about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




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i dont know whats wrong with me but when i day dream its always about this one guy. I fantasize about him all most every second of the day. The weird thing is i never talked to him before. he lives near my grandma and whenever i go over i see him there. I think hes hot shyt but my mom and cousins wont let me tlak to him. I egt so mad when i go there and he doesnt come near me. why do i think about him all the time when i never even talked to him?

not to be mean or anything but you dont even know the guy... tell you mom and ur cousion you only want to be friends with this guy and get to know him better. i dont know if it is love but it can be there is a possibility.. you never know until you try.. get to know the guy better and then see if you like him..i hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay,me and my boyfriend loves each other but in a relationship there is always problems.when we talk on thephone he always talks to me like im his daughter or somethin,like he would tell me to shut up ,or say i always be lyin ,then he we would say he love me wat do i do??

your boyfriend should never control you. NEVER! he should respect you and let you do whatever the hell you want..if he is playin around with you like that then it is ok but if he means it then he really isnt worth it. if he calls you a lier then he doesnt trust you... you guys should be able to trust each other.. i think the best thing for you to do is break up with him... but if you like him then try talkin to him and tellin him how you feel..i hope everything works out for you and i hope i helped you out..
*~Stephanie~*

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I know this may sound weird, but i'm a girl, and i like hanging out with boys more than I do girls. It just seems that theres always awkward silences and I don't know what to say with girls. With boys, I can just act like myself and whats on my mind around them. Its not that im not friends with girls, i actually do have alot. but its more fun with boys. should I try to hang out with my own sex more or is this ok?? I feel a little weird and different thats all.

i am just like you i hang out with more guys then girls, even though i have a lot of friends that are girls, i think it is because dont have soo much drama as us girls do...lol..but it is normal you should be able to hang out wit who ever you want. hope this ehlps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok how come guys like never call girls?like i dont get it ..its not that hard ..but they allways say they will and never do it..dont say its becuase they dont like you b/c ik cases where guys are liek in love with girls but still dont call..please no stupid answers! 5 to anyone who answers unless its a smart or stupid answer

i was wonderin why my boyfriend neer called me back when he told me he would.. even though i noe he loves me... i dont think it is because he doesnt like you it might be because he busy and didnt have time to call you back... if it is botherin you sooo much tell him how you feel and ask him why he doesnt call you back..i mean you never know until you ask. i found out mine didnt call me back because his mom didnt like him being on the phone when she is home.. just talk to the guy about it.. alright.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey i just wanted to know if there is anyway that you could let people not see what your rating is? like take it out or something... anyone who can tell me how i'll give a 5 thanks

no there isnt a way to do that sorry.
*~Stephanie~*

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whats the 69 position what do i do? what does it look like?

14/f i rate high!

it means sex and your suckin on the guys dick and he is eatng you out.. get it.
*~Stephanie~*

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how come like in the middle of a kiss guys like to bite your lip a lil?..sorry if its a weird question. but please answer.thanks

guys do that because they think it is hot.. maybe next time you should do it to him next time.
*~Stephanie~*

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what exactly does "my cherry popped" mean?

it when a girl looses her virginty and she bleeds.
*~Stephanie~*

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I went out with this guy for like a couple months n then we broke up becasue he moved. Then we tried going out again but it lasted like a day (damn tipical long-distance relationship scenario). Since then I have talked to his friend alot and he even asked me out a couple times but I turned him down cuz I didn't like him like that at all and they were both on the phone trying to make me chose between them and I wouldnt so then the guy got off and i was stuck talkin to his friend but he said he thought i should go out with the guy I'd gone out with before...this would be so much easier with names...so here...lets say John and his friend Gary were talking to me and John got off and Gary said he figured I should probably go out with John again. I don't see any of this working out in the long run or anything, but I agreed because I figured I liked him alright and he'd be kinda a fall back guy...kinda like when I've got no one better to have a relationship with. I know that sounds really horrible, but it's not really like that...I do like him he just lives lightyears away is all. So should I keep going out with him or what? I don't know what to do...

o ya...16/f

first off fallow your heart do whatever you think is the right thing to do. long distance realtionships are hard but if you both love each other a lot then you guys can make it work out.. if you love him then stay with him if not then it isnt worth it.. i hope this helps you out a lil bit at least.
*~Stephanie~*

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my friend just told me she was talking to my boyfriend ont he hpone and he told her he didnt really like me anymore =[ and i kno shes not lieing cause like i dont kno you can just tell and cause the way hes been atcing . and knowing him he won't tell me this for like a week and i dont kno what to do

you should talk to him about and if you know that he is goin to do it you should do it yourself and save yourself some time and less drama.. if you like him a lot then talk to him and see if there is anything you can do maybe make the relationship work. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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how fast should ur hands go when giving a handjob?

you should go slow at first and then get faster lil by lil. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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do most guys prefer shaved or trimed? if so how should i shave .. whats the most shave and clean way

guys like it shaved completely but it is your body and you should do whatever you want with it. when shaving it you should use a lot of shaving cream or soap and a lot of water, beacause it is very sensative. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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hi this may sound stupid but was is a dildo and vibrator used for?
thx

they are things girls use to pleasure them self with like masterbating.
*~Stephanie~*

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What do i do when my mom just cares about her boyfriend and she never wants me and my sister around, and all she says to me and my sister is that were imbarssments, and i hear her having sex all the time with her boyfriend, and i found a vibrater in her room! what do i do i feels like i dont even have a mother!! when i was sick with the flu she didt come home til 6 o'clock in the morning I was rushed in emergancy room, thanks to my sister calling the ambulance! what do i do I NEED HELP!

Ps-she doesnt even make us dinner or anything

that is messed up. have you tryed talkign to your mom telling her how you feel and the way she is acting isnt the way a mother should act...i think you and your sister need to set her striaght.. if that doesnt work if you want to you can move in with a family memeber that you know cares about you and will take cafre of you. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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My boyfried & I were good friends before we developed feelings for eachother. Our relationship started slow, like he'd just put his arm around me in movies & we'd talk. Then things are getting closer & by only the third or fourth date, we make out most of the movie. I love showinnng my affection for him & he's a really sweet guy I just don't want things to get touchy-feely & nothing else. How can I make sure we don't base our relationship on lust?

talk to him about it and tell him how you feel.. if he loves you and cares about you he will listen to you and understand it.
*~Stephanie~*

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my gf is really shy and its hard to talk to her cause she changes the subject i know she loves me cause she tells me ALL! the time......which i like to hear.....and i want to know wut i can do to make her not as shy....and to tell me how she feels and stuff.....and a question for other girls what can i say to her to let her know i love her with out saying it.....lik to prove it i want her to be blown away so what can i say to her that she will love?

you should talk to her more often i know when i meet my bf i was really shy and i couldnt say anything to him. he kept calling me and talkin to me and know i tell him everything. you need to get clsoer with your girlfriend spend more time with her. open up to her and she will open up to you... what you can do to blow her away without sayin the words"i love u" is tell her how beautiful she is and how she is the only girl that is prefect for you, little sweet things like that. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Soo I really like this one kid and he likes me too. The only problem is that my mom and my best friend hate him. My best friend told me she*ll never talk 2 me again if i go out with him. The only reason the hate him is because he's black, Im white and they think Im to good for him and he is a jerk. He is the complete opposite of a jerk.He's one of the nicest guys i ever known. I know if we go out he'll treat me right, but no one will listen to me. My mom just judges him because he's black. She knows nothing other than that. I really really wannna go out with this kid, but i dont wanna lose my friendship or my moms respect.

hellp me pleaaazee

i have been in the same problem and i am in it agian. i am in love wit a black and my mom doesnt approve of it because he is black.. my best friend dosnt approve of it either but this guy repects me and treats me right. your friend should understand how you feel about this guy. mine wasnt to happy about it but know she doesnt anything about your friend should know that you dont like the same guy. you both have different taste in guys and she needs to understand. i am white but i dont like white guys i dont know why i dont but i just dont.my bf right now is black and my mom knows we are friends and nothin else. talk to your mom and tell her that you should be able to go out with any guy you want beacause it is your life... but be nice about it because if you dont you wont get anywhere. if that doesnt work tell her you and this guy are only friends. keep ur reltionship with this guy on the DL.. if your friend doesnt understand y you like this guy and respects that fact then she isnt a really good friend. she should stick by your side through thick and think no matter how hard it gets. i hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok i had this boyfriend for 6 months and i thought everything was going good. But after we did some stuff and my mom found out about it he broke up with me cuz he was scared. but he was my first love and i had never felt this way about a guy before. But now i think he likes another girl and i still love him. he told me we would probley go out agian but i am scared that he will hert me agian. what should i do with all of these emotions. everyone tells me i am to good for him but i always want him back. I really love him and hope he likes me agian. but what should i do???

please help! thnks

i think you should move on.. he isnt worth it. if you guys go back out your feelsin will get stronger and it will be even harder to let go and it will hurt even more.. understand? leave him alone and find yourself another boyfriend..if he truely loved he wouldnt have left you because your mom found he would have could have tryed keepin it on the low.. and if likes another girl that might be another reason why he left you beacause of another girl.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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um...this is gonna sound weird, but i'm 14, and i'm....like, hairy, if you know what i mean, my gf doesn't like it, how do i get rid of the hair without just shaving it, i've heard that doesn't work

shaving works but itf you dont want to do that then use Nair but i am not sure if that will work. if you want to Wax it go ahead but i am telling you noe it will hurt the first time a lot. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Whats the best way for a guy to masturbate? (that doesnt involve buying anything)

rubbing on ur cock with your hands
*~Stephanie~*

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