Question Posted Wednesday February 2 2005, 4:49 pm
Last weekend my mom walked in on me and my boyfriend. All week, she hasn't said 2 words to me... except when she yells at me or wants to give me an attitude about a chore I didnt do or forgetting to call her to tell her I was out. I've been trying to make small talk with her about stupid stuff like dinner or the weather but she just gives me short answers. I dont want to bring up what happened at all but I do want her to talk to me! Please help me out, I'd appreciate it so much. Thank you!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? chaos answered Thursday February 3 2005, 1:18 pm: Vote three for you two have got to get it out in the open. She has shut down communication because she is trying not to bring it up either. You need to just get the yelling out now. Hopefully you will both make up and do better. She is worried about you because you are growing up, and probably very concerned about your future.
It wasn't a good thing that happened, but good things can come out of it. Be mature and bring it up when you can both calmly talk about it. [ chaos's advice column | Ask chaos A Question ]
sourpatchkids101 answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 6:11 pm: Well I'd do exactly what you said you didn't want to do. Only because I think that it would help so much. I wouldn't do this but maybe you could talk to your school counselor. I think what I'd do is talk to my mom no matter how embarrising it may be. Force her to talk to you. Tell her how you feel. It sucks to have a parent that ignore's you!
Hopes this helps!!!!!! [ sourpatchkids101's advice column | Ask sourpatchkids101 A Question ]
FNKYMNKY44 answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 5:15 pm: I think that you should sit down with her and talk to her. She can't understand your point if you don't talk to her about. Tell what was happening and ya'll should be able to talk again and ya'll will be closer! [ FNKYMNKY44's advice column | Ask FNKYMNKY44 A Question ]
sweetjewel answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 5:04 pm: maybe you should just talk to her about it and say... i know you walked in on my boyfriend and me and i think it might be botherin you... [ sweetjewel's advice column | Ask sweetjewel A Question ]
Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 5:01 pm: Okay well i think you... when my mom walked in on me and my boyfriend, she grounded me, but you should talk it out with her because thats what my mom was waiting for me to do Good Luck Ashlee [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
Nokomis answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 4:59 pm: You have to bring it up and talk about it. You have to get it out in the open. Things like this can't wait. She is just shocked. Talking about it will make you feel better.
DrummeR4LifE answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 4:59 pm: hurm... well depending on what you two where doing, just talk to her about it and try to make her understand. if u need more advice feel free to IM me. :)
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