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hey everyone--- sorry this is soo long...

well there's these two girls brit and breanna that keep bothering me.. and well i told my friend kim that breanna does drugs.. and well breanna told me.. so i thought it was true... and it wasn't so now brit and breanna keep saying all these mean things to me.. what should i do about it?

just ignore it and pretent like you dont care... their probably just jelouce of you.
h.i.h.
xoxo

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Last weekend my mom walked in on me and my boyfriend. All week, she hasn't said 2 words to me... except when she yells at me or wants to give me an attitude about a chore I didnt do or forgetting to call her to tell her I was out. I've been trying to make small talk with her about stupid stuff like dinner or the weather but she just gives me short answers. I dont want to bring up what happened at all but I do want her to talk to me! Please help me out, I'd appreciate it so much. Thank you!

hurm... well depending on what you two where doing, just talk to her about it and try to make her understand. if u need more advice feel free to IM me. :)
natally xoxo

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what do girls look for in guys. It doesnt really help me because im a guy looking for what qulities like only girls answer please

well all girls like different types of guys but i go for the ones that have pretty eyes, nice hair and a great personality... sweet, giving, fun, someone who i could talk to, truthful... stuff like that.
h.i.h. and good luck!
natally xoxo

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I was supposed to babysit tomorrow ,but my boyfriend's basketball game got cancelled today and resceduled for tomorrow ... at the same time that I have to babysit. The woman that I babysit for doesn't think going to his games is a good excuse to cancel ( I know this from past experiences). So I need some help thinking up a good excuse to cancel on such short notice. I know this is very wrong but I really need the advice... Fast! Thank u so much... I rate high!

just tell her that you're busy... thats what i do when i babysit, well i did it once :P but it works. and then actually do stuff after the game too not that she maybe sees you and then asks lol
good luck!!
xoxo

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13/f. OH MY GAWD. K so like I just have a 5 person orgy. (we usd condums) but the guy I was doing at the time has an std and he wore a condom but it broke and he spermed in me. And then I had sex with 2 other guys and rubbed my vagina on a chick. We all might be in danger. Today my vagina was bleeding! What do I do? I might be pregnant and have an std, and Im apposed to have sex again today with a different guy! Wut do I do?!?!?! help me!!

xoxo

P.S. Dont call me a slut cause im not!

well im suprised on how much your having sex... specially for you age! im only 14 and i NEVER had it... but yea its possible that you are pregnant... if you wanna be positive that you are/aren't then take a test.
good luck! and hopfully you're not bcuz thats like WAY to young to have a child...
xoxo

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I think I have depression. I've read about symptoms, and I have almost all of them. I've been feeling like this for about 4-5 months now. My dad has depression and I think it runs in his family. But I don't know how to tell anyone. I'm really shy, and I don't think anyone will believe me because I act happy around people even when I feel like dying, if I need to cry then I won't do it when there are people around. If I tell my mum she'll probably say I'm just feeling down or something. I don't know where I can find a counsellor and I'd probably have to tell my mum where I was going if I did. I'd find talking to someone horrible because I feel sick when I talk to people I don't know. I also think I have social anxiety but I don't know what to do about that either. What should I do about this depression problem because I don't know how to tell someone. Sorry this is so long, thanks :)

i would talk to someone who's really close to you, someone you trust with all your heart. I know it's hard talking about your depression and all but it will help you to talk to someone that will understand and help you get through it alright to where you arent depressed anymore. If you feel uncomftorble talking to you mom or a conciler you dont know, try the school counciler. She/He should be able to help you also. and plus it doesnt hurt to talk to someone you dont know that much, including teachers you trust.
Good Luck and i hope that everything goes good. :)
xoxo Natally+

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SORRY SO LONG


okay i have been talking to this guy for a month or so...he is really sweet to me but im scared im gonna get hurt.(i was hurt badly in the last 5-6 months)so im kinda keeping my distince from him ya know?now he thinks im playing hard to get and i really like him!now hes going out with some girl he knows from highschool who happens to be a slut.hes been talking to her but only when he was drinking or needed some(he was never like that to me)im still talkking to him but should i even though he has a girlfriend.by the way if all goes well with us he plans on breaking up with her
i DO rate....

signed, confused

well if HE's hurt you before then i would leave him and go for another guy, cuz no grl should be with a threat, but if you really like him and you think he treats you right then go for it! talk to him!
good luck
xoxo

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I liked my friend's brother, we'll call her Sally, and him Fred. Well..Sally didn't like it too much. But Fred introduced me to his cousin, we'll call him Kevin. And now me and Kevin date, and Sally is mad at me..What the heck?!?! What do I do???

-Incapable of Pleasing people.

sit down with your friend and talk about why she's mad at the two of you dating or why she's mad at you for dating someone related to her... if she doesn't talk about it then maybe put your self into her place and picture her dating you older brother (if u have one) or cousin. Maybe you'll understand, but best thing to do would be to talk to her about it and it would probably make her feel better getting it off her chest.
good luck!
xoxo nat

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I'm trying to find piano sheet music for a song by Straylight Run.

Any ideas? : )

Mr. E's might have it or maybe even some other music shops but you can also go on the internat and type in Straylight Run Piano or something like that into google, but i'd prefer the music shops. Not sure where you live so i cant name many.
h.i.h.
natly+

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i asked my friend if he was goin to the school dance and he he said because he had no one to go with i really like him should i ask him to go with me ? or maybe wait to see if he asks me to the dance ? and what should i wear ?

if you like him ask him. but if ur shy to go alone with him maybe ask if he and som of his buddies would like to go with you and yours.
good luck and h.i.h.
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as said on the subject i have a plugged nose and a soar throat.. the end part of my throat is really really itchy and i can't make it stop ='( and my ears hurt they feel kinda really itchy too i've been rubbing it with a qtip buh it doesn't work wut else can i do? what kinda medicine shud i take? is buckleys good? they advertise it alot.. plz help.. thx

i take Hyland's (homeopathic) tablets. They have it for soar throat, flu symptoms itchy eyes and all that. you put the tablets under your tougn every 4 hrs. (yes they dissove) but yea they help really good! i love them!
try it they really do help!
nat+

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I asked this girl out once before and she turned me down for another guy, but she said that she really liked me she just wanted to see if there was anything between them. They just broke up recently. I still like her. Should i give it a try?

Sure! go for it man!! just make sure that if it was a harsh break up that u give her 1 or 2 more days but otherwise yea! go for it!!
Nat+

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my mom always makes me go to bed so early!! shes like okay 9:00 is your bedtime ..but im 13!! She makes me do this during the week and im never tired till like 1 am! And i have a laptop that im sneaking on with right now but she ALWAYS catches me..what do i do?>

lol same way same way :P helping explain this is also to do with when you were born, if you were born in the night (like me) your a night person and in the morning/lunchtime your an early bird. but anyway to the point... to have her not catch you, you have to be very sneaky. and all moms i'd say tell their children to go to bed early becuase the 'parents' want time alone. but i usually just stay in my bedroom and be very quiet while i do things until i'm tierd. You could also try talking to your mom about why she sends you to bed so early and why you stay up late but literally i know how you feel about going to bed early lol.
h.i.h.

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well i am moving to Colorado next year before school starts and like i am really outgoing and stuff and i play volleyball, and that starts before school so i can meet people by doing that to, but i am like really scared of the change and i dont know waht to do to make the move easier????

Please help me out

i no how you feel but just take it in a positive way, stay in touch with your old friends and just go on with the new! :) dont worry about how you think you might act, have a proitive atitude about yourself and the move, there will be gls there that will just come up to you and they'll be your friends and help you out so dont worry! :D
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I am a 17/m and i have problems talking to girls. There i admited it. Now i need help. Please give me some advice.
P.S. I will rate good for HELPFUL advice

i have the same problem talkin to boys lol the best way to talk to us :P is to just maybe stat off talking about school and just try to creat a conversation. maybe make some girl friends and then you could get more used to talking to them. um... maybe talk about movies or try to see if they have anything in commen with you. um... if you wanna IM me i can tell you alot more :P because its kinda hard telling you in this little box. haha but anyways just keep it cool and dont act nervus. you'll be fine :)
natally

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If I take my cartilidge piercings out for like 30 minutes every weekday for gym class, do you think it'll close? I've had one of them since June '04, and the other since August'04 =) thanks.

they wont. as long as you put your earings back in then the hole shouldn't close up.
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Everytime I bend my knees they crack, what does this mean?

my knees do that too and i think its normal, not anything bad. its silply air that gets in-between the cartlage (SP?)and pushes it out. but as long as it doesnt hurt then you should be fine :P
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okay, ive been going to the gym like everyday, or every other day for the past 2 weeks or so. and ill work out really hard, like ill run for 25 mins on the tred mill and ill do like 175 crunches, and ill build up alot of sweat.. ill work out really good, but then the next day im never sore at all. shouldnt i get atleast alittle sore after all that work out?
thanks.

well once youve been doing it for a while your body starts getting used to it so no it should be getting that sore much anymore. but if u were to stop for a week and then go again it probably would leave you alittle soar. your body seems to be used to it by now though.
:D nat

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ive been goin out with mi b/f 4 2 months almost 3 and i was wondering for valentines day if i culd get hm a cute card maybe a teddy bear that says i love you ? wuld guys hate if they get a teddybear ? wats relle sweet and cute to get them?

i think giving them a teddy would be sweet! i mean it last longer than the candy :P but if you were to get him something different go for maybe a CD or a good book that you think he might enjoy, maybe even a day out for dinner or something! good luck!

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people think itz wrong for a 9th grader and an 8th grader to be together,tell me how is that?

well they might think that age difference matters and that its creapy and wierd going out with an older guy but i think its cute and it shouldnt matter, as long as you 2 like each other its fine.
hope i helped!

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