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that guy


Question Posted Thursday February 9 2006, 8:31 pm

ok so i like this guy we are friends all of a sudden everyone says we make a good couple and he likes me or so they think well my friend asked him out he said yes and we told him it was a joke witch it was then my friend went up and told him i wanna go out with him he ran away i ran away he said he would talk it over with hes to best friends they both think we make a good couple and one of them said i should ask him out so will they convince him to say yes or no whatr do you think how do i handle a yes a no im so confused i normaly get asked out

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Vikki27 answered Friday February 10 2006, 4:05 pm:
It sounds as though there is a lot of outside involvement from your friends here and you have said lots of times that your friends think you make a good couple....but what do you think?

First of all, this guy is going to be feeling a little humiliated after the whole 'asking him out but it's a joke' scenario so you want to be careful about how you treat him over this.

If you do decide that you like him, you need to take the plunge and ask him out. Guys have a lot more respect for girls who ask them out in person, rather than through a friend. If he says yes then everything's great! Just sort out a date, time and location and you're ready to go.
If he says no, you need to bear in mind he may be making up for having his ego dented before. Give him a little time and see if he comes to you. If not, you'll have to move on.

If you decide that you want to be friends then you need to tell him that. There's a lot of people telling you that you should be more and with all that pressure, you need to work it out with him. Tell him what your friends are saying and why you asked him before, before telling him that you feel you're better off as friends.

Whatever happens I wish you the best of luck.

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