I want away from him
but I love being w/ him..do you guys understand?
Because frankly.. I don't. =/
When I am around him or talking to him, I feel like I want to be w/ him forever
Then, when I get to thinking about it, I don't want to..its like this boy has be around his finger..but he isn't like that. He's nice, and sweet, and funny..and almost perfect. But lately, when we're on the phone, we have nothing to talk about .. except what went on at school that day or something.
UGH. HELP.
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The best thing you can do here is speak to him about it, try and explain to him how you are feeling and find out if he feels the same. Its not fair on him to keep dragging on if you heart isn't truly in it, as it doesn't sound as if you are in the relationship 100% at the moment. You shouldn't need to try to do something like flirt, you should want to do it. If you don't, then there is a problem there.
Only he can truly help you with this. Just be completely honest with him and work things through. It could just be that the excitement that you get when you first start going out is starting to wear off and now your going to have to decide if you still want to keep going.
Good luck, hope I helped
Sapphire Lily xxx
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if you love him, you love him. first and foremost you both need to decide if you WANT to be with each other. like full on WANT. it sounds like you're totally not sure. if you're both ready to remake a committment, start getting yourself back to the way you used to be. is it so hard for you to send a cute next now and then? cant you flirt with him a little? i mean..he IS your boyfriend! this is SUCH a weird situation and oh my gosh. i have SOOOO been there. its hard to explain and especially hard to give advice on. i'm sorry i cant do any better. i really really am. i wish i could help more :-/
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