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I was seeing this guy named Austin. I was and still am absolutely crazy about him. Well the problem is that I've been a cutter for about a year or two now. Well my cousin Jeremy stayed over for the holidays and I cut once when he was around me. He called Austin and said I cut because he wasn't able to call me. So he broke up with me because he didn't want to get in a deep relationship and have me kill myself or something. Would that be considered true love or true hate? He also hasn't called me in about two days now, but maybe it's because the holidays. PLEASE HELP! I'M IN DESPERATE NEED OF ADVICE!

cutting isn't the greatest thing to deal with. im not going to preach to you on how you shouldnt cut, because i was once in your position. im just going to tell you the reason why he dumped you is probably hes scared that if he does something wrong, you will hurt yourself even more.

the thing i really think you should do is go to a counselor or something. they really help a lot and maybe you could even get austin back once your not so depressed.

the best thing to do is to talk to austin once he cools down a bit and when you both have things figured out.

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Hi everyone I am planning to start my own magazine company. I wanted to know from teenagers what do you'll look for in a magazine. If you have any suggestions or comments let me know I will greatly appreciate them. But I don't want comments on celebrities because I already have that covered.
Thank you :)

in my magazines, i want to see normal people wether they're fat, skinny, short, tall, missing an arm, have blue teeth(get my point?). im so sick of the magazines with super skinny models in it and nothing else.

something else i would want is issues that impact our lives and those aroung us. none of the magazines i've read have had issues such as abortion, capital punishment, legalized ages??( i mean like the drinking age, smoking, driving, ect.) it would be nice to see peoples opinions and what some people are doing about it.

i would also want the infamous embaressing stories. i love to read those. it makes me feel much better after i see how stupid other people are.

the typical teenage controversies would be good too. (drinking, drugs, cutting, sex..)

oh and last but not least, clothes and makeup for every body type, every color.

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what is love really about?

in my opionion, love is about not caring about what people think of the person your with. or about how you couldnt imagine life without them. theres no real answer to this question, but when you do find love, you'll know it.

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15/f
well i have my period i know it SUCKS..especially that im on break..and its like suuper heavy im not even kidding its the worst its ever been..and i wear like pads because tampons = no for me ..i have reasoning but i dont really want to like list all of them so PLEASE dont suggest that..well i havent done anything over break because i have to go to the bathroom like every 10 minutes since my period is SO heavy..it feels so gross =( what do i do? ugh this sucks! i am even on birth control to try and like make my periods less heavy..but i dont know! any suggestions? i will rate high!!
♥

well, take midol for the cramps (if you have bad ones) that works awesome.

get the biggest pad you can get. you could always ask your mom or someone in your family.
i doubt its anything serious.

umm sorry i cant help you that much. maybe i can help you out with something else someother time.

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Can anyone give me a step by step understandable way to blow-dry my hair without making it poofy?

if you want your hair to be straight, you can get the "wet 2 straight" hair straightener. instead of drying your hair you can just straighten it when its towel dried. its at claires and it works great. you can use it on dry hair too.

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ok i clicked on my friend's myspace & it was a virus cause there was porn on it..yeah disgusting but like im running a virus scan now. is there anything i can do from preventing this?? er anythingggggg else?? are their virus's like major er what.

thanks!!

do a system restore.
go to the start menu. then control panel. and its somewhere in there.

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ok so you know how when really good singers sing, they do that thing with their voice that makes it go up and down.. it kind of sounds like vibrato (the wrist shaking thing) when your playing a string insturment. does anyone know what that voice thing is called and how to do it? cause i really want to do it when i'm auditioning for this musical!

wooo violinist?!?! i am.
but i talked to my friends mom( shes a singer) and she said it takes a long time to learn unless your reaaally good at it. she also learned from a voice coach though. sorry for the crappy advice.
i hope that everything goes well with your audition though!

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hey everyone - i got my braces on today with NO SPACERS cuz it was the end of the year and our insurance was about to run out. my mouth is throbbing like no other .. what are some things i can do to feel better? =[
thanx everyone + happy holidays! xoOx

tylenol, tylenol, tylenol.
the greatest invention ever. icecream made my teeth feel better too when i first got mine on.

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I have to go for my first "girly" check up alone because I am having problems at school and they are being slowly sorted out but my parents know nothign about it but my health is going down. What I want to know is during this check up do they really look at your vagina and boobs and what do they do to them? Also do they do anythign to your bum? I am really embarrest andits happening in a month please give me some advice.

girly?
well this is my advice from what i think you mean. they check your breasts for lumps(it depends how old you are--cancer possibly) and if everything is doing okay. "down there"is a different story. i dont know how much of a visit your getting, but the doctor just checks you out to see if there are any problems. i know that in most cases they take samples ans send them out to be analyzed. umm your bum..not so sure. haha
but just relax during the visit and everything should be fine.

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ok i have norton antivirus & 2 threats were found in a full scan i did & they were both adware & i was wondering if adware has any potential threats er what it does??

thanks!!

no norton antivirus is a real viruse scanner..adware can slow down your computer so i suggest deleteing w/e it is.

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i'm a junior and guy. my friends usually like to have parties or get togethers, and i usually can't go because something comes up or i have other plans. with this group of friends, they are good guys, generally stay out of trouble, but the one day i couldn't go, i decided not to because i had to work on a project. the next day i heard one of the guys was rushed into a hospital because he was drinking too much. i dont like drinking, never have, and would like not to. so if they do invite me to a get together, should i just decline? i don't want to be left out of the loop, but personally i don't like drinking, don't really mind if others do though. what should i do...avoid it completely? will rate

well you could always say something like "I have a urine test tomorrow"(that is if you have sports or say ur going to the doctors.) haha wierd i know..
or you say that you just plain old dont want to drink. i think your friends would understand.

just get something else to drink, so they think that you already have a beer or something. otherwise they will probably ask you if you want something to drink.

sorry..i attempted it..

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what are some good punk bands, Im lookin for some hardcore shit... all I have right now is some distillers and a few songs from the gits

im not sure what you mean by hardcore, but here..
oh && props on the good taste in music.
-operation ivy
-the misfits
-the exploited
-anti-flag
-cheap trick
-dead kennedys
-rancid
-against me
-bad religion
-nofx
-transplants
-social distortion

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omg i just deleted something on my computer and deleted it from the recycling bin omg i need it back is there any way to get it back please help!!!

go to control panel and look for system restore.

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ok, I'm 14/f and dont have a lot of money and i have a ton of friends so I'm going to buy some cards and give them to my friends but what should I give as a present...that's kinda small and easy to attach to a card/envelope that could maybe fit...i know candy but anyother ideas? will rate!

a key chain? or you could always make cookies like me =D

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Sorry this is such a gay question, but what are some good songs to listen to that are recent, and make you think of someone you fall head-over-heals for?

"hey there delilah"-the plain white t's
im addicted to it. listen to it now!

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Maybe this sounds stupid but....
..Do u also have the problem that your hair tie/scrunchie slides out? Tell me! I getting sick of it! please help! X'O

um not exactly..try using the hair elasctics by sucini(sp?) not a scrunchie. it works better.

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ok usually my 3 best friends are very easy to shop for around xmas but this year we decided that since every1 calls us the most countriest gurls they've met we decided to go with something along the idea of "redneck" any ideas?!? im realy stuck on this! i rate high thanks!!

a trackter.

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does anybody know how to put spaces in their about me to space it out?

if you mean myspace, then works

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does any1 have some laguna beach quotes? some of them r really cute.. thanks

and theres 1 like.. "its not that you want to be with him, its that you miss what you two had" idk but please give me some quotes

Steeeeeeepheeeennn!!!

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i have extremely rough skin, especially between my eyebrows, on my forhead, on my nose, and on my chin. what can i do about this?

moisturize like crazy.

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