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ok rasi you ready for this one? alright ill try to make it short. i was with this guy off and on for 3 months and i fell in love with him. i told him once or twice that i loved him but i never told him all of my feelings because i was so scared. we broke up so many times mostly my fault but sometimes his. but i ended up getting more and more chances. he is literally one of my best friends. but the last time he told me that i ruined everything with him and there wouldnt be any more chances. so i met this guy and i started to like him so i was like ok? ill go out with him. well when my ex found out he was so mad. he said that i lied to him when i said that i couldnt be with anyone else because i loved him too much. at first i was just like ok whatever he told me that i had no more chances so ill be with someone else. then it started getting to me.. so i broke up with this new guy.. and i feel kind of bad. i mean this guy is really nice and i do like him. but i love my ex. me and my ex have been fighting over so much lately.. and its so stupid. its mainly about how we could have and should have had something and we didnt. but he blames it all on me. and while i know that hes equally to blame --i love him so i deal with the shit. so our most recent fight is that i lied about my feelings when we were together and i was being fake by not telling him how much i really loved him. and im such a lying bitch and blah blah blah. but he also told me as much as he wants to hate me deep down he still cares and he cant stop thinking about me only because he was falling hard for me. rasi, i want another chance;; but ive already had so many. right now me and my ex arent "cool" because i 'lied'. i just dont know what to do. i mean yeah i like this new guy and i think there could be something but not while im thinking about my ex.. and with my ex, i really just want another chance. how do i show him how i feel? i want something where he will just be like wow. i should have been looking more closely. something that will get to him and show him what ive been trying to show him all along. erg. i dunno rasi --too much drama. any advice? on anything? i love you babe <3.
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If you love him so much than you should prove it to him. Tell him you're very sorry for lying & if he gives you another chance then prove to him that you won't lie & tell him how you're feeling. Don't be scared to tell your feelings to him because you said he loves you, too. I don't think it's good to go back with him if he blames most of the problems on you & calls you a lying bxtch. No decent guy would ever call his girlfriend that & I think he's immature for blaming most of the problems on you. If your ex won't take you back, then see how it goes with the new guy & try to get over your ex. I know it'll be hard if he won't take you back but you have to move on. Maybe things will work out with you & your ex in the future, just give him some space for now & he'll realize he'll want you back if he loves you a lot. Good luck babe, sorry if I didn't help much. I love you, too. ♥ ♥
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