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John has known ive liked him since about october, durin football season i wore his jersey to the games, we havent really hungout and stuff but i dont know theres something about him. he is now in my gym class the last semester and lately he has been acting weird, flirting alot. and i used to just throw myself out to him but now i want to sort of play hard to get while flirtin at the same time.. what can i do? i think he has some thing for me even know i know he probably wont admit it ( its not really anything personal towards me though, its just how he is) i see him in school sometimes, hes in my 1st period spanish class and we dont really talk(hes on the other side) and hes in my gym class .. i want to attract him more and i might ask him to this party tomorrow me and my friend dave are having.. what is some cute things to do in gym? or body language things?
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In gym, just talk to him a lot & play a game with him like basketball, soccer, or whatever his favorite sport is. In Spanish, since he sits across the room from you, smile at him a lot or whenever he looks at you, look away & smile than look back at him. Whenever you have free time, go over to where he sits & talk to him. Ask him if he wants to hang out again sometime. Hope that helps ♥ ♥
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What I would do is probably give him this really cute smile & wink. Or when your walking past him, brush up against him & touch his hand or something. Stuff like that is really flirty and cute. If you can, whenever you get the chance, just talk to him. Say "Hey" and smile. Do whatever you can. You don`t have to be all over him. Flirt one day, then the next just kinda ignore him(not really, if he talks to you then talk back;but don`t flirt). Just keep doing it like this. :]
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Don't play head games. If you play hard to get he will lose interest. For body language, make eye contact, say his name, and be relaxed and confident. But trust me, if you just play around like this too much you will lose him. Just tell him how you feel! It can go two ways. The first is that he will like you too and want to date you. The second is that he will reject you (this varies, he may "not feel the same way and want to be your friends" or he may think you're horrible). If he wants to be friends that is not so bad, friends are wonderful! If he thinks you're horrible, then you'll be glad you didn't waste time playing hard to get with a guy who didn't want you to begin with! So really, just by telling him how you feel you have literally NOTHING to lose. Well, maybe a little pride, but personally I think people have too much of that.
Edit--When I say "tell him how you feel" I don't mean tell him you like him, since he already knows. I mean let him know that you want to start something serious with him and ask him if he feels the same way. If he doesn't admit it, just keep at it. Tell him not to be afraid of how he feels.
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