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i was just wondering if this makes me fat.. because i think i am.. im 16 i weigh 107 and i wear size 5 pants.. just wondering what you think please be honest.

i am being 100% honest because that is what i do here. YOU ARE NOT FAT. in fact, you are underweight for your age group. your weight is like, perfect. girls would love to be that. so no, absolutely not!

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well i was hanging out with some guys aboout 2 years older than me. i have only been friends with them for like a month, and i think one of them (Josh) is incredible hott. So i was with the guys and josh was there and he kept staring at me. so i was like why are u staring at me? and hes like your really pretty. and he started smiling... but idk if i believe him or not. is he only doing this as a joke since he knows i think hes hott? should i trust him, or is he just doing this to show off for his friends?

hang out with him just the two of you. then see how he acts. then you will definitely be able to see whether or not he likes you. if it for some reason won't happen (you two hanging out alone) then just ask him straight up how he feels about you. tell him how you feel back. hope this helps.

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is sex a verb or a noun?

noun.

sexed is a verb. = )

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My 8th grade prom is coming up(towards the end of the school yr.) and its not a problem to find a date for the prom the problem is that i get nervous dancing infront of people i dont know why though. Just to let you'll know i do know how to dance. If anyone has any tips on ways i could get over this please let me know!

practice in front of a mirror. then you'll be used to seeing yourself dance. then dance with some of your close friends. (like if they're over or whatever just randomly blast music and have your own little dance party) you won't be nervous after a while.

p.s. if you stay in a big group dancing at the prom, no one will be looking RIGHT at you dancing, so there's nothing to be worried about. besides, everyone else is worried about what they look like too. = )

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ok so my moms going into operation tomorrow. and its not a big one. but im just scared cause she told me you can die over the littlest ones too. and im really worried.. what can i do to get my mind off of everything?

don't stay alone. there is nothing you can possibly do to take your mind off this when you are. go out with some friends and try to have a good time. i hope all goes well, and don't be worried.

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What are some good party ideas for a party in a basement in the winter. Food, decoration, game ideas? There is probably going to be around either 30 or 15 people whether i decide to invite some people.

ok well it sort of depends on what kind of party it is and how old you are..but i guess for food, pizza is always really good and super easy. or you could grill food. (burgers hotdogs etc.)get lots of chips and fill bowls. any candy. get tons of soda/water. (unless you want beer i'm not sure how old you are) for decorations just have a lot of cool streamers hanging and stuff, and if you want you could even go and rent a strobe light for dancing. for games you could do classic spin the bottle, truth or dare, get a huge game of poker going, twister, for fun you could even get like a pinata. DANCING is always fun. then for music if you want to go all out you could hire like a local DJ and he could just play for you all night. or just make a mixtape of all your favorite songs. hope i helped and good luck!

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I've just shaved my legs and no hair has come off. Do you have to apply quite a lot of pressure? I'm scared of cutting myself and those hair removal creams take aaages and don't work all that well on me...I only have til Friday so I can't go out and buy wax either. What can I do?

it might be your razor. if it's really dull? you need a brand new razor, and yes you sort of need to apply a lot of pressure. just go in a straight line all the way up and you won't get cut.

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i really like this guy and he looks at me everyday in social studies and makes a face only once but hes always staring at me and he knows i like him so what does it mean and how do i get him to ask me out?

it either means he's looking at you because he likes you too, or he's looking at you because he knows you like him. tell him to his face how you feel, and if he feels the same way he'll ask you out right then.

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can someone tell me what is the code that you got to use for myspace to put a song in not a music video and can someone tell me if you can have a music play list like u can have on xanga? thanks i will rate all

www.singingfool.com then go to "my shows" and you can make a playlist.

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i sweat alot and i use good deodarant but i find that i stink by the end of the school day and i wont take off my hoodie. whats hould i do?

its not the sweat that smells, its the odor caused by bacteria on your skin mixed with all the nasty natural chemicals. so i suggest showering twice a day. artifical material makes you swear MORE so wear pure cotton. wash your clothes everyday. (dont wear the same thing twice) the best deodrants for sweating have aluminum chloride hexahydrate in them. = ) if this doesnt work. make an appt. with your docter. you might have hyperhidrosis. (excsessive sweating)

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hey everyone...ok im home sick and im bored and i have been wanting to make a new screename for about a week and now i have the time. My current screename is ExOh BeechBabii i have no idea what i want my new one to be..so i will rate high for any ideas on new screenames...but they cant be inappropriate or whatever...thanks :]

xo_lauren_xo

xolifesaBEACHox
oceanxbreeze5
xxlaurenxx
sunnyhunny28
calixlover23
lbeach05
CALIhereicome6
beachbum08
beachbabe74
yourxmyxonlyxone
helloxsunshine
just a ride xo
oceanxavenue05
missxcalifornia63
lovelyXOtan
dreaminxofxyou
iamlaurennn

hope you like. = )


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how do you get avatars in your myspace??

http://www.htmate.com/

if you go here. then on the top there is a panel then a place that says " avatars". then you click on the one you want. and it says the code underneath. you just copy and paste the code anywhere into your myspace.

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okay well i have a bf and hes gone for about 2 weeks so i wont be able to see him and i barley get to talk to him. but the thing is wen hes not gone we dont talk (well barley anyway)) and the thing is im started to like this other guy. and i dont want to but then again i do becuz hes not shy unlike my bf and idk what to do im so confused right now. please help me.

well you obviously have feelings for the other guy more then you do your BF. break up. follow your heart and go out with the other guy.

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I'm a brunette and I was wondering if anyone can tell me how to loose all your body hair fast.
And also if you or some close tried the product or whatever it is.
Thanks

the fastest way to lose ALL your body hair is to just get it all waxed. shaving works but only if your doing your legs, armpits, and umm under there. = )

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Is it ok for christans to masterbate? I want to know befor I start. Thanks.

of course. who says no?

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well my ex boyfriend is always sitting next to this girl Kaitlin at lunch... and it really makes me mad! im so jealous that hes like basically in "love" with her when i cant get him to go back out with me! i guess im trying to say... how do i get him to like me again..? DONT say, talk to him or that kinda crap! im trying to win him over! ((will rate 5's))

wear something he will find sexy. (hollister or AF miniskirt) guys love it. a cute top. wear your hair down. do your makeup really pretty. he'll be like "damn why am i not with her?" every chance you can talk with him. FLIRT. like none other. look over your shoulder and smile real flirty. do this and pretty soon hopefully you'll have your man back, and that kaitlin chick will be a loner. = )

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I need some help on picking something out for my boyfriend for christmas... We havent been going out long but i really like him. I want to show him so I want to buy him something that he'll really like. If guys have ideas for me for my boyfriend... please let me know! THANKS :)

make him a realllyyy realllyy nice dinner for the two of you. (like kind of fancy type) then get him some nice cologne. guys love that. = )

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hey guys well my Best friend moved away a little less than a year ago and we talked every day.. until a couple weeks ago we started drifting away and its sad its like she doesnt care any more. soo im looking for some quotes that are like about best friends who drift away and its sad and you miss them or something so if you have any thank you..

im sorry about your friend. but i really hope these help. = )

there are moments in my life that i will always remember. not because they were important but because they were with you

nothing hurts more than realizing two
people who were once soo close
barely speak a word anymore..

you said you would always be there for me
but i guess we had different definitions of always'

its crazy how someone you were
so close with just sort of left you
behind and never looked back.

the more i [ t H i n K ] about you
the - m o r e - i *miss you* . . . the
more i m i s s y o u . . . the more
my heart breaks into two AGAiN

hide my tears when i say your name
for the pain in my heart - - ยป is still the
same. . . although i *smile* and i seem
to be carefree . . . there is nobody on
earth who misses you more than me

[ i bet you'll never remember ]
[ the things i'll never forget ]

we used to be best friends ;
stay up til 4 in the morning
talkin about random things
we had our little fights and moved on.
we use to do each others make-up && hair
and have a good time.
but now i see you in the hallway
&& we pass each other
like we never knew each others middle names.

never make someone your everything.
because when they leave..
you have nothing

it's not about who you've known the longest,
it's about who never left your side

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hey guys i have a question about itunes. so i was trying to download itunes 6 and after i do it say please reinstall...i have done this about 6 times and i get this message every time. what should i do i have tried restarting my computer...that is what brought on the problem.

if it's not letting you, it might be because of the version of your computer you have. some itunes wont let you upgrade with certain versions or whatever.

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Today at school, during lunch, i got bored.
we guys were sitting on the bench outside and they dared me to walk up to a guy and slap him for no reason at all. Being bored, i did it and kinda slapped him harder than I intended. I am not usually a violent or mean person but that was pretty mean. It turns out he is one of those sensitive guys. ( not sensitve as in gay, more like as in easy to fell upset and has plenty of emotions.)Most guys just laugh when you do crap like that, but he almost started crying. I felt bad, and went to appologize to him but he didn't quite accept my appologies. He was saying "forget it" but he still looked all emotional.
I feel really guilty about it now and i want to know how i can apologize to him.

umm. your a dick. (if your a guy) yeah. basically. you should sincerely apologize with none of your little friends who dared you to do that around, and ask to take him to lunch on you or something nice like that. that would be the right thing to do. oh and p.s.never do anything like that again.

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