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any one who wants to answer please do i need to find out what she thinks about me b4 its to late (link)
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This should help you out. =)
http://becomeaplayer.com/bodylanguage.htm
http://wrapper.askmen.com/s?from=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.askmen.com%2Fdating%2Fdating_top_ten%2F50_dating_list.html&siteId=9549&size=entryinterstitial&cKey=4619337-13323776551194222592989&docTitle=AskMen.com%20-%20Signs%20a%20girl%20likes%20you
http://en.allexperts.com/q/Know-Really-Likes-1835/signs-1.htm
http://www.indobase.com/holidays/valentines-day/valentine-day-tips/she-loves-me-or-not.html
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I like this girl and I asked her out but she dosent know to say yes or no, How do I get her to say yes. (link)
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This should help you out. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=504399
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I recently watched R.L. Stine's The Haunting Hour, and I liked the music in it a lot. However, I returned the movie before I could find the song titles in the credits, and I couldn't find the songs online. Does anyone know if there is a soundtrack for this movie, or if there is any way I can find out what songs were included in the movie? Thanks so much. (link)
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I don't think they've released a soundtrack for this movie, I can't find it anywhere. However, I did find some of the songs that were in the movie. =)
http://imdb.com/title/tt0905994/soundtrack
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ok srry if its kinda long.....so i have this guy friend that i like alot and were really good friends he tells me personal things that he doesnt tell his best friend and we play around at school alot like we have this game going where when 1 of us sees the other we gently push them so that they lose their balance and almost fall over but he started it and we flirt alot but playfully i guess and i really really like him but i dont want to mess up our friend ship either and idk if he likes me either but i really really
dont no wat to do!!
thanx ahead of time (link)
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This right here should help you out a lot. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
As far as ruining your friendship, honestly, it could get ruined anyway. And not dating only because of that reason is only going to make you regret it, and even make you lose your friendship because of NOT dating. So I wuldn't worry about that at all.
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Okay well I'm 13 and I've had acne scince I was early 12 years old.I think I'm quite pretty but I think I could reach my full potentiol without the acne.I was wondering if anyone has something free or very cheap [like under 5 bucks] and hopefully natural but doesn't have to be for my acne.I'll love you forever I swear ! lol so please help. (link)
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Hi, this is a method my good friend Jack, came up with and it really works! And believe me, this is just about the cheapest you can get. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507367
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ok me and him like eachother but hes talking about this do you think hes trying to make me jealous? i didnt really get jealous but is he? we were talking on aim and this is the convo:
him you know this 1 vietnamese girl keeps flirting with me
him: kick her butt
me: hahah
me: what the heck
me: no
me: ahhaha
me: vietnamese girl
me: hahaha
him:yeah she keep massaging me and stuff
me: hahahah
me: haha
me: how does it feel
him: its cool shes good
him: better than u
him: haha
me: =]
him: HAHAHA
me: ahhaha
him: hey
him: !
me: yes
me ?
him: you suck....
me: what?
me: how
me: i didnt do anything
him :exactly
what does it mean when i said"i didnt do anything? and he said exactly? (link)
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Yes, he's totally trying to make you jealous here (what he's saying may not even be true). When he said, "I didn't do anything..exactly." he was trying to make you jealous by thinking that he may have kissed her, or done something with her.
By the way, this should be some useful information for you. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
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I've never gotten high. I've been offered many things, but I declined it. But since I'm getting out of high school soon, I would like to get high once. Just a experience, nothing more as a habit. Since my boyfriend was really hooked to getting high. He quit for a long time. So he's happy that we are getting high together, for my 'first time' ha. I just .. don't know what to expect and how it effects you. What are all the names of the pills? I get so lost when he speaks of them. It's just named for it's color and size.. or for the effect? How long are you high? How do you act? I've never interacted with my high friends.. so i'm completely lost. I don't want to freak out. Please no "don't get high, it's stupid" it's just one try. i know i won't get hooked over it because of a personal reason /that doesn't concern health/.
Any details and stuff.. email at vegancon@gmail.com
thanks! (link)
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You say you won't get hooked on it, but you will. Every drug addict or even an alcoholic will tell you this, and it's the truth. That's like me, a daughter of two [former] alcoholic parents, saying I'm just going to drink once and I'll never do it again....that isn't going to happen. Sorry if I'm being a bit harsh here, but you need to here the truth. And if I told you to go and get high, it would go against everything I believe in.
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I've liked this one guy for quite a long time now and it seemed like he kinda liked me to cause he'd always be staring and just stupid little things like that. We never really talked much even though we've been in the same period 4 class for 2 semesters because hes more of the jock type and im just kinda floating around lolll.
So every halloween people sponsor a dance called SPOOK-O-RAMA and everyone goes.
So he was there along with the guy my best friend likes.
This boy kept following me around, staring, and at times it looked like he'd try and come over but he chicked out. So it was like 10 minutes before I had to leave so I just went up to him and asked him to dance.
HE SAW ME COMING AND PRETTY MUCH REFUSED TO LOOK ME IN THE FACE. I go up to him:
Me: "hey, wanna dance?"
him: *mumble* no
me: "Common :) "
him: *tries to show me he's tired with his eyes*
me: "k whatever *walks away*"
It wasnt even like a "nice" no, it was like "im too good for you so you better go away" kinda no. lmfao.
cocky-ass attitude. He danced with me at the previous 2 dances so I didn't think he'd really say no this time ANNNDD I made sure his friends weren't around when I asked cause they like to tease.
like WTF.
Then on Thursday and Friday he KEEPS STARING AND ITS LIKE IF YOU DONT LIKE ME THEN EFF OFF!!!! I turned around at lunch on Friday and he was facing me and when I looked his eye quickly darted away and then I left and he pretty much WATCHED me leave. ughhhh.
God its so frustrating.
Im overrrrrrr him and all this nonsense but I'm still sorta stuck cause its like "if you dont like me, then why are you staring?" you don't stare at someone if you don't have even just a little bit of interest? Right? Am I wrong?
Sorry this seems kinda out there.
Its just really pissing me off.
Why would he do that?
ANY OPINIONS? (link)
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He sounds like a wishy-washy guy -- one minute he likes you and wants to be with you, the next he doesn't even act like he wants to be around you. It seems like he does like you, however, I don't know if there's something holding him back or if he's just playing games with you..I really don't know what his deal is. But I think you should take a look at this link here, it should help you out. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
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ok. i am 13. 132 lbs, five foot 6.5. i play soccer and basketball and have a 2 hour workout (practices and games)6 days a week. what is a good way i can lose weight? (specific food plans would be appreciated) thanks :) (link)
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I think you're at a really healthy weight, so I wouldn't recommend losing any. However, some things that you can do to maintain your healthy weight, is to try not to eat a bunch of sugar (sweets). It's fine to eat them, just in moderation -- not all the time. And with the sports you play and your workout, I think you already have adapted to great exercise. Good job!
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hey i would like a screen name...but i cant think of one.
My name is mackenzie and i say woah a lot.
if u can help me...please do it.
i would greatly appreaciate it. (link)
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If you're blonde...
*Blondie
*Blondarama
*DirtyBlonde
If you're brunette...
*BrilliantBrunette
If you like Starbucks...
*StarbucksStruck
*CafeeMocha
If none of these really fit you...
*Send me another inbox question please, telling me a little more about yourself (what you like to do, bands you like, etc.).
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black highlights at the front and side maybe would look good with dark brown hair?!
just wondering,thanks. (link)
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I think black highlights with brown hair is a good idea, but only at the front and on the sides wouldn't look too great (in my opinion). I think if you did black highlights all through your hair, that would look great!
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okay well ive been on ortho tryclen lo for only two weeks. on the 11th day. i had sex, without a condom, he did not ejaculate in me. whats the odds of me being pregnant? thankss. (link)
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Very good odds, in my opinion. You're supposed to wait until you have been on birth control one month, before having sex. And especially, since you didn't wear a condom (that makes your risk higher to become pregnant).
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I get those white spots on my chin and weird places like on the end of my eyebrow closest to my nose... They're like acne spots underneath the skin, like it's a big bump that's not red or anything, but deep and crazy. I have one now one the side of my chin. Is there a natural way I can get rid of these bumps really fast, like in a day or so? (link)
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Yes, and this really does work. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507367
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Does anybody know any songs about stereotyping? Like how it is bad and it hurts people?
thanks! (link)
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This isn't exactly about sterostypes, but it is about people who tell lies, the shallow people, etc. I think you'll really enjoy it, it's a good song.
"Misery" by Good Charlotte.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=LCTM37-OwnI
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Ok , my bf and I have been going out for a few months. Is it ok if I don't like him as much as he likes me? lately, he's just been more of a friend. I know that if we broke up, i'd start cruching on him again. This happens with almost all of the guys I go out with. It's like, you love him, but once you're going out, it's just different. Please help! (link)
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I think you're having trouble knowing exactly what you want, and more than likely -- until you figure out what or who you want, your relationships will continue in the same pattern.
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my bf wants to try anal. i thought he was kidding because he always said no, it's gross. i guess not this time. i really don't want to. for so many years of being anemic and constipated from my diet, the idea of a penis being shoved up there.. is not appealing. i've had friends say it's not pleasurable and everything. that it's only good for the guy because it's tight. he 'missed' once and that was a bitch.
so what's your anal experiences? horrible, good? :/ (link)
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Razhie has given you the best advice, please follow it. Don't do anything you're not comfortable with, especially, just because of your boyfriend or someone else's experiences.
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I really really like this guy. I thought he liked me too, but just recently he got a new gf... How do you go after someone who has a gf? do you just wait to see how their relationship goes, move on... what? please help (link)
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I'm sorry, but I'm going to have to agree with the others and say move on. At least for now, more than likely, they won't stay together forever. So if/when they do break up, that's when you can go for it. But now, I don't recommend it, that would go against everything I believe in.
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Ok at Wal-Mart, I bought 'Sally Hansen- Hair Remover Wax Strip Kit'
is it ok if i wax my arms? (link)
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Two words: Bad idea. And I have a better one, and it's the best I've come up with for this problem, or should I say Sally Hansen has come up with? Anyhoo, it's called "Spray on, Shower Off" by Sally Hansen. It really works, I use it -- there isn't anything better than this, it's a miracle worker. I promise, it isn't a waste of money.
http://www.sallyhansen.com/product.cfm?product=132
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i have a hair dryer from brookstone and on the box it says the dryer is good for the hair and stuff.. is this true? (link)
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I don't see how it could be good for your hair, unless it's only applying to the styling of your hair. Otherwise, it can't be healthy for your hair because any type of heat subjected to your hair -- damages it.
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Is it dangerous to eat the same food every day?? I've been eating the same cereal every morning for breakfast for a few years. There's rumors that it can be bad for you, but I can't break the habit. Are these just rumors?? Anyone else do this?? Ideas/opinions?? Thanks!! (link)
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No, I don't think it's a rumor. From my understanding, it's not-so-good for you because you aren't getting a variety of different foods. Meaning different/more proteins, nutrients and other things you need to keep you healthy and energized.
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