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Question Posted Saturday January 7 2006, 7:21 pm

I'm 13 years old...Ever since I started liking guys...I've noticed that ever guy that I liked never liked me back. And when I just reached the point where I thought this guy that was "perfect for me" I got up the courage to ask him out and now he's being a total jerk to me. Is there something wrong with me or am I just not good enough for anyone?

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basketball_7_77 answered Sunday January 8 2006, 1:52 pm:
no its just that there is some guy out there that you dont know about that likes you and he is to chicken to talk to you so just keep lookin

Max

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XoXMORGAN_DANiELLEXoX answered Saturday January 7 2006, 10:41 pm:
it isnt you!..its the guys..maybe the guys you have gone for, just dont see you as a girlfriend. and that one guy told you no, so now he just thinks he can be a jerk to you!..and there isnt a rush, you are only 13..theres plenty of time to date guys..you will find the perfect guy for you later on!
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fabulous11 answered Saturday January 7 2006, 10:27 pm:
Noo there is nothing wrong with you. Maybe your just going for that wrong kind of guy. And then again your only 13 you have plenty of time to find the right person.

-Jess

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HCOxBABE answered Saturday January 7 2006, 10:21 pm:
No, there's nothing wrong with you & you are good enough. That happens to everyone. I didn't get my first boyfriend until after middle school, so don't be worried that you didn't get one yet. Just don't try too hard. Be yourself, don't change for anyone. You're still young, you have plenty of time to get a boyfriend.

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extton answered Saturday January 7 2006, 9:23 pm:
No, no, you're just fine.

The problem isn't you, or really even him.
You're just young.

The truth is, boys (and girls too, for the most part) are not very...emotionally in tune at your age. You're going to be getting all sorts of feelings, as are your peers, and they're going to change fairly frequently. So, you're going to end up feeling confused sometimes, and boys are going to behave irrationally with you. Not because you're not good enough, or you're not pretty, or any such thing...just because you're young, and this is all new.

The trick is this: don't take these feelings very seriously. Enjoy them, and work with them if you'd like, but stay focused on the more important things in life. In a few years, everything will fall nicely into place. Until then, just stay focused.

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LoveNJstyle answered Saturday January 7 2006, 8:42 pm:
it happens to everyone!! everyone wants what they can't have...it's the truth. you're 13, you've got time to find "the one". <3

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rockergurl36 answered Saturday January 7 2006, 8:12 pm:
i think you're trying too hard.
trust me on this
Forget about boys and looking good
just be confident and live
I did this after YEARS of trying SO hard to be noticed and beautiful
about 2 weeks later, i got a boyfriend.
He liked me b/c i was confident and didn't try so hard.
good luck!

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Bailea answered Saturday January 7 2006, 8:02 pm:
You sound alot like me..
I have liked alot of guys and they never like me back etheir. But, i have realised that usually the guys that are mean to you after you tell them that you like them are just not worth it.Go for the guys that are nice and dont care if you like them or not.Its not you its them and some guys are just to immature to have girlfriends.As soon as i realised this i began looking harder and i found someone. So, just try to give that guy up and look for someone else all he is doing is making you feel horrible.

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