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My name is Melissa :]. I live in California.I seriously do. Fresno,CA. Look it up. I didn`t know what or where Fresno was until my dad came home & told us we were moving there.. I live in like the friggen richiest part of Fresno called Clovis[it`s another city that`s in Fresno.]Nothing ever happens in Clovis.No robberies,killings,etc. Things always happen in Fresno. This city is so effing small that you find out about everyone`s problems. It`s like Gossipville. My highschool is even worse. People talk smack like it`s their hobbie, so i`ve had my share of gossip about me. Doesn`t really bug me, unless you continue to do it. Then I get pissed. Who wouldn`t?! Fresno is okkaayyy, if you meet the right people. But Clovis will always be the most boringest place ever.



I've been through alot. Anything really. I don`t really trust people that easily, but if I do, then congrats, you`re awesome. Don`t straight up ask me what i`ve been through. If I really really really really really really really really know you, then I might tell you. But you know, it`s hard telling people what you`ve been through because it brings back so much horrible memories. I got over some shit, but it still leaves marks..Welcome to a world where being yourself isn`t good enough..



My closet is full of clothes from Hollister,Abercrombie,Forever 21, Charlotte Russe, and all those preppie stores that you hate. I can`t live without my cell phone or a purse. Don`t judge me. If you do, I friggen hate you with a passion.I have alot of confidence, and you might think that i`m cocky, but i`m not. I actually think low about myself, but what girl doesn`t? I sometimes think that i`m better than a few people, but i only compare to those who are pretty shallow & fucking dumb. Like gossip starters, stalkers,backstabbers, & anything like that.I'm probably the coolest 15 year old that you`ll ever meet :]. I love going to the beach, even though i HARDLEY ever get to go. I was born in San Francisco. I move alot. I stayed in new york for 4 years because of my daddy's job. But now i'm back here in california.I love my friends. I'm a really nice girl. I`m full of sarcastic remarks.Anything acustic(sp) realllyy turns me on. I love it when a guy can sing & play something hot, aww so adorable, don`tcha think?! ;]



I have a boyfriend & his name is Junior. He's gorgeous.HE PLAYS THE ACUSTIC GUITAR & SINGS FOR MEEE!! Oh man, I just feel like grabbing him. He makes me really happy && he surprises me alot. He makes me feel all like..warm and soft inside.Shut up. Your jealous. I know. Our love is anything but average. We have the weirdest relationship, but I wouldn`t trade it for the world..I love it when we watch re-runs of the O.C. I love how he can watch romantic movies with me. I love it when he lets me win in video games.I love when he kisses my nose or forhead. I love it when he trips me lol. I love it when he gives me piggy back rides & won`t let me fall when i`m standing on fire hydrants.I love it when we eat chicken nuggets together & share only one drink. I love it when he squeezes my face cheeks together & kisses me. I love the way he runs up to me at school & jumps on me. I love the way we skip together holding hands. I love it when I take out the crust of my bread && he eats it. I love it when I turn out to be hecka sick & he comes to my door with soup & his blanket. I love it when he sends me like .. friggen 2 page love letters & he sends them through the mail & i get them. I love it how he believes in me & teaches me to make better choices and incourages me. I love the way he can easily cheer me up with the simpliest things like smiling. I love it when i start crying and he cheers me up by doing the "balony dance". Lol. I love the way he pokes my cheeks with his finger. That`s love, baby.

I say tre-cool & dunzo alot.



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does anyone know of another site i can go to just like this except with not as many questions about losing weight?

Psf..Aren`t you the witty one?

Well no there isn`t. Sorry.

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if love was a question would you answer it? even if it made you feel sad, or mad, or dissapointed or insecure?

Yessss. You just have to face love even if it brings all the crappyness & heartaches. That`s how eventually you find TRUE LOVE... :] ♥

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hey!! ok, i really need help. I like this guy. ALOT. and my friends said that he probably likes me because he stares at me sometimes and gives weird signs that he likes me. The Problem: I have never talked to him. He is VERY shy so he won't talk to me, but i'm shy also. I want to talk to him but i dont want to be ackward and i want to maybe even become friends with him. I just want to get to know him, and become closer to him but i dont want him to think im weird. please help me, what can i do?
thanks ♥

Aw. Well you know that in this situation YOU have to be the one that has to talk to him, because obviously he won`t. Be confident. If you have a class with him, go up to him for help, even if you have friends around you. He`ll probably get a clue that you really wanted to talk to him when you can even ask your friends about something. Get what i`m saying??

If you don`t have a class with him & your friends with one of his friends, ask your friend to introduce you to him..even if he knows your name. Or just be around your friend when he/she`s talking to the guy you like.

This situation that your in is actually quite simple. But you just too nervous[which is cute] to talk to this boy. Just get the courage to talk to him. I MEAN, THIS GUY CAN BE THE ONE YOUR GOING TO BE MARRIED TOO!! :] I like to think that way. ♥

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hey can you please tell me any sites for xanga music .. ? like hip-hop,r&b, or rap and stuff like that .. ?

www.xanga.com/music_galore

That has any type of music. I would also reccommend asking x0 hOlLiSteR baBe [Teza] or xO`alma`Ox [Alma, hence the name :o) ]. They both have xanga and probably know wayyyyyyyyyyy more than I do. So don`t hesitate, they are both very nice. :]

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Okay your hair in that pick looks omg so cute!

I was wondering if you could tell me how you did that?

I have hair like yours... and omg your hair is to cute!! Okay sorry, Im not trying to copy you or anything. I just need more ideas for hairstyles than.. Ponytail,and wearing my hair down. Dont say scrunch it because. I look horrible when i do.

Thanks a bunch =D ♥

Thanks :]

I answered a question like this, so I just hope you don`t mind if I just copy & paste to what I said.
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My friend Annabell did it for me, but i`ll try & describe it. :]

What she did is let my whole hair loose down, and then took the middle part of my hair[not all of it]. It`s basically a half-up half-down look, but she took my bangs & seperated them to the front & let most of my hair loose; then she poofed it up my hair that`s up by using a big brush & hair-sprayed it so it can stay.Or you can just pull the hair thats up, so it looks poofy, but neat. Friggen A ; I suck at describing stuff. Sorry if I couldn`t make it clearer. :\


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i think my friend is going anerxic..
what are some signs they she might be?

http://www.laureate.com/services/ed/abouted/anorexia.asp

http://www.phillyburbs.com/pb-dyn/news/103-07122005-513473.html

http://www.helpguide.org/mental/anorexia_signs_symptoms_causes_treatment.htm

Some of those repeat the same thing..But they each have different things.

You can also google.

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okay so im a girl. 16 years old. and ive had my period for quite a few years. but i was just wondering if..
1) my breasts have stopped growing already and 2) lately i have had the constant urge to pee and even after i go i feel like i have to again...i was just wondering what it meant or what i can do about it.
3)if it is normal for a girl to day dream about having sex with her crush?


Thanks for all your help!

1) Your breast will probably grow, but they get bigger once your pregnant[not saying to go have sex just because you want your boobs bigger..that`s dumb]. People say that they don`t stop growing till your 18, so..

2)Maybe it`s because you haven`t finished yet? Like, you think your done peeing; so you leave the bathroom & you realize that you aren`t, so you go to the bathroom again? Omg that sounds retarded, but if that`s not it, then go see a doctor. It just might be a safter thing to do.

3) Totally normal. ;]

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ok so im getting braces this thursday but before that i need to make a decision whether to get the clear or colored ones. the clear ones are NOT invisilign just to let you know the clear ones are basically the same as the colored ecept they match the color of you teeth. now the thing is with the clear ones if you eat something like chocolate, your braces would turn brown which i dont really want to happen but they say it doesnt happen if you brush your teeth a lot (which i do) but like in school if i have like a chocalate bar or something i cant brush my teeth in school and the other thing is pratically all my friends have the colored ones and i really havent seen many people with the clear ones.
can someone help me figure out what to decide?
thank you so much
sorry its kind of long

Definatly get the colored ones. Those are really cute because you can get any colors you want & make them match up. :] But whatever you do, don`t get white color brackets, they make your teeth look yellow..Atleast that`s what I heard.

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Hey does anyone know if bambi is a girl or a boy?
Just wondering, it has to do with a school thing.

He`s a boy. I`m totally in love with that movie.

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Hii! I loove having cute AIM profiles, but I don't know how to get a larger selection of colors. I know that there is a program that you can download which gives you more colors, but I don't know much about that. Does anyone know how to get more colors? Thanks for any answers! I rate!

Here`s the direct link to download the program to get more cute color fonts.

http://s93438047.onlinehome.us/applesauce.exe

It doesn`t have viruses...Atleast I don`t think so..It`s easy & you can just pick whatever color you want. I recommend it. Most people who have really cute aim profiles with different colors & stuff get their colors from Applesauce[which is the link I gave you].

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most of my people on my buddylist have creative profiles... they even have diffent fonts and little sayings... i dont see where they get this stuff like the hearts and stuff.. and i dont take them out of their profiles because i dont like when people copy off me so i dont do it to them.. i also dont see how they get all the diffrent fonts and colors in their profile because where you go and edit you profile it dont give you a choice of what font you want..

is there any websites or places where i can creative sayings and diffrent fonts and be unique?

anything will help/ i rate 5's

http://s93438047.onlinehome.us/applesauce.exe

That will make you have very cute font colors. You can pick whatever type you want. You need to download it ; and that`s what most of us girls use to have different color fonts.

http://www.xanga.com/allthebest_QU0TES

That has very cute quotes. My favorite. :o]

Now this next link that i`m going to give you, is an AIM FADER.

http://www.boletrice.com/aimfader/

It only works when you IM someone. And you HAVE to have it open for it to work. You can`t use the fader in your profile. So i don`t know if you might want to download that, plus, sometimes you might have to connect with the person to use it because the colors have so much "characters" that you can`t use it without connecting. It has is upsides and downsides. Soo.. :]

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My sore throat is really bothering me and can anyone tell me what type of remedy works really well for a sore throat?

Honey with Green Tea. I heard. I`m not sure. You can google... :D Anything hot basically. And if you want, try keeping your neck warm.. I asked my mommy. :D. She`s great. Well hope you feel better!

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I want everything in life. I want to grow maximize my career to the fulliest.
But i feel like im doing enough to, to show how smart i really iam. Im 13/f. My last report card was bad..I got straight C'S (which isnt really bad for a few grades but in every class, bad.) any suggestions on how to improve my grades, and all?

STOP WATCHING T.V & GET OFF THE COMPUTER!!

If your school has a tutoring place where you can get help with your homework, start going there. If you have any trouble with whatever the teacher is talking about, ask him/her to go over it again one more time just so you can get it.

In my math last semester I got an F. Soo it sucked. I just started keeping every thing that he gave us together & studied for tests extra more. I asked him to help me a bit after school of what we went through in the lesson that he taught that day. Now 2nd semester I have a B-. :] I know right. Be proud. Anywayss, you just need to be really prepared. Study more. And ask teacher`s for help. :]

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Im 13. Im "big boned". And i weight about 127, Im a 36B, And Im 5'0ft. I'd have to loose atleast 20 pounds for my stomache to even get close to flat enough for any abs, at all.
my arms are fat, and need mad toning. But i love my thighs, and i'd my legs to be a tad more muscle. Sugeestions, tips? help..

http://www.seventeen.com/health

I love Seventeen. And I love it`s health section. :]

Just go there & it`ll give you a couple of exercises for your body.

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I want to get my teeth whitened at Brite Smile but I can't find any websites that tell me how much it costs. I guess it's the "If you have to ask, then you can't afford it." thing, but anyways, anyone who can tell me how much it'll cost tell me please!!!

http://www.britesmile.com/index.html?refcd=YA0000001

http://www.britesmile.com/learn/price.asp?tf=0&pc=

They practically want you to call the number.

Annnddd, the number isss..

1-800-681-3935

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what is ne-yo's new song called

It`s call "So Sick".

POSITIVE!

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ccan you have sex during your period?
and if you do will you get pregnant. or will you get blood all over. what if you use a tampon or is that like out of the question? sorry for bomb-barding you with this stuff.

Bombarding. I love that word. And don`t worry your not. :]

Yes you can have sex when your on your period. It just might be a little bit..messy and gross.

And if you don`t use a condom when your having sex[on your period or not] then you can get pregnant.

A tampon goes in your vagina. So does a penis. So basically if you want to have sex, & you have a tampon in your vagina, then that`s not exactly sex. Because having sex means that his penis has to go into your vagina. Get what I`m saying?? So having a tampon in your vagina while "having sex" is out of the question.

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Guys and girls if you can answer this. What is your favorite kind of underwear on a girl and why?

I have no idea why this is in the sex question, it should be on the fashion & styles question.. But whatever floats your boat..

Well i`m no guy or anything, i`m guessing guys like underwear from Victoria`s Secret. And most of those guys like thongs. Just go with whatever feels comfortable on you.

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I was wondering if anyone knows of Greek gods? What were the powers of the Greek gods /What did they do? Which fictional mythical creatures would be good for a fantasy story?

Ah.. I had to do some friggen pop-up book about greek gods. I got Artemis.. *rolls eyes*

Anyways;

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Google never goes wrong. :]

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How did you make your hair like that?

My friend Annabell did it for me, but i`ll try & describe it. :]

What she did is let my whole hair loose down, and then took the middle part of my hair[not all of it]. It`s basically a half-up half-down look, but she took my bangs & seperated them to the front & let most of my hair loose; then she poofed it up my hair that`s up by using a big brush & hair-sprayed it so it can stay. Friggen A ; I suck at describing stuff. Sorry if I couldn`t make it clearer. :\

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