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should i talk to him
SORRY SO LONG
okay i have been talking to this guy for a month or so...he is really sweet to me but im scared im gonna get hurt.(i was hurt badly in the last 5-6 months)so im kinda keeping my distince from him ya know?now he thinks im playing hard to get and i really like him!now hes going out with some girl he knows from highschool who happens to be a slut.hes been talking to her but only when he was drinking or needed some(he was never like that to me)im still talkking to him but should i even though he has a girlfriend.by the way if all goes well with us he plans on breaking up with her
i DO rate....
signed, confused
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well, it looks like you've gottin to know him so..i want say anything about getting to know him.
you could talk it out, get to really really know him...in a good none-sexual way, and you could take a good hour or 2 less if you want to and really think about if you want to be his girlfreind. he sounds like an ok guy so maybe you could talk to him about going out with him and seeing if you really want to go through with this. the whole thing that since you didn't go out with him, he decided to go out with a slut so when hes drunk he can get some. i'm not sure you want to go throught with him because of that aspect, he could be treating ou better because he wants some from you when you end up going out, but i could be wrong, you should relaly put some deep thought into this. good luck!
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Don't waste your time on this guy. Seems like he just wants some action anywhere he can get it. You don't want to be the "other woman" anymore than you want to be the woman he is cheating on. If he cheats on his current girlfriend, he'll cheat on you.
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well if HE's hurt you before then i would leave him and go for another guy, cuz no grl should be with a threat, but if you really like him and you think he treats you right then go for it! talk to him!
good luck
xoxo
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You've only known the guy for a month or so, yet you already know that he uses his girlfriend for sex and talks to another girl about breaking up with her. He does not seem like he's worth your time.
Even though he doesn't act like that towards you now, I'm willing to bet that he would be a complete ass if you gave him a chance to. If you see these bad qualities in him with one relationship, then he will always have these bad qualities.
You cannot expect it to be any different with you. Guys like this one are not worth it. Even he tells you that he plans on breaking up with her for you, you cannot trust that. Just the fact that he would go behind his girlfriends back and tell you something like that shows how much of an asshole he is.
My advice is to stay away from him and find someone who truly deserves you.
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I would talk to him about how you feel and how your scarred of getting hurt. That is totally normal though. I mean life is full of hurt. :( sad. But i would give him a chance i mean dont regret anything that made you smile once. I would most defintly make sure you talk to him. Not on the phone or online. In person-trix
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Ya, talk to him! Be flirty if you want to be with him! ((EVEN THO YOU ALREADY ARE!))
♥ Michelle
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