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I love giving advice & I think I'm pretty good at it. I can get along with almost anyone unless they piss me off. I adore Hollister, it's my favorite store ever. I'm not a girly girl but I'm not a tomboy either. I don't wear any make-up at all, I don't like it. I hate it when girls wear way too much of it, it's.. ew. I'm a pretty big goofball & I love making people laugh. I'm not very mature, either. Love me or hate me, I'll still be me & I won't change for anyone.


I have a lot in common with people but I'm still different. I'm not stuck up & I like making new friends. I have a lot of them but I have no idea what I'd do without my best friends. I don't judge people by the way they dress, their personality is what gets me.


Music takes up a huge part of my life. I listen to pretty much anything & everything. Literally, you name it.. I probably like it. I love romantic songs & songs that make me wanna dance. :D


Kevin is the love of my life. He's always there for me when I need him & he's everything I've ever wanted. He's handsome, romantic, sweet, smart, hilarious.. everything. Words can't express how much I love him. We've been together since June 14, 2005. We're gonna be together forever & no one can stop us. ♥ ♥ He has a column on here, too. His name's OxVolleyballQT98 but he's never on it anymore. Look at his advice if you want to though, maybe he answered a question that you need help on.


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y friend has a new bf and they have only been togther for three days and they have already kissed and well when she hangs around him she pretty much ignores us and well when she is older and she meets a guy then i dono she is 12/f and i am 13/f when she is older i hope she makes the rite decisions with a guy cause if she goes this fast when she is this old then well think about when she is older i just need some advice the guy is 13 and is a grade older than her and he is going to break up with her and she never got broken up with before i need advice on whether if ui should warn her or what

I would warn her about it. She'll probably be mad // shocked because she'll think you're trying to break them up, but she'll see. Tell her you're telling the truth & you were doing it to be a good friend, you didn't want her to get really hurt by her ex. Comfort her after the break up & tell her to take it slower with her next boyfriends. If she goes really fast like that with all her boyfriends, than she's gonna regret some things later on.

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Hey, me and a girl are going to the movies this weekend and i have a few questions.

1. How can i show how much i like her? (Yes i do like her alot, and i don't want to make out or anything yet...)

2. After the movies she is spending the night at my house, how can i get her to hang out with me instead of my sisters? (She and my sisters are good friends)

3.What are some things we can do while she is at my house?

Thanks in advance!

P.S. we are both 13

When you're at the movies, buy her her ticket. If you're both hungry, buy popcorn, candy, soda, or whatever you both want & split it with her. Pay for a few games if you want to. Talk to her a lot so she doesn't go & hang out with your sister. At your house, you both can go online, watch tv or movies, play games, call some of your friends, take pictures, make food, listen to music, & play video games.

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What can I get my boyfriend for Valentine's day?

I got my boyfriend a big box of his favorite candy for Valentine's Day & he loved it. He thought it was the best thing ever, lol. You could get your boyfriend that, buy or make a card, or make him a mixed cd.

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John has known ive liked him since about october, durin football season i wore his jersey to the games, we havent really hungout and stuff but i dont know theres something about him. he is now in my gym class the last semester and lately he has been acting weird, flirting alot. and i used to just throw myself out to him but now i want to sort of play hard to get while flirtin at the same time.. what can i do? i think he has some thing for me even know i know he probably wont admit it ( its not really anything personal towards me though, its just how he is) i see him in school sometimes, hes in my 1st period spanish class and we dont really talk(hes on the other side) and hes in my gym class .. i want to attract him more and i might ask him to this party tomorrow me and my friend dave are having.. what is some cute things to do in gym? or body language things?

In gym, just talk to him a lot & play a game with him like basketball, soccer, or whatever his favorite sport is. In Spanish, since he sits across the room from you, smile at him a lot or whenever he looks at you, look away & smile than look back at him. Whenever you have free time, go over to where he sits & talk to him. Ask him if he wants to hang out again sometime. Hope that helps ♥ ♥

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I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly two months. The magic is completely gone and I don't look forward to seeing him. He always does the nicest things for me, but I used to see them as cute and now I find them to be ordinary. He also doesn't get physical with me, and c'mon, every girl has her sexual needs. I have a little thing for two other boys and both of them like me. However, I don't want to break up with my boyfriend because I know I'll regret it later on. But right now, it's not satisfying for me to be in this relationship. I'm not giving him my all, so I shouldn't give him anything. I'm totally clueless.. help?

I think you should break up with him. If there's nothing there between you & him anymore, it's pointless to have a relationship with him, but since you think you might regret it later on, try talking to him. Tell him how you're feeling & he might change. If nothing happens in a few weeks, break it off with him & move on to a new guy who you think will be better.

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Well.... I found out 4 people hate me... 3 my friends and me... I'm starting to wonder if there is any more friends that hate me. I'm feeling really down... so you have any suggestions? I just really wanted to tell someone that. That already made me feel better.

Aww, don't hate yourself. If your three "friends" hate you than they aren't even real friends so don't worry about them. Everyone is hated by someone, so just forget about them. Listen to your favorite songs, watch tv, talk or hang out with your true friends, do anything that you like to do. It'll make you feel better. Hope I helped you & that you feel better soon. ♥ ♥

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I am overweight (13 yrs old, 5ft 4in, and 140 lbs) so I use a bathroom scale to check my weight 2 times a day, in the morning and in the evening. Why is my weight different at those 2 times of the day? How do I know which one is telling the truth? Are any of the scales telling the truth? Because one time I went to the doctor and I weighed more on that scale than on the one I own at home. Why are these weights all different? How much do I really weigh? Help me please! What should I do?

It's different two times in the day because in the morning [ if you didn't eat anything yet ], it'll show you your actual weight. In the evening, the scale will say you weigh more because you had lunch & dinner. You're not suppose to weigh yourself twice a day, just once in the morning every few days or once a week. Make sure when you weigh yourself, you're just wearing your pajamas, nothing like jeans & shoes. The doctor's scale is most accurate but if there's a big weight range between your scale & the doctor's scale, than your scale's most likely broken.

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One day, lets just say "Bob", he wrote me a note saying 'hey, and somehow we got into a sexual conversation. He was asking me ?'s such as, who did you make out with and did you ever give head? Later that week, we started talking online alot. We started liking each other. While all this happening, he had a long term girlfriend, although they broke up about 9 or 10 times. They broke up about 2 weeks ago, and have stayed broken up. I talked to a few people and they said that he might be trying to get a fast fuck. They said this because it was a little weird that he just now started talking to me. Before this we never spoke. Do you think that he is being truthful or is he trying to use me? (hes called me several times and has asked me to hang out)

well any advice would be helpful. thanks

If he kept asking you those kind of questions while he had a girlfriend, then that's not good. He might have used her for that stuff. If you never talk to him & he asks you questions about sex & he wants to hang out with you out of no where, than he's more then likely trying to use you.

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What is the artist and name of the person that sings the song that goes:

"...i want to stand with you on a mountain, i want to bathe with you in the sea..."

and

"...have you ever loved someone so much it made you cry?..."

I think the second one is titled Have you Ever but I don't know who sings it can someone tell me please and thank you.

- The first one is "Truly, Madly, Deeply" by Savage Garden.

- The second one is "Have You Ever?" by Brandy.

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I'm 13 years old...Ever since I started liking guys...I've noticed that ever guy that I liked never liked me back. And when I just reached the point where I thought this guy that was "perfect for me" I got up the courage to ask him out and now he's being a total jerk to me. Is there something wrong with me or am I just not good enough for anyone?

No, there's nothing wrong with you & you are good enough. That happens to everyone. I didn't get my first boyfriend until after middle school, so don't be worried that you didn't get one yet. Just don't try too hard. Be yourself, don't change for anyone. You're still young, you have plenty of time to get a boyfriend.

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ok for valintimes day i am going to give the gril i like a gift from her secrent admirer( it me) but than i started to like another girl. now i can't chose, the frist girl i like is smart, nice, cute and i am a bit taller, weres glass mexican, slitly thin, long hair, brown, weres it down. the one i stared to like is also smart, kind , cute, but is as tall as me, has frekls, light skin, long hair, light brown, she usly ware it in a bun, brown eyes, not fat,but is not thin either. plaese help me choose

I think you should choose the one you have more in common with, personality wise. Think of all their good qualities & the one who has more good qualities or acts mostly like you, I think you should give her the gift.

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how do you say 'has' in german? as in "she has blue eyes" thanks
ANK

The German word for 'has' is 'hat.' The translation in German for "she has blue eyes" is "Sie hat blaue Augen."

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are you more or less likely to get pregnant when you're on your period?? i looked at some sites and i found them saying both...

I heard the same thing but you're less likely to get pregnant when you're on your period. ♥ ♥

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My boyfriend and I have been going out for 1 month,tomorrow.We have been planning on going to the movies, but neither one of us thought about it being our anniversary. I just now remembered.So, I'm just wondering if I should get him anything for it? or what?
any help would be appreciated!
I rate 5's!

I don't think it's neccessary to get him something because it's just one month but if you want to, I'd make him a mixed CD of his favorite songs, buy him his favorite candy, or buy him a card.

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My friend Melissa is having a HUGE party at her house tonight..
but she didn't invite me.
We're friends..but not BEST friends..like on a scale of friendship..(10 as BFFs)..We're like a 5-6...you know?
Do you think I should ask her why she didn't invite me?
*One time, I confronted her about another party that she had..and she denied she ever had one.
I've never been over her house; vice versa..
Her parents like me though..I think..Why wouldn't she invite me? I thought we were friends :(...It's a HUGEEEE party..I'm sad.

It all depends. Maybe she doesn't think you guys are that good of friends or she might not like you that much because you confronted her about a different party & she denied she had one. Ask her why she didn't invite you. If she says she didn't have one, than I think you're better off not being friends with her because she lies too much.

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Okay so I went to this party at a hotel, and there were supposed to be parents there, but when I showed up, it was only a bunch of friends, withs lots of alcohol and stuff... So I got drunk and stuff, and it ended up the guy I was in love with was there. But he had a girlfriend, and his girlfriend happened to be my best friend, but me and her were fighting at the time. So I was sooo drunk that I wanted to make her as mad as possible, so I made out with her boyfriend and gave him a handjob. Now idk if she's gonna find out or w/e. I need help... should i tell her or let just let it go!!

Tell her because if she finds out from someone else then she'll be even more upset about it. Talk the whole thing out with her, tell her you were drunk & wanted to get back at her. You'll probably end up hurting her, but you should have enough courage to go up to her & tell her what all happened at the party. It's her right to know because you're her best friend & you made-out with her boyfriend & gave him a handjob.

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ok i have a question...do you think that a guy who wraps his arms around a girl and holds her hand and plays with her hair when they lay together and calls her everyday to tell her goodnite and smiles at her for know reason and looks at her while she sleeps just b/c he can likes this girl? the thing is that they are ex bf/gf...and he broke up with her and yet they hang out all the time and go to eachothers family get togethers and hold hands there and when they leave eachother they kiss eachothers foreheads or on the face but not the lips.

Yes, it's possible that he still likes her if he does all that stuff with her & if he smiles at her for no reason & looks at her while she sleeps. Just because he dumped her doesn't mean he can't still like her.

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ok so i am 5'4 and weigh 131. i have big hips and i a pulgy stomach. for spring break me adn alot of friends are going to panama city, so i want to look good in a bathing suit. i would like to loose 15-25 in about 2 1/2 to 3 months. i am willing to try exercising alot, and eating only good foods. the thing is that i dont know what exercises are good and what foods to eat// not eat to looke weight!! any help is appreciated. thanks!!!

Go to this site -- http://www.toneteen.com/ -- It tells you a bunch of exercises you can do to lose your stomach & make your hips smaller under Fitness & articles under Health for eating healthy. You're normal weight for someone who's 5'4" & weighs 131 pounds, so I don't think you need to lose any weight but if you want to, don't lose more than 20 pounds or you'll be way too skinny.

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ok rasi you ready for this one? alright ill try to make it short. i was with this guy off and on for 3 months and i fell in love with him. i told him once or twice that i loved him but i never told him all of my feelings because i was so scared. we broke up so many times mostly my fault but sometimes his. but i ended up getting more and more chances. he is literally one of my best friends. but the last time he told me that i ruined everything with him and there wouldnt be any more chances. so i met this guy and i started to like him so i was like ok? ill go out with him. well when my ex found out he was so mad. he said that i lied to him when i said that i couldnt be with anyone else because i loved him too much. at first i was just like ok whatever he told me that i had no more chances so ill be with someone else. then it started getting to me.. so i broke up with this new guy.. and i feel kind of bad. i mean this guy is really nice and i do like him. but i love my ex. me and my ex have been fighting over so much lately.. and its so stupid. its mainly about how we could have and should have had something and we didnt. but he blames it all on me. and while i know that hes equally to blame --i love him so i deal with the shit. so our most recent fight is that i lied about my feelings when we were together and i was being fake by not telling him how much i really loved him. and im such a lying bitch and blah blah blah. but he also told me as much as he wants to hate me deep down he still cares and he cant stop thinking about me only because he was falling hard for me. rasi, i want another chance;; but ive already had so many. right now me and my ex arent "cool" because i 'lied'. i just dont know what to do. i mean yeah i like this new guy and i think there could be something but not while im thinking about my ex.. and with my ex, i really just want another chance. how do i show him how i feel? i want something where he will just be like wow. i should have been looking more closely. something that will get to him and show him what ive been trying to show him all along. erg. i dunno rasi --too much drama. any advice? on anything? i love you babe

If you love him so much than you should prove it to him. Tell him you're very sorry for lying & if he gives you another chance then prove to him that you won't lie & tell him how you're feeling. Don't be scared to tell your feelings to him because you said he loves you, too. I don't think it's good to go back with him if he blames most of the problems on you & calls you a lying bxtch. No decent guy would ever call his girlfriend that & I think he's immature for blaming most of the problems on you. If your ex won't take you back, then see how it goes with the new guy & try to get over your ex. I know it'll be hard if he won't take you back but you have to move on. Maybe things will work out with you & your ex in the future, just give him some space for now & he'll realize he'll want you back if he loves you a lot. Good luck babe, sorry if I didn't help much. I love you, too. ♥ ♥

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okay, here it goes .. i have a really good life and alot of great friends and a good family. the thing is, though, i have low self confidence. for example, i get jealous really easily and i take things very seriously. also, i gte really annoyed by people who think theyre better than everyone else ( i know, who doesnt get annoyed by those kinds of people, but it just bothers me alot and it just makes me really mad.)when i become friends with people, i overreact and think that theyre gonna be unfaithful to me and talk behind my back. also, when people tell me i'm pretty, the first thought that comes to my mind is, " theyre not telling the truth; they cant think im pretty". i'm kinda shy when im at parties and sometimes i get left out of things because im quiet. but, im very self confident around my best friends and people who are really nice to me. alot of people think im nice, though, and people in the past have taken advantage of me because i forgive people very easily. i dont want to sound selfish saying this, but i need advice lol. do you have any advice on how i can be more self confident ? thanks. =)

When people tell you that you're pretty, don't deny it. If they didn't think you were pretty, then they wouldn't say you are. Listen to them because it will build your self-confidence up a lot. Don't listen to the people that bring you down && say you're ugly, they're more then likely ugly themselves && are jealous of you. Don't be quiet at parties, just talk to your friends. You'll have so much fun && you'll probably meet new people through them && become more social. It's a really good thing that you're nice, but don't let people take advantage of you for it. It's ok to not forgive so easily because people will know not to take advantage of you. Hope that helps you, sweetheart. ♥ ♥

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