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Shitch I liked my friend's brother, we'll call her Sally, and him Fred. Well..Sally didn't like it too much. But Fred introduced me to his cousin, we'll call him Kevin. And now me and Kevin date, and Sally is mad at me..What the heck?!?! What do I do???
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You need to talk to her, figure out exactly why it bothers her. i think its kind of rididculous that shes mad, but findout why she IS mad. tlka to her. hope it helps,
amI* ]
You may have wanted to talk to her before you dated her cousin. But talk to her now and ask her why it's bothering her. Make sure you say you're sorry!
<3lyds ]
It sounds like Sallys being a bit immature. Why don't you try talking to her and explain how much you like Kevin (even if you don't) and want it to work out, but you'd still like her to be your friend. If she eventually sees the light, then great. If she doesn't, then your going to have to make a choice between your friend and your boyfriend. It's rubbish, but if Sally can't accept your relationship with Kevin then you will have to make that decision. Hope everything works out okay for you. Good luck
Claire xx ]
tell her to deal with it, she won't like it but if she can't understand how you feel and be happy for you then she must not be that good of a friend at all ]
sit down with your friend and talk about why she's mad at the two of you dating or why she's mad at you for dating someone related to her... if she doesn't talk about it then maybe put your self into her place and picture her dating you older brother (if u have one) or cousin. Maybe you'll understand, but best thing to do would be to talk to her about it and it would probably make her feel better getting it off her chest.
good luck!
xoxo nat ]
well this is tough! what i would do is sit down with your friend and ask her why it bothers her so much. that way you could have a good reason for her to be mad and maybe fix the problem! hope this helps!
~Alyssa ]
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