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Hey Im 13 years old and im going into 8th grade in 3 weeks and im friends with this guy who is 12 and he wants me to give him a blow job. I think I want to but i really dont no how to go about doing it I really need some advice !!!!!

thats sick...

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have u ever shoplifted something small and not gotten caught? jw
thanx

nope.. why do sumthing stupid like that? lol kayz bye!!

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hi my hair is short[above my shoulders] and i want to grow it to maybe a couple of inches past, i was hoping for at least almost an inch past my shoulders by the time school starts in september..does anyone have any tips to help my hair grow faster?

Trim ur hair a few inches. it grows pretty fast. idk ne other wayz tho sorriezz!!
Xo HoPe I HeLpEd oX
NiCoLe

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Me and this guy are really good friends and we have been talking for about 3 months now.Well...I like him and he likes me because he told me before and he always protects me and stuff.Well...I've been waiting a VERY long time for him to ask me out.I want him to SO BAD that its driving me CRAZY!!!Do yall have any ideas on how to drop hints to him on asking me?Thanx!

maybe u shud ask him hun, he duzzent have to be tha one to ask duz he? idk, but if u realli want him, u shud make tha effort to ask him out. cuz whos to say he will? =) hope i helped!! ~NiCoLe~

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ok i want to compete at where i take dance from but all the girls on there...there like really tiny and flat and im like 5'2 and lets just say im NOT flat but i mean im not fat or n ething but idk if i should even bother trying out or not?

Yes yes try out! u have to atleast try. or u'll end up regreting it. u know? and dont let other ppl sike u out! juzt go for it!!
Xo HoPe I hElPeD oX
nicole

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is it possible to get a firmer stomach in a week?

prolly.. if u worked on it realli hard.
Xo HoPe I HeLpEd oX
nicole

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okay i love singing and i sing alot... i think i have a good voice.. and so do most of my friends.. i dunno if i should risk it and try out for a talent show. or sing at a party.. im worried ill mess up>... should i risk it.. or just sing when im just with me and my best budies?

O juzt go 4 it gurl!! good luck!
Xo HoPe I HeLpEd oX
nicole

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hey..im 13..5'4..and wiegh 140..is that fat? is that y guys dont like me?

ok ur not tha skinnyest prsn in tha world, but thats okay. if ur worried about ur weight maybe go 2 tha gym and work out, and watch wut u eat. and that shuddnt be tha reason guyz dont like u tho. personality is tha main thing! sooo dont worrie!

Xo HoPe I hElPeD oX
nicole

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A couple of my friends always tell me that im so gorgeous and they wish they looked like me n stuff... yeah, its flattering but it makes me feel uncomfortable and a lil guilty or something. should i do something? or what can i do so that i wont feel uncomfortable... thank u

itz a complimint! and dont feel bad! juzt be happy that u r really pretty! and if it realli botherz u then tell them u appreciate tha compliments on ur lookz but it make u feel sorta uncomfortable. and hopefully it'll stop. but seriously stop feeling bad, itz a good thing!!

Xo HoPe I HeLpEd oX
nicole

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my boyfriend wants to have sex but I don't know if I'm ready what should I do?

wait till ur ready if hez a good bf he will wait 4 u until u r completely ready! dont let him presure u into it!

Xo HoPe I hElPeD oX
nicole

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i am 14 and i have had sex with almost every boyfriend ive had since i was 11..if i want to or not..is this normal? Advice?

Omfg! thats soo wrong! u could get pregnant, u wanna have a baby at age 14? and sooo many disease u can get, u prolly have sum. even if u dont know it, sorry im not trying to be all motherly but u shud seriously think!! and since age 11? o my god......

Xo HoPe I hElPeD oX
nicole

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I like this guy. We are very close, pretty much bestfriends. Well I just wanna know if he has any of these same feelings. I would ask him but thats just not how we are....he would probably think I was a freak or something. And If i got someone else to ask he wouldn't tell the truth I don't think. I mean I used to think he liked me cause he would be flirty and touch me alot and things but now I don't know cause he doesn't really do that anymore. Well I hope this can all make sense...please write back if you have any adVicE!~!

Yes it made sense! and thankz for asking me for advice! i will try mi best 2 answer thiz good! maybe juzt tell him u like him. juzt say okay juzt wanted to let u know how i feel about u, i really like u, if u dont feel same thats cool, i know were really good friends, soo if u onlie like me as a friend i understand..
u can say it however u want. or u dont even have to say ne thing. but i think itz a good idea if u do. thats tha best way to find out if he likes u. and if he duz, u guyz maybe can go out!! lol kayz hope i helped!! laterz! -nicole

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Im really depressed right now..and i dunno why..its weird. How do i cope with it?

uhumm songs can help, or talk 2 ur friends. that alwayz helps me! xO HoPe I HeLpEd Ox

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my "best friend" copies me a lot and it gets on my nerves. But yesterday she bought the same purse that I've had only for like a month when I asked her not to get it. Then she returned it but layed on the guilt and she mae me feel really bad because she said she was jealous of me cuz I have a great life, but i moved to TX from MD last year, and she said that moving wasnt a big deal but it was and so she wants to be fine and friends again but she really pissed me off and I don't really want to be her friend anymore so I don't know what to do now(I am 11 and a girl)

Shes jealous of u and wants 2 be like u! i c how it would get annoyin but tell her that she shud be her own individual and not get tha same things as u. and tell her if she continues to copy u, that u dont wanna be her friend ne more. *say it in a nice way tho*

Xo HoPe I hElPeD oX
Nicole

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I am TOTALLY obssed with this boy named brian.He has a girlfriend,which happends to be a very good friend of mine.She told me that i could go out with him.But then she dumped him and now she is going back out with him.She told me she is going out with him because she doesnt wanna make him feel bad.I think thats weird.So i told him.he doesnt belive me OF COURSE!!How should i make them brake up beacuse of that ?
IM me on aim- Andrea8o6

~Tell ur good friend that she shud tell him that and stop going out w/ him. lol i know thats not that grate of advice! but im sorrie i cant come up w/ anything else~

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Ok here is what happened. The other nite when we were @ my friends house we all decided to play truth or dare. I was dared to make out w/ my best guy friend. We decided we would do it since it was just a dare and didn't mean anything. It turned out to be different than I expected. My friend got a little carried away and was really into it. I mean he was like passionate about it! Soo i dont know what to do cause everytime I'm hanging around him I feel funny cause of us hooking up or whatever. I've tried to talk about it w/ him but he doesnt seem to wanna say anything bout' it....well help me out if u can! please..thanks ;)

Heyz!!
thx for asking me a q!! yay!! lol ok!
wellz wut u shud prollie do is like say sumthin like, did tha kiss mean ne thing to u? and juzt like tell him if it ment sumthing to u. and maybe u guyz will go out!! GoOd LuCk!!

Xo HoPe I hElPeD oX

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im thinkin i want a guy thats a year or two older than i am because that way hes not so immature and hopefully not as prude... but then again.. i dont wanna be made fun of or called a whore for the stupid things ppl will assume.. so i guess i could go for a guy my age.. but isnt it more important what i want then what my friends think... please help! i rate well! x0x0x ~*a*M*y~

okay amy,
maybe u shud juzt go for a guy that u like, no matter if hez ur age, or older. juzt go 4 tha guy that makes u smile and tha one u find to love. u dont have 2 plan wut age u perfer!
Xo HoPe I hElPeD oX
nicole

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do you think having an online relationship is okay..... so youve seen the pictures talked alot.. but do i really know and trust them.. i mean would you depend your life on someone you just met online.. or is that crazy!! thanks

~*a*M*y~

Dude itz sorta scary. u never know if they r lying bout all tha stuff. i mean itz cool if u dont tell them 2 much info. like where u live exactly and stuff like that. u definity shuddnt depend ur life on them!!
Xo I hOpE i HeLpEd oX

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see every day im home alone for about 10-11 hours and i get really bored have any ideas on how to make the time really fly i rate good!!!

U can..
talk to ppl on tha fone
listen 2 music
go online and visit sum sitez
play computer games
watch tv
watch some moviez (it makez time go by fazt)
try 2 win stuff on tha radio
swim (if u have a pool)
invite a friend ova
go over 2 a friendz house
go to chat roomz and meet new ppl!!
*shrugz* idk i hope i helped!! If not IM me maybe i'll have sum more thingz.. xSh0ppinbebex7

LaTeR, NiCoLe

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My best friend likes this one guy, but secretly I like him, and I think he likes me! I read in her diary, which she let me read, trhat she was mad for him! What can i do!

U shud tell ur bff... cuz u cant hide that from her.

GooD LucK W/ EverYthinG!!
Xo HoPe I HeLpEd Ox

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